Terrible, and you got guys out here saying you’ll get stds from fukkin mad chicks.
But you better off fukkin mad chicks with condoms than fukkin a hoe you thought wasn’t a hoe unprotected.
It sucks, but this is the reality my g.
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Terrible, and you got guys out here saying you’ll get stds from fukkin mad chicks.
But you better off fukkin mad chicks with condoms than fukkin a hoe you thought wasn’t a hoe unprotected.
It sucks, but this is the reality my g.
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
shyt got me fukked up. I was best man at their wedding and all that.
Got a couple of phone numbers from chicks at the club tonight
Time to never hear from them again
Got two baddies the other night from club. One didn’t message at all. The other messages back for every couple messages (I’m only tryna fukk) and literally within seconds. She lives with the phone in her hand.
Goon for hire
All Star
Why does the game gotta be so cold?
I’ve been cheated on by 2 girlfriends and that shyt made me HURT BAD. Can’t imagine how it feels when your wife whom you thought was the one and made vows to does it.
It ain’t fair, it’s aint fair at all.
Killigraphy
Banned
She's DTF, but don't make it anything serious. One of the three main tenets when dealing with one women is; Never assume you're the first one she's done anything with.
To my Naija brehs, is it just me, but do you feel like there just isn't any pressure to get married or settle down? Like the cards are just too heavily stacked in our favour.
Was talking to my mom the other day and she was talking about how I'm 24 and she hasn't really seen me date anyone. I told her I'm really not stressing.
Personally, I got a decent enough family network of young eligible women, but most importantly, I like to date with intent, not just date around for the sake of it.
Was talking to my mom the other day and she was talking about how I'm 24 and she hasn't really seen me date anyone. I told her I'm really not stressing.
Personally, I got a decent enough family network of young eligible women, but most importantly, I like to date with intent, not just date around for the sake of it.
young yeesh
All Star
I’m Ghanaian and I won’t speak for you, but I’ll say that when I was in grade school, my religious parents talked down against dating classmates and watching certain shows/movies that even had kissing. so I never got the habit of “asking a girl out” in 7th grade and shyt like that. It made me really cringy as a kid and I wasn’t getting no play, but since I glowed up, got on my purpose, got bulkier etc, I still don’t fiend to be cuffed today. That’s why it’s so easy for me to be selective
I agree with the bolded. Compared to most of my American classmates, I wasn't in the field at all. Where as kids were getting BFs/GFs I was out there on my Nintendo DS lol.
How old you now if you don't mind me asking?
My parents always tell me that I should until I'm in my thirties to settle down. There's no pressure on my end at all, so you might be right
Meanwhile they're pressuring my sister to get married and she's 27
My parents always tell me that I should until I'm in my thirties to settle down. There's no pressure on my end at all, so you might be right
Meanwhile they're pressuring my sister to get married and she's 27
Yea, once chicks hit 30 in Nigeria there's mad pressure to get married.
"Ohh, so Chinyere is 33 and she hasn't married"
young yeesh
All Star
I’m 18 rn. 2nd year in college
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
You older brehs taught me so well on this that I’m perfectly at peace with this.
This thread has been a gift and a curse
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
I feel the pressure in the aspect of I have a long life ahead of me but I still want my grandparents to be around and my parents to still be in great shape when I do have a family.
I don't want to be having a family in my mid-30s wishing my children could have met a family member no longer here.
It's something I never thought bout until I recently lost my little brother. Like one day I will be married or have a child and one of the first thoughts will be..... damn my bro not here to be a great uncle
other than that it's really no pressure because single life in my 20s dope af right now. my mom be complaining she want grandkids... like mom do you got grandkids money? lol
This is the only pressure on me tbh. My dad had me when he was 27 and my mom was 24. I'm 24 now and my dad is just 51 and my grandmother is 70. I get to enjoy my relationship with them differently and if I was like 15 or so.
And sorry about your loss man.
Straw Hat Luffy
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Yeah, women do shyt based on their emotions. Some of their reasonings are actually understandable if dudes sat down and used the logic they claim to have.
Lot's of bogus shyt women do can't be excused for but then there are a lot of shyt men can control if they stopped being so introspective for once.
One quick example is my buddies and I were close to another buddy. That other buddy is always with his girlfriend. Eventually, buddy and his girlfriend stopped answering our messages and that led to them never hanging out with us. The girlfriend deletes all of us from social media. My friends are all mad that our buddy never hangs out with us to the point one of them deletes the buddy from all social media. The decision was made drunk and my friend's reasoning was: "if he doesn't want to hang out, then I will just keep him out of my life completely."
I took the other route. I go out of my way to send her another friend request. I see them at a bar and we have a great time and she asks for my snapchat acting like she didn't delete me and both of them are inviting me to events to hangout with them. Knowing women use emotion the most, I try thinking from her perspective. If I had to guess she could tell some of my friends got annoyed she was always around. My friend who deleted our buddy from social media always trying to have a guys night because it's a getaway from his own girlfriend. My friend and a few others were never good at keeping that emotion down when our buddy's gf would be around.
The result? She assumes we all hate her so in return none of us can hang out with our buddy. None of my friends realize this but me. I make her feel welcome with me and next thing you know they want me to hang out all the time.
Sidenote: if you have a friend who has a girlfriend that has ruined the clique or she seems bytchish too you, but it's most likely because she's defensive since she doesn't feel apart of the group.
Lot's of bogus shyt women do can't be excused for but then there are a lot of shyt men can control if they stopped being so introspective for once.
One quick example is my buddies and I were close to another buddy. That other buddy is always with his girlfriend. Eventually, buddy and his girlfriend stopped answering our messages and that led to them never hanging out with us. The girlfriend deletes all of us from social media. My friends are all mad that our buddy never hangs out with us to the point one of them deletes the buddy from all social media. The decision was made drunk and my friend's reasoning was: "if he doesn't want to hang out, then I will just keep him out of my life completely."
I took the other route. I go out of my way to send her another friend request. I see them at a bar and we have a great time and she asks for my snapchat acting like she didn't delete me and both of them are inviting me to events to hangout with them. Knowing women use emotion the most, I try thinking from her perspective. If I had to guess she could tell some of my friends got annoyed she was always around. My friend who deleted our buddy from social media always trying to have a guys night because it's a getaway from his own girlfriend. My friend and a few others were never good at keeping that emotion down when our buddy's gf would be around.
The result? She assumes we all hate her so in return none of us can hang out with our buddy. None of my friends realize this but me. I make her feel welcome with me and next thing you know they want me to hang out all the time.
Sidenote: if you have a friend who has a girlfriend that has ruined the clique or she seems bytchish too you, but it's most likely because she's defensive since she doesn't feel apart of the group.
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