zerorequiem
All Star
I'm just gonna chalk this summer up as an L, and get back in the gym all winter in time for spring. If I start now and just stack paper and go hard in the gym.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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A few contacted me with the bullshyt ‘wyd’ or hey “I was just thinking about you” text and I always hit em with the “who dis?”Lmao they get butt hurt. Then go into oh you erased my number? I lie. Naw babe, phone dumped my contacts and I’m not doing much so lol lol
who are you? Lmao there begins the shenanigans lol
You can’t run back to me after some other dude done wiped his dikk across your lips. I need you to crawl. Show me.....you deserve to have it all!
I want to take my turn too!
lol i usually add that contact to whatsapp sometimes you can see a profile photo or their name.
i dont even add chicks contacts to my phone anymore
Why was it an L?
zerorequiem
All Star
More so for me, didn't really get in the gym like I should have. I didn't want to hit the beach up looking flabby and sick. Blowing too much money on nothing. Just reset my priorities.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
My Monday turned out better than I expected. Got one shorty campaigning to be the main right now. Seems like she wants to be locked down for the cold months like Vertigo was talking about. We went out on our second date, for lunch/drinks and that turned into her staying at my crib Monday night. I ended up having to cancel my evening plans with this other shorty and I thought for sure she would’ve been furious with me on some “don’t hit me up anymore” type shyt but we’re gonna chill tonight after I get off work.
Asked the first one for directions to class, said she was going to the same building and that she would show me, we started walking there and started talking about basic shyt (majors, year, liking the school) when we got there I told her I thought she was cute and asked for her snap. She told me thanks but she had a boyfriendand that she would see me around
Second one I tried she just straight up ignored the kid. I’m too pretty for bytches to be ignoring me breh
shyt like this why I’m gonna start pawging again. To make it worse I basically passed up a white chick to try to get at the second girl
I'm sorry this happened to you breh.
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
How do y'all deal with not looking at other women while in a relationship?
It's especially hard if youre a conventionally attractive dude since they look back. Especially if you have a girl they like nikkas that already have girls for some reason.
It's especially hard if youre a conventionally attractive dude since they look back. Especially if you have a girl
they like nikkas that already have girls for some reason.Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
The women out here are trash. That’s how you do it?How do y'all deal with not looking at other women while in a relationship?
It's especially hard if youre a conventionally attractive dude since they look back. Especially if you have a girl
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
THought id pen this before i head to bed....
Im sitting around here, only gotten some intermittent texts and a very brief phone call from the chick im dating (long distance at that). Communication between us has been suspect this week (we were establishing a daily 3 hour convo routine).
And its got me all triggered. Im worried. Paranoid. Vengeful. Figured if she gonna be like this, i might as well check other bytches on the app
Then it hits me
aside from the fact that Im freaking out about what could amount to nothing...aside from the fact that we all are busy grown adults with lives outside of one another...aside from all that....
Man, life is really really good right now.
For the first time in a very long time, my life is stable. Secure. Im making more money than i've ever made. Been having some health issues but guess what? Nothing major. Nothing diet and exercise cant fix. My career is on a righteous track. Hell my folks who shouldve divorced 58583 times already, celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary last week.
IM at a point where, yes im looking to settle down with a partner....but if I cant find one? I still know what the fukk im doing tomorrow morning when i wake up. No chick has made that much of a difference in my life for me to genuinely want, or need their presence.
Additionally, even if old girl is playing me....ok...so? Not like anything I can do is gonna prevent that. The only thing I can do for sure is decide how I react to that.
And yknow what I did?
I deleted the app. Im not gonna try and get "another thing set up" contingency plan in case this doenst work out with me and ol girl.
IM doubling down on being more understanding. And flexible. And accepting that we all are bringing baggage of being adults.
I cant spend my entire dating life wanting to be with someone, but also letting their (perceived) behaviors tilt me into having a fragile ego that I have to constantly protect. Because thats all that behavior of "keeping bytches on the side" was, at least for me. Im done giving someone that much control over my decision making.
Plus, its never worth it. ive never gotten a substantial quality return for the amount of money, time, and energy I spend into chasing and juggling bytches.
Ultimately what im saying and what i wanted to share is, this shyt is about power and control brehs. I realized how much indirect power over my life ive been giving women. Ive been trying to do things differently and realize that true "victory" is alot different from how ive always viewed it.
Victory is peace in your decision making and comfort in knowing you control you.
Im sitting around here, only gotten some intermittent texts and a very brief phone call from the chick im dating (long distance at that). Communication between us has been suspect this week (we were establishing a daily 3 hour convo routine).
And its got me all triggered. Im worried. Paranoid. Vengeful. Figured if she gonna be like this, i might as well check other bytches on the app
Then it hits me
aside from the fact that Im freaking out about what could amount to nothing...aside from the fact that we all are busy grown adults with lives outside of one another...aside from all that....
Man, life is really really good right now.
For the first time in a very long time, my life is stable. Secure. Im making more money than i've ever made. Been having some health issues but guess what? Nothing major. Nothing diet and exercise cant fix. My career is on a righteous track. Hell my folks who shouldve divorced 58583 times already, celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary last week.
IM at a point where, yes im looking to settle down with a partner....but if I cant find one? I still know what the fukk im doing tomorrow morning when i wake up. No chick has made that much of a difference in my life for me to genuinely want, or need their presence.
Additionally, even if old girl is playing me....ok...so? Not like anything I can do is gonna prevent that
. The only thing I can do for sure is decide how I react to that.And yknow what I did?
I deleted the app. Im not gonna try and get "another thing set up" contingency plan in case this doenst work out with me and ol girl.
IM doubling down on being more understanding. And flexible. And accepting that we all are bringing baggage of being adults.
I cant spend my entire dating life wanting to be with someone, but also letting their (perceived) behaviors tilt me into having a fragile ego that I have to constantly protect. Because thats all that behavior of "keeping bytches on the side" was, at least for me. Im done giving someone that much control over my decision making.
Plus, its never worth it. ive never gotten a substantial quality return for the amount of money, time, and energy I spend into chasing and juggling bytches.
Ultimately what im saying and what i wanted to share is, this shyt is about power and control brehs. I realized how much indirect power over my life ive been giving women. Ive been trying to do things differently and realize that true "victory" is alot different from how ive always viewed it.
Victory is peace in your decision making and comfort in knowing you control you.
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We need more pics/ text on this thread
Asked the first one for directions to class, said she was going to the same building and that she would show me, we started walking there and started talking about basic shyt (majors, year, liking the school) when we got there I told her I thought she was cute and asked for her snap. She told me thanks but she had a boyfriend
Second one I tried she just straight up ignored the kid. I’m too pretty for bytches to be ignoring me breh
shyt like this why I’m gonna start pawging again. To make it worse I basically passed up a white chick to try to get at the second girl
Stay at it...
Posture
Energy
Eyes
Positivity
If those 4 are hitting, it's only a matter of time
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
So much truth in this 
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This BS is why I stopped confirming with chicks. If they don’t hit me up to confirm I just do something else.Sunday:
Me: hey you wanna do happy hour on Tuesday around 6:30pm?
Her: yeah sure, that sounds cool
Today:
Me at 4pm: hey, just wanted to make sure we are still on for happy hour today
Her: Hey I didn’t think we were going anymore because I didn’t hear from you earlier today so I agreed to do some stuff at work that I have to get out today. Might be a late night
Me:
Good escape, I had to do something similar a few months backwas sort of a a$$hole today
forgive me brehs for i almost sinned. The coffers have been empty so i matched with this sexy ass chick didn't even check her profile got to talking.
I tell her on saturday lets meet up she says tuesday at 8 works for her.
Then on sunday she tellls me she has two kids with two seperate dudes.
I said oh and then said absolutely nothing the past few days figuring out a way how to get out of this without being a azzhole
she just hit me up with the message so much for the meetup. I said you never said anything
she said you're the man
I said what is this 1948you're a grown adult if you really wanted to you could have said something
she said the man is suppose to make the plans and finalize
I said i guess i'm not that man
she said bye it was nice talking to you
btw yes I do make plans and finalize with chicks I actually want to meet up with
