Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SATAN]

So I talked to my female friend to get more clarity about everything I discussed with yall.

She said that I am her only male friend, and that there are so many positives that come from hanging out with me compared to her girlfriends or the guys she's dating.

When she's with her girlfriends, she feels like they are very envious and competitive with her. If something good happens in her life, her female friends are not very supportive, or they have a passive-agressive comment that shows they are not happy for her. She says she has to bite her tongue sometimes when something good happens in her life because her girlfriends are insecure or will be upset about it. Before she became friends with me, she used to worry about her female friends abandoning her. But since she has met me, she doesn't worry about that anymore.

With people she's dating, she can't be too friendly all the time and has to focus more about being romantic and not platonic. Also they tend to get jealous and they try to control her somewhat. For example, she likes to dance salsa but the guys she's dating feel insecure and don't want her dancing with other guys, even though it's her passion and hobby.

When she hangs out with me, she days it's a lot more simple. She can be 100% open and be herself without worrying, she doesn't have to worry about me being envious or jealous, there is less pressure. She can relax and be herself without having to bite her tongue or cater to anyone. I don't have any ulterior motive so she doesn't have to hide anything. Also she can hang out with me without being put on a pedestal and that I don't hit on her or flirt with her. She admits that by having me nearby, I am also blocking guys from trying to get at her, she says she's annoyed by guys trying to ask her out all the time. The only time she can go to the gym without getting hit on is when she goes to the gym with me, and I'm serious about working out, training, and that's it.

Why don’t you want to fukk her ?

We've been on a strictly platonic level of friendship for long enough that I just don't see her as a potential sexual or romantic partner. I see her on the same level as I would a female cousin, if that makes any sense.

 

[Balla]

Different things works for others I guess. I do agree one should strengthen that confidence to the highest degree. Breh @DarianaGrande has said he's in shape but unfortunately still got some self esteem issues to work out.

He said he has a good career and money too

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Different things works for others I guess. I do agree one should strengthen that confidence to the highest degree. Breh @DarianaGrande has said he's in shape but unfortunately still got some self esteem issues to work out.

I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym"

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.

 

[Silkk]

Breh got hit with the “You’re such a good guy” shyt

 

[Rozay Oro]

He said he has a good career and money too

It's his lack of confidence and charisma.

 

[George Gooney]

I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym"

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.

whats your stats breh? How long you been lifting?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

whats your stats breh? How long you been lifting?

6'1 215.

I want to get under 200 so I'm cutting right now. But I been lifting seriously for about a year now.

Once I reach my goal weight I'll make a before and after thread in The Gym.
I was damn near 400 in HS I'm 29 now.

 

[97Pac]

I aint go c00n no more. I officially broke it off with this Colombian girl I been off and on with since 2013. Decided it's only black girls from here on out.

 

[Max.]

https://imgbb.com/

 

[Rozay Oro]

I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym"

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.

Looks definitely help you get in the door. Let's look at 50 Cent, he's in great shape and I have heard women shyt on his face. 50 still confident, has a sense of humor and been with attractive women.
Remember that video of the fan running up on him during a date?
His date was bad af and she got her own career. Not some bum groupie.

Breh I will say this, don't always wait for choosing signals. You see a girl you like, break the ice. When I flirt I sometimes get a bit insecure but I ignore that voice.

 

[Rozay Oro]

6'1 215.

I want to get under 200 so I'm cutting right now. But I been lifting seriously for about a year now.

Once I reach my goal weight I'll make a before and after thread in The Gym.
I was damn near 400 in HS I'm 29 now.

Breh should've been mentioned this in your threads. You got former fat girl mentality syndrome.

 

[VertigoKnight]

He lost for swiping in the first place. Chick looks utterly dreadful for 20.

 

[Max.]

U see the smirk on this whales face...yea gurll we at dennys!!

Scust

 

[Killigraphy]

Breh got hit with the “You’re such a good guy” shyt

I think that's the fundamental problem with most men who think they're "woke" when it comes to women. They end up getting friendzoned anyway...then try to make it look like "Nah she's just sis now, I no longer find her desirable"...right, put them on an Island, and in due time they fukking. Now breh could be getting lucky with other women, going to the gym, etc. But then there's no real reason to keep a bird around....

Who likes actually listening to a woman nag about her friends? Not one man on the planet. There's getting perspective and being the "talk guy" or the friendzone diary. Women don't bring anything new to the table, we've known how they behave for decades, dudeis keeping that girl around because he more than likely has no friends, and eventually wants to fukk when in a dry spell.

 

[Killigraphy]

Brehs, when was the last time a woman tried to shyt test you?

I remember my recent ex and i was at the gas station and i was scratching this scratch off in the car.
This thick ass red female was walking by and she gone say "damnnnn she got ass dont she?" Im like "idk...i wasnt paying no attention". She gon tell me "good answer"


I hate when females do that lame ass game shyt.
(My ex was bi too)

All the time, in that scenario, I would've just said "Ye, bit nicer than yours, definitely hit the gym harder or we're fukking done" in a playful tone. Usually gets the "you're such an a$$hole/dikk" response, which means rowjobs later.

In general, I'm always aloof or playful, I don't take women seriously, because they don't take themselves seriously. They're liars by design, and can't make up their minds about wanting to eat, let alone who they fukk. Creatures with such erratic behavior are basically ants to me..but that would be an insult to ants as a whole...so they're like; tiny lizards, not really useful, not exactly useless.