Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

Girl left me got me drinking like a fish help a breh out

Stop acting like a bytch. They come and go. We all been there. Go get another one.

Get in the gym!

 

[DaRealness]

I feel personally attacked

I was that dude once upon a time. The universe has a way of teaching a harsh lesson that that's not the way to go.



^^I posted this video a few days ago, but listen to this part 57:49 again. I like the part where he said you have to maintain a savage mindset cos your very survival in this harsh world depends on it. It's not even just dealing with women, it's a general thing. Going through life being all "nice" will get you ate up quickly.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Underrated book

 

[DamienWayne]

Stop acting like a bytch. They come and go. We all been there. Go get another one.

Get in the gym!

Yea I know but dealing with this sinking feeling in my stomach for days , even when I’m not thinking about her

 

[FishNGrits]

Yea I know but dealing with this sinking feeling in my stomach for days , even when I’m not thinking about her

Once you hook a new one you will forget all about the previous one.

 

[African_brehda]

sinking feeling in my stomach

This shyt is the worst
I never wanted to feel like that again, over shyt I can control. That changed my whole mindset and approach with women and anything else I'm in a position to control the outcome of

 

[Soundbwoy]

My girl went out of town for the week, finally some me time

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

This shyt is the worst
I never wanted to feel like that again, over shyt I can control. That changed my whole mindset and approach with women and anything else I'm in a position to control the outcome of

You hit the nail on the head homie. Where a lot of dudes go wrong is becoming so enamored with things they have absolutely no control over. It’s an ego thing really. All we can control in this world is ourselves and our actions. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[VertigoKnight]

You hit the nail on the head homie. Where a lot of dudes go wrong is becoming so enamored with things they have absolutely no control over. It’s an ego thing really. All we can control in this world is ourselves and our actions. Nothing more, nothing less.

Pretty much.

A chick either wants you or not. And she knows when you sprung. You have to keep a certain mindset to not be a goofy.

I will not beg and plead with any woman to be with me.

 

[Silkk]

So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.

She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.

She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.

I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.

I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.

She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.

She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

She ain’t the one in the friend zone

 

[Silkk]

Yea I know but dealing with this sinking feeling in my stomach for days , even when I’m not thinking about her

We all been there, Only thing that heals it is time. Until then you need to be putting your focus on more important things you can control:

Family
Gym
Career
Business
Etc.

Leave her alone, she’ll be back. And when she is, If you’ve done everything you need to you won’t want her back

 

[Silkk]

Gonna be listening to this classic like

 

[Sinnerman]

It's funny how you don't give a shyt about most of your exes, but there's always one who you might still simp for

An ex I dated earlier this year hit me up about going to her birthday party next week, and going out for drinks beforehand and I was just like

 

[DaRealness]

It's funny how you don't give a shyt about most of your exes, but there's always one who you might still simp for

An ex I dated earlier this year hit me up about going to her birthday party next week, and going out for drinks beforehand and I was just like

They just want you to make up the numbers.

I had an ex who had the nerve to send me an invitation via WhatsApp, I just ignored that bullshyt.