Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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All these broads wife type girls i match with on blk want a church nikka. 
Not really into big chicks... I've smashed some but never dated. My friend is straight-up anti-fat chicks but at the same time, he's a nice guy.
He was talking to this chick on FB. He knew her from his past but hadn't seen her in years. The talking went well so he invited her to come out and drink with us. And of course, she brought a friend.
He's like: She looks sort of big in her photos but I really can't tell if she is or not
me thinking to myself:she a big girl and this shyt bout to be funny.
and of course, they were built like linebackers..... I'm just staring at him like
... meanwhile, he sitting there eating ice out of his cup tryna not reveal this
or this
Like I said tho... my buddy is a nice guy so we still hung out with them.
But now whenever we go out they show up out of nowhere. . . .
I'm like:bro why they always find us?
his response:yeah she's going through a rough moment in her life and I don't wanna hurt her feelings because I feel bad... she's always messaging me even when I don't respond.
so, of course, it happens again on a random Saturday at a bar..... We chilled out with a vibe and they show up when I wasn't expecting them
They're with us all night and now it's closing time (it's like 2 am).
Oh girls friend: you guys can come back to my house... so and so are there and also my dad and so and so... but we can start a bonfire in my backyard... lets go!
me:
my friend:
oh girl's friend: but I live 5 mins away
my friend:sorry but i just don't feel like it tonight.
oh girl's friend: YOU fukkING p*ssy QUIT BEING A bytch AND COME ON
then she spent the next 10 mins calling my buddy a p*ssy before we left.
imagine if the tables were turned and guys were trying to force women to go to a place they didn't want to go too.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Word that bytch prolly telling her friends how savage she is too
I learned this lesson when a chick tries to troll me. Whether she is trolling because she likes you or just wants to disrespect treat it all the same. Pay it no mind like they don't matter..they'll start to feel stupid seeing you're not effected.
Learned this growing up in a single mother household
Ma dukes would come after a hard day and start bytching and egging everyone on until they got pissed and said some shyt then you could see her light up on
"Got em".
Gotta treat women like children at times.
Totally agree with this, took me a long time to learn that. Rom Wills made an excellent video not too long ago about it.
He made a good point about bytches who act up in public to get attention. Usually I don't even look in their direction much less respond. A dude retaliating through angry words is a plus for them. Look at the amount of videos of dudes arguing with women they don't even know in public instead of just ignoring them...shyt is a bad look. Just treat them like you'd treat a stray dog from across the street barking at you.
Once again for those in the cheap seats!!
This video is so on point it's scary.
The end of this shyt though
Got lucky last year in a similar situation
DaRealness
I think very deeply
The end of this shyt though
As a man, no one "saved" me through shyt so the temptation to save any chick isn't even there anymore.
FishNGrits
Superstar
I ain’t gonna front man none my shots been falling recently my confidence is low I gotta check out the game for a bit.
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VertigoKnight
Veteran
Always good to take a break from this bullshyt every now and then. These chicks can smell lack of confidence when we're on a dry streak.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Your confidence should never be tied to the women you engage with. That’s hustling backwards.
Y'all ever noticed how women take rejection hard? I met this one girl damn near a year and half ago at a BJJ event and went on a date with her. Wasn't really feeling her or something. Her friend was also excited I went on a date with her. I thought she was cool, but something was off with her. She is TOO much into social media which annoys the fukk out of me with any girl. Always posting selfies and shyt. She is in her 30s also doing this shyt. 
So fast forward now she acts a bit cold/aloof towards me on social media. Even saw her friend in public and she was very short with me. Went from looking at my IG stories constantly to hardly ever and if so maybe a short reply. I think the nail in the coffin was she invited me to a NYE party but I didn't go. I have a girlfriend now and have for the past 11 months but I don't really advertise it because my girlfriend isn't really into social media like that.
Anyways I just find it weird because they say men take rejection badly but women can be just as bad.
So fast forward now she acts a bit cold/aloof towards me on social media. Even saw her friend in public and she was very short with me. Went from looking at my IG stories constantly to hardly ever and if so maybe a short reply. I think the nail in the coffin was she invited me to a NYE party but I didn't go. I have a girlfriend now and have for the past 11 months but I don't really advertise it because my girlfriend isn't really into social media like that.
Anyways I just find it weird because they say men take rejection badly but women can be just as bad.
drugxglory
Street Struck
I have a blind date 2morrow one of my homegirls set me up wit it but dont want to show me no pics of her...
I’m sorry butWe work together. At first I tried to ignore it when I knew what was up, but somehow she got meShe also has a BF who nearly kicked her out (she lives with him) after he saw messages of her trying to arrange to meet up with me, this nearly resulted in her moving in with me as she wouldn't have had anywhere else to go
In fairness to myself, before I met her I couldn't even fathom speaking to an 18 year old but this situation has completely taken me by surprise. She has grown woman confidence, it's absurd...this is where the attraction lies. It's literally all to do with her persona, how she carries herself and the vibe we have. We're cooling atm as I believe her and her BF have reconciled so I'm just leaving her be for now and letting things play out. I just wanted a take on the age situation.
Yep, she's light skinned
I have a blind date 2morrow one of my homegirls set me up wit it but dont want to show me no pics of her...
Yikes!
So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.
She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.
She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.
I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.
I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.
She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.
She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.
Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.
She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.
She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.
I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.
I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.
She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.
She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.
Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.