Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jhoon]

So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.

She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.

She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.

I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.

I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.

She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.

She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

Yes.

 

[MikelArteta]

I ain’t gonna front man none my shots been falling recently my confidence is low I gotta check out the game for a bit.
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happens to all of us breh, the feast and the famine.

Last month at this time my phone was buzzing i was out like almost every day meeting different chicks. Now coffers are empty.

 

[MikelArteta]

So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.

She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.

She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.

I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.

I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.

She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.

She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

Even if a woman doesn't want you, they don't want to lose the position they have in your life which would be taken away if you were to get serious with another girl

 

[DaRealness]

Y'all ever noticed how women take rejection hard? I met this one girl damn near a year and half ago at a BJJ event and went on a date with her. Wasn't really feeling her or something. Her friend was also excited I went on a date with her. I thought she was cool, but something was off with her. She is TOO much into social media which annoys the fukk out of me with any girl. Always posting selfies and shyt. She is in her 30s also doing this shyt.

So fast forward now she acts a bit cold/aloof towards me on social media. Even saw her friend in public and she was very short with me. Went from looking at my IG stories constantly to hardly ever and if so maybe a short reply. I think the nail in the coffin was she invited me to a NYE party but I didn't go. I have a girlfriend now and have for the past 11 months but I don't really advertise it because my girlfriend isn't really into social media like that.

Anyways I just find it weird because they say men take rejection badly but women can be just as bad.

I've never known women to just take rejection in their stride.

I remember this one chick who was a friend of a female cousin of mine about six years back. I met her when a group of us went to a restaurant for my cousin's birthday. Me and the chick got talking, I thought she was cool, we exchanged numbers and all that.

Anyway, since then I rang her twice and we chatted both times for ages on the phone (I wouldn't do that now btw), but this chick never once rang or texted me, so I took it as a lack of interest and moved on. I saw her about six months later at my cousin's house and she totally ignored me. I didn't know what that was about, but I didn't care either . Anyway, I hear through the grapevine later on that this dumb ho was mad at me for some very strange reason, apparently the stupid bytch thinks I didn't pursue her enough . and she felt some kind of way. I was like

That instance taught me there's no rhyme or reason to these birds.

 

[DaRealness]

So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.

She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.

She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.

I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.

I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.

She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.

She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

She just likes the attention.

She's the type of broad that will start cock blocking and doing and saying all types of dumb shyt whenever you attempt to get involved with a female. I know her type well.

Personally I wouldn't have her around me at all, but that's just me.

 

[phcitywarrior]

I be seeing the phattest chicks at the grocery store.

I'm tryna buy vegetables and I be seeing donks on donks on donks.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Once again for those in the cheap seats!!



This video is so on point it's scary.

I feel personally attacked

 

[pickles]

So I have a female friend who invites me to everything. Sometimes it's a house party, sometimes it's to the gym, sometimes it's some hella random shyt. Like she'll say "I need to do laundry today and I don't want to go alone. Will you come with me?" I don't go to everything she invites me to unless it sounds more fun than what I had planned. So I'm not always making myself available to her. I decline her invites more often than I accept them.

She always says "and I don't want to go alone." But she's dating 2-3 guys and she never invites them to do any of this shyt. Sometimes I think "this would have been a hella fun date, why didn't she invite any of the guys she's dating?"
I know 2 of the guys she's dating (she doesn't know this) and they say they ain't even smash yet. They just go eat and dance once a week and don't get more than a kiss from her.

She somehow shows up at a lot of events that I go to, even if I didn't invite her. But I guess it makes sense because we have some mutual friends. Then she usually will follow me around and stick to my side the whole time.

I only see her as a friend and nothing else but I'm confused about what I am to her. She flirts with me a lot, always tells me I look good, she's usually looking at me like I'm a piece of meat. Biting her lip and everything. I shot my shot a while back, the first week I met her, she said no so I lost interest and moved on.

I hang out with her because we have dope conversation and I get a lot of intel on how women think. I'm actually glad we didn't date because other than being physically attractive, she's far from my ideal partner, and it wouldn't have worked out. But she's a great friend. I even told her this.

She's also a good wing-woman because physically she's a dime, and other women show me more interest when she's hovering around me.

She asks me about my ex a lot and I never tell her anything, and she gets jealous when I'm pursuing a woman.

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

You are her time hoe.
This is all I could think of when I read your comment.

 

[MikelArteta]

Once again for those in the cheap seats!!



This video is so on point it's scary.

 

[ViShawn]

I've never known women to just take rejection in their stride.

I remember this one chick who was a friend of a female cousin of mine about six years back. I met her when a group of us went to a restaurant for my cousin's birthday. Me and the chick got talking, I thought she was cool, we exchanged numbers and all that.

Anyway, since then I rang her twice and we chatted both times for ages on the phone (I wouldn't do that now btw), but this chick never once rang or texted me, so I took it as a lack of interest and moved on. I saw her about six months later at my cousin's house and she totally ignored me. I didn't know what that was about, but I didn't care either . Anyway, I hear through the grapevine later on that this dumb ho was mad at me for some very strange reason, apparently the stupid bytch thinks I didn't pursue her enough . and she felt some kind of way. I was like

That instance taught me there's no rhyme or reason to these birds.

I've had it happen a few times or instances where I inadvertently rejected a girl before. But yeah it's totally funny. As much as women say WE take rejection bad , they can be just as bad if not worse. It's more passive aggressive with them.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I be seeing the phattest chicks at the grocery store.

I'm tryna buy vegetables and I be seeing donks on donks on donks.

It's alot of medical centers near me and that 5pm-7pm timeframe be having them nurses and shyt with the booty poking in them scrubs

 

[phcitywarrior]

It's alot of medical centers near me and that 5pm-7pm timeframe be having them nurses and shyt with the booty poking in them scrubs

You telling me bruh...this one chick in the pasta aisle had such a phattie with them cheap see through leggings with the thong. WOOOOOOHH

I swear chicks be doing this shyt on purpose. Even one dude in the aisle tapped me on the shoulder and was like

"That's a phat ass young blood, that's a phat ass"

 

[phcitywarrior]

Is she dating me, while I see her as just a friend? Is she in the friend zone and is unaware? I don't even compliment her or show her any romantic indicators.

Honestly, I think men and women can be platonic friends to an extent, but it's more of an exception, not the rule. Outside of cousins and close family friends, I don't have any female friends, just some associates.

I think ole girl is either into you, or into having you around.

 

[DamienWayne]

Girl left me got me drinking like a fish help a breh out

 

[SATAN]

Honestly, I think men and women can be platonic friends to an extent, but it's more of an exception, not the rule. Outside of cousins and close family friends, I don't have any female friends, just some associates.

I think ole girl is either into you, or into having you around.

She had invited me to this house party last week, while I was there I asked her why she didn't invite one of the guys she's dating.

She said, in her thick Brazilian accent: "I will not bring meat to the barbecue"