Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[killacal]

Fellas I need some advice on one of these gal on campus, this is a really shy gal (if that matters)

About a year ago, when my game was still wack, I wasn't good with talking to girls then, I saw this gal that caught my eye, I approached her and got her BBM pin even though it was an awkward approach. I approached her just before everyone was going home for summer, so I couldnt set up anything because we couldnt see each other, my only option is message on the phone We talked on BBM for a few weeks, she started to take time to respond to my messages, I sensed disinterest, then few days later she deleted me off her BBM

When the semester resumed after summer, each time we bumped in to each other on campus we just said "hi" n "bye". We never talked, I accepted she might not have been feeling me, I moved on, got other gals n got better with my social skills with girls

fast forward now, on Thursday we were in the same club, the whole night she was watching a niggga, making eye contact throughout the night, what should I do fellas?

The first time I approached her I made loads of mistakes, it was an awkward approach and her being shy made it worse , I avoided making a phone call to her because my social skills were wack then, I was busy texting/bbming because it was safe and comfortable. Over the year since then I have had other gals and am now a confident n better dude

What advice can u give me fellas????especially a gal who has seen my wack side.

Throw your feelings for her in the bushes. You initially had a chance with her as there is no such things as an awkward introduction. Its only as awkward as you allow it to be. When she slowed down responding to you, you should have realized that was your cue and dead it.

Now back to the club meeting heres where things get a little weird. A girl who may not feel/like you, will jock you in a club because other females are joking. Trust me that chick is still wasting your time, the only chance you have is to pull her again while at the club which is probably your best bet if youre stuck on her.But again detach yourself emotionally and ask yourself if you should even give this chick the time of day after she played you.

And no shes not shy if shes in a club breh

Nah breh, it's only been lately whenever we are in the same venue (house party, club etc), she just be staring @ me

Im assuming you're in college? If so go out and try to get as many girls as possible youll regret not doing that later. Also dont be stuck on her on some I want what I cant have shyt

 

[Turbulent]

But she is a shy girl, breh, she will never make the first move

careful not to catch a case of the oneitis for this chick.

i don't know the girl so i can't say. but sometimes that "shy" shyt is game. you made a move in the past (even if you were clumsy) and SHE got distant from you plus SHE deleted you from her contacts. now all of a sudden SHE giving you the signs she's interested. If you approach her again it's like you're selling her shares at a discount. Let her worry about figuring out a way to get in your circle. If she wants you that bad she will find an excuse to talk to you. and if she doesn't, who gives a fukk.

if you MUST make a move, i suggest next time you're at the club or whatever and you see her looking, look at her in the eyes and make a motion with your hands for her to come over. She has to physically come over to you, not the other way around. if she says no, her loss and you KIM. if she does come over you talk to her in a smooth but dominating way, you give her your number and that she should call when she wants to take this further. and then you completely forget about her. if she is shy, that means she probably likes for someone to be an authority over her.

 

[Turbulent]

Nah breh, it's only been lately whenever we are in the same venue (house party, club etc), she just be staring @ me

if i were you, i'd just let her keep staring. the more she stares the more attracted she will be to you because she thinking about you more and more. she will eventually put in work and find a way to get back in your circle.


what exactly do you want from this chick?

 

[CrossBones]

what a wishy washy chick. best believe she going to be like that for a minute too. go and keep stepping your game up. she sounds like more effort than shes worth. go get someone more cooperative for the time being. check her out when your game is even more elevated. just build yourself. see if youre still interested in that.

 

[CrossBones]

if a girl youre just getting to know says "sometimes Im a chameleon, I know how to blend in with different crowds." or "Its like Im two different people, I can be this or another way"

you dealing with a ho. maybe a "reformed ho," but a ho.

 

[International Playa]

if i were you, i'd just let her keep staring. the more she stares the more attracted she will be to you because she thinking about you more and more. she will eventually put in work and find a way to get back in your circle.


what exactly do you want from this chick?

Honestly it depends what qualities she has when I get to know her, if she a wifey type, I will wife her up. If she a wack chick I'm just gonna bang her

what a wishy washy chick. best believe she going to be like that for a minute too. go and keep stepping your game up. she sounds like more effort than shes worth. go get someone more cooperative for the time being. check her out when your game is even more elevated. just build yourself. see if youre still interested in that.

I'm already getting to know another gal, but the gal I'm dealing with aint that hot, but he showing a brother cooperation

 

[CrossBones]

I'm already getting to know another gal, but the gal I'm dealing with aint that hot, but he showing a brother cooperation

then thats game right there. Id focus on that first.

 

[Po pimp]

But she is a shy girl, breh, she will never make the first move

She was bold enough to delete you from her Blackberry. If she keep staring at you, let her stare while you mackin down other chicks.

 

[darius19]

I dunno, what percentage of women do YOU think are wifey material?

5% or less from what I meet, I'm in college so I see a variety of chicks as well

 

[gameover82]

One time I put "once a party girl...always a party girl on my Facebook and pretty much every female was on some but I put " once a player always a player they get all

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Sharp]

I was having a discussion with a lady whom I'm doing a documentary and radio show segment show. She's an older women and dropped some gems on me that I'm gonna share with you dudes later tonight. And it's legit. No holds barred truth that confirms a lot of the things we said, but she puts the reasoning behind it. I was blown away fellas. The game will never be the same.

In brief...

The average woman isn't shyt

Women will stay with a dude that treats her bad because they have history and she doesn't want to start over with another dude

Women start questioning themselves and start settling in their early 30s for the next dude who comes along.

No woman wants to come home alone ever.

a woman will fukk you and deal with all of your bullshyt as long as she genuinely believes that you love her

 

[Wild self]

World Star

Im assuming some of us in here have heard about the BRONX situation of those Boricua girls giving head on the 6 train? These slores are straight up embarrasing. They embarrassing themselves and their family by having "fun" and doing it because "guys get to sleep around and get no criticism so why can't we too". Like i said at least real escorts are doing it privately and making money off it and not being dumbasses.

I used to get annoyed by attention whores like the loudmouth in the video and the camera man but lately i have realized its a "necessary evil".
Wildstyle's predictions are slowly starting to be proven true. I don't know if you remember but this happened weeks/months ago with a black girl from Florida had a video on worldstar got a train ran on by her .

As mean as it sounds I finally understand the guys doing this "exposing" stuff. Because girls like this will do things like this and turn around and date a guy who knows nothing about what they did in the past and risk severely embarrassing the guy and his ego. I can't believe that at once i was enabler and spoke about how wrong it was. I mean i still think guys like that are annoying attention whores, but like i mentioned I have come to understand it and realize its a necessary evil.

These guys "exposing" these girls I have to say are helping to save all of us from spoiled goods like broads like these. And like how they are now saying that the girls are embarrassed and pissed that their "NY reps" are ruined because of what the guy is going around doing with exposing them.

Girls like these need to realize if they are "exposed" for something they did in their past and jeopardized from being wifed in the future because of it, then that is THEIR problem. This isn't a fairytale where you can just whore it up and find a simp as easily as you could in the 90s and to forget that any of the stuff ever happened and even have the nerve to not mention it to the guy and risk his ego and manhood when people laugh behind his back and he has no idea why.



Like Kev i used to once say it should be ignored and girls spots should not be blown up like that but it seems more and more i am changing that tune. I think we need to continue that to help warn other guys, so there is a less of a chance a guy ends up getting burned because we want to "ignore it". I am glad that the internet age is helping these type of broads to finally understand this.If your slutty video from 2012 ruined your "rep" and embarrassed your "family" and your crying swan tears because you may never get wifed by any guy now, whose fault is that?

Goddamn

yeah, that exposure shyt is balancing out the game. Basically online clowning and exposure via worldstar and twitter n shyt is the counterbalance factor. It's one of the few social shaming outlets left that keeps whore-ism in check somewhat. Because every other media outlet basically telling them everything they do is A-Ok.

 

[Wild self]

this thread should be required reading freshmen year in college brehs...would have saved me a lot of time and $

Man, those were some rough times. If I had this back then, I would have been a legend and a king

 

[Ohene]

yall gonna laugh at me, but my mom just got mad because I put her floor mats on the laundry room floor after being washed.

FLOOR MATS

Are we that bad or do these women just have no sense brehs
I couldnt for the life of me understand why she was getting angry