Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

i realized the value i possessed. i took a hard look at myself and said im a cool ass interesting dude and i have a lot to offer...i come from a good family, have great friends, im intelligent, mad creative, im loyal, handsome, compassionate, funny, ive traveled the world, etc. ive done a bunch of illmatic shyt and have a lot to bring to the table and would be an asset to anyone i interact with.

and the things im lacking on...im in the process of upgrading them. so its only a matter of time before i become even more THOROUGH.

and what does this chick bring to the table besides her looks and her p*ssy? not much.

so i said to myself, men of a certain echelon know who they are, what they want and exactly what they dont want. the dont even entertain women who exhibit any kind of wack, lame ass behavior--even in the slightest. they dont deal with bs. they have too much self respect and know their worth.

i also said to myself, im behaving in a way where women dont see me as "that nikka" and im not (subtly) conveying it to them (and even myself) that i am.

so i began to do just that. i wasnt arrogant or braggadocios. that inner worth just was expressed outwardly...through confidence, assertiveness, decisiveness, boldness and a crisp ass mouthpiece. i walked with a certain demeanor about myself afterwards.

after that...certain behavior was now unacceptable. if she was disrespectful...shes up outta there. flaking on dates? outta there. taking a day to respond to texts? outta there.

and if the chick isnt thorough enough to see shes dealing with an authentic dude, then im not sticking around to try to convince her that i am

i bet 70% of the dudes on this board have some type of skill or trait or accomplishment they should be insanely proud of...they just dont know their worth. and the others who dont...they should be on the path to acquiring some type of value. but just not for some bytch...but to enrich their own lives.

when you know your value, all of the shyt women throw at you becomes trivial...

Agreed and it explains why I don’t date these women for more than a month or two. None of them can add peace, a foundation or security to my life. Just pretty faces as I build.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

This girl i went out on a date this weekend said something real important to me.

As pretty as she is, she told me she was insecure and shy therefore seeked out dating men who were the polar opposite of herself.. confident and outgoing. In her words, she dated these men as she felt they transferred their confidence onto her

This got me thinking because another girl (pretty thing) i know practically said the same thing.

Women look to date men who hold the characteristics they themselves wish they had or were.

It's similar to why people value and are drawn to leadership in others. People often fantasize on having these desirable traits and because they themselves don't have it the next best thing is to date/be around an individual that does possess it.

And that goes for physical traits that they're insecure about also

That's why you'll see girls that are like 5'2" who want only tall guys.

Or fat girls who insist on muscular men.

A trick I like to use (GAME!!!) is to look at a woman's shoes. They always start paying attention to me when I do it.

It might have to do with insecurity especially considering that my kicks are always fly.

 

[Sinnerman]

So AFTER our first date is when you're out here dropping these bombshells on me

-She has two kids
-She's heavily in debt
-She either stays with friends/or in her van

 

[MikelArteta]

i realized the value i possessed. i took a hard look at myself and said im a cool ass interesting dude and i have a lot to offer...i come from a good family, have great friends, im intelligent, mad creative, im loyal, handsome, compassionate, funny, ive traveled the world, etc. ive done a bunch of illmatic shyt and have a lot to bring to the table and would be an asset to anyone i interact with.

and the things im lacking on...im in the process of upgrading them. so its only a matter of time before i become even more THOROUGH.

and what does this chick bring to the table besides her looks and her p*ssy? not much.

so i said to myself, men of a certain echelon know who they are, what they want and exactly what they dont want. the dont even entertain women who exhibit any kind of wack, lame ass behavior--even in the slightest. they dont deal with bs. they have too much self respect and know their worth.

i also said to myself, im behaving in a way where women dont see me as "that nikka" and im not (subtly) conveying it to them (and even myself) that i am.

so i began to do just that. i wasnt arrogant or braggadocios. that inner worth just was expressed outwardly...through confidence, assertiveness, decisiveness, boldness and a crisp ass mouthpiece. i walked with a certain demeanor about myself afterwards.

after that...certain behavior was now unacceptable. if she was disrespectful...shes up outta there. flaking on dates? outta there. taking a day to respond to texts? outta there.

and if the chick isnt thorough enough to see shes dealing with an authentic dude, then im not sticking around to try to convince her that i am

i bet 70% of the dudes on this board have some type of skill or trait or accomplishment they should be insanely proud of...they just dont know their worth. and the others who dont...they should be on the path to acquiring some type of value. but just not for some bytch...but to enrich their own lives.

when you know your value, all of the shyt women throw at you becomes trivial...

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

So AFTER our first date is when you're out here dropping these bombshells on me

-She has two kids
-She's heavily in debt
-She either stays with friends/or in her van

Chai!

 

[Sinnerman]

i realized the value i possessed. i took a hard look at myself and said im a cool ass interesting dude and i have a lot to offer...i come from a good family, have great friends, im intelligent, mad creative, im loyal, handsome, compassionate, funny, ive traveled the world, etc. ive done a bunch of illmatic shyt and have a lot to bring to the table and would be an asset to anyone i interact with.

and the things im lacking on...im in the process of upgrading them. so its only a matter of time before i become even more THOROUGH.

and what does this chick bring to the table besides her looks and her p*ssy? not much.

so i said to myself, men of a certain echelon know who they are, what they want and exactly what they dont want. the dont even entertain women who exhibit any kind of wack, lame ass behavior--even in the slightest. they dont deal with bs. they have too much self respect and know their worth.

i also said to myself, im behaving in a way where women dont see me as "that nikka" and im not (subtly) conveying it to them (and even myself) that i am.

so i began to do just that. i wasnt arrogant or braggadocios. that inner worth just was expressed outwardly...through confidence, assertiveness, decisiveness, boldness and a crisp ass mouthpiece. i walked with a certain demeanor about myself afterwards.

after that...certain behavior was now unacceptable. if she was disrespectful...shes up outta there. flaking on dates? outta there. taking a day to respond to texts? outta there.

and if the chick isnt thorough enough to see shes dealing with an authentic dude, then im not sticking around to try to convince her that i am

i bet 70% of the dudes on this board have some type of skill or trait or accomplishment they should be insanely proud of...they just dont know their worth. and the others who dont...they should be on the path to acquiring some type of value. but just not for some bytch...but to enrich their own lives.

when you know your value, all of the shyt women throw at you becomes trivial...

Glorious post. I love seeing brehs have the same kind of transformation that I did

 

[Sinnerman]

Chai!

It just kept getting worse

And she had the nerve to talk about wanting to meet my parents, na wa o my braddah o

Almost as bad as the first date I had who told me after the first date that she did some work as an amateur pornstar

The kind of shyt you run to when you have so many first dates, I suppose.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

It just kept getting worse

And she had the nerve to talk about wanting to meet my parents, na wa o my braddah o

Almost as bad as the first date I had who told me after the first date that she did some work as an amateur pornstar

The kind of shyt you run to when you have so many first dates, I suppose.

Mtcheww

Aim for 25 year olds

 

[Sinnerman]

Mtcheww

Aim for 25 year olds

I can only imagine what my poor mother would have said if I brought her home

"Ah ah, my pikin o... "

Yeah you're right though. For some reason women 3+ years older than me show the most interest, but I have my best relationships with women either my age or one year in either direction.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

I can only imagine what my poor mother would have said if I brought her home

"Ah ah, my pikin o... "

Yeah you're right though. For some reason women 3+ years older than me show the most interest, but I have my best relationships with women either my age or one year in either direction.

Always go same age or younger

 

[Sinnerman]

Always go same age or younger

How much younger are you typically willing to go?

 

[MikelArteta]

and what does this chick bring to the table besides her looks and her p*ssy? not much.

You know I reread your post a few times and this is the line that kept sticking out for me

 

[The Message]

You know I reread your post a few times and this is the line that kept sticking out for me

think about all the dope ass globetrotting and excursions youve done all across the world over the last few years...

then think about how many broads you know who havent even stepped one foot outta southern ontario

 

[MikelArteta]

think about all the dope ass globetrotting and excursions youve done all across the world over the last few years...

then think about how many broads you know who havent even stepped one foot outta southern ontario

That's true

You know what's crazy when I was with my ex fiance for 3 years, only places I went to is Montreal, NYC and Dallas

in the past 12 months i've been to Nigeria, London, Paris, Lisbon and two months from now going away again.

 

[FLATOP]

Nothing but love for my girlfriend

But i was just in a situation flirting for the first time in a while, mostly to try myself. Man I'm rusty.

Messed up the first time, but luckily I got a second chance and said what was on my mind to the girl. It's a good feeling. I think I'd enjoy being a single