Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Here's another issue I thought about
There's a difference between fighting FOR your girl and fighting OVER her.
It's perfectly fine and pretty much one of the requirements to fight FOR your girl if she has honor. For example, if some guy is trying to get at her and she tells her no, but he keeps persisting, it is perfectly within your right to confront him, especially if he is getting physical with her.

On the other hand, you NEVER fight OVER a woman. If your woman is talking to another guy and decides to mess with him, that was her choice. You simply cut her from the team and keep it pushing in that case.

It is perfectly fine to defend your woman's honor, but in order for her honor to be defended, she has to have some in the first place.
 

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How do y'all feel about ultimatum? I heard that's a nono in relationships.

Actual go out with your girl and have one on one time. Not everything has to be a formal date. Find museums, parks, or build shared interests. If y'all can't develop interests into similar things. Then the satisfaction or enjoyment of a relationship will never be ideal.
 
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Here's another issue I thought about
There's a difference between fighting FOR your girl and fighting OVER her.
It's perfectly fine and pretty much one of the requirements to fight FOR your girl if she has honor. For example, if some guy is trying to get at her and she tells her no, but he keeps persisting, it is perfectly within your right to confront him, especially if he is getting physical with her.

On the other hand, you NEVER fight OVER a woman. If your woman is talking to another guy and decides to mess with him, that was her choice. You simply cut her from the team and keep it pushing in that case.

It is perfectly fine to defend your woman's honor, but in order for her honor to be defended, she has to have some in the first place.



See, alot of cats young and old dont understand this concept. They all assume they gotta be macho man and check every guy that looks at their lady. When in fact thier lady should be checking nikkas and informing them that A. She has a man. B. She's in a stable relationship. C. Don't try and disrespect hurt her by hassling and harassing her when she says no.

If your lady doesn't do this and creates a perception that she doesn't have a man. You cut the girl and don't even worry about the guy because SHE chose to disrespect you by stepping outside the relationship. nikkas game ain't really that good. She decided that she wanted to mess with somebody else so you let the other guy keep her and KIM
 

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Exactly. If you have a real 'in-line' woman, you don't have to do a thing other than check those cats that get out of line. Them looking at your woman or trying to talk to your woman is no problem, because she, as a woman should know how to simply say no, i'm not interested. I have a man." She should know how to cut that conversation short. Now, when they start getting disrespectful, grabbing her arm, trying to talk about, "Man your man is a punk... what does he have to do with me?" That's when you step in. An honorable woman will never make you worry about the intentions of some other man in her life. She will know how to represent you to the fullest. If your woman can't step up and do something as simple as that, she's not worth dealing with.
 

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How do y'all feel about ultimatum? I heard that's a nono in relationships.

Actual go out with your girl and have one on one time. Not everything has to be a formal date. Find museums, parks, or build shared interests. If y'all can't develop interests into similar things. Then the satisfaction or enjoyment of a relationship will never be ideal.

If you have to deliver an ultimatum, more times than not that's you deciding not to check a problem early on or you failing to let her know your expectations up-front. If she keeps on choosing to do that which you said was unacceptable, that shows she has no respect for your word, and as we've discussed before, if doesn't respect you, time to let it loose.

Men, sometimes we have the same problem we blame females for, of being mind-readers. You got to let her know early on what is expected when you make a relationship official... and give her the choice of whether she can accept those terms or else you just let her know, "It'd be best we don't waste each other's time. I like you, but if we can't agree on this, it won't work."
 

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Typical strong independent American woman:

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"Come and get some, you little bum.."
 

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this is all true all true

you can be a fat girl with no education rotten tooth, working at a cashier at walmart and some simp will still wife you up, but being a fat man with no education rotten teeth and a cashier at walmart you will die alone.
 

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For those of you who have marriage in your future, stay FAR away from American women. As ridiculous as it sounds, American women have been brainwashed since birth and that "love of your life" you think you are marrying will change, become miserable, divorce you and take 1/2 or more.

foreign women can do the same, but they grow up with different values

depending on where she is from, she will cook for you, maintain your house, be a great mother to your children and an excellent partner through life (they are still women so all the jewels dropped in this thread should also be utilized. Women are still women)

Caribbean
Africa
South America
South East Asia

are just some of the places to look, or find ones who have recently immigrated to the States and have not been poisoned by the American woman.
 

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For those of you who have marriage in your future, stay FAR away from American women. As ridiculous as it sounds, American women have been brainwashed since birth and that "love of your life" you think you are marrying will change, become miserable, divorce you and take 1/2 or more.

foreign women can do the same, but they grow up with different values

depending on where she is from, she will cook for you, maintain your house, be a great mother to your children and an excellent partner through life (they are still women so all the jewels dropped in this thread should also be utilized. Women are still women)

Caribbean
Africa
South America
South East Asia

are just some of the places to look, or find ones who have recently immigrated to the States and have not been poisoned by the American woman.

thing is once they get Americanized they become those ball busting entitled chicks, its better if you can if you must get married to move to one of these countries and marry there
 
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