Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Only a insecure dude would even ask this question.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
how do you guys check your emotions? Like if things doesn't go the way you would like it to go, etc.
Stop caring how things go
My neck and my back
All Star
prepare yourself for disappointment. i'm right about the majority of the shyt that happens in my life because i don't expect it to go right, so even when i lose, i still win
you stop carying, and this goes back to my saying, every dude should get dumped have his heart ripped out at least once in life, it teaches you a valuable lesson
such as women change their minds and come and go, whats here today is gone tomorrow, nothing you can do can change her mind as you beg and plead like a simp thinking your situation is different, you realize you will be ok, and there are millions of other girls out there
i used to be a simp who would take anything, hell if my girl prob cheated on me back in the day id prob forgive and take her back
, now im at the point every chick i deal with even if just a friendly relationship is bottom of the ninth 2 strikes, i have zero issues or problems with cutting a chick out from my life and never talking to her againremember you are great, tell these girls "trust me it's a privilege"
nah not all guys will think you are lying, its just that the more you get to know a women you realize ah she is lying, you'll date a girl she will say only 5, then she tells you about her last 3 relationships so that's 3, then you hear she was a fwb, then you find out she lost her virginity at 15 , and then you find out she slept with a "good friend" who was there for her after her last breakup and your like that's 6 though
Always think of things of "It is what it is." Imagining the perfect scenario will get you disappointed. You also kind of have to imagine the worst happening and then seeing how it affects you in your mind. After a while, you'll learn to become much more calm in such situations because you've exposed yourself to it mentally over and over. That's mental conditioning.
Here goes a few more
1) Stay out of the wrong cookie jars
Messing with your homeboy's sisters, mothers, or their girls is a no go. This should be obvious, but some still do it. You don't ever want to destroy your foundation, which is your relationship with God, your close friends and your family over dealings with women. You really don't want to destroy relationships with your ride or die partners and the quickest way to do that is to mess with their woman, even if she is throwing it at you.
2) Deal with reality, not fantasy
A lot of times we like to imagine what we THINK this girl is, especially if she is fine. You have to short circuit any images of her in your mind, especially of her being this perfect girl. Sit back and actually observe how she is. This way you won't disappoint yourself. I know we've all been disappointed when that real pretty girl turned out to be a go-getter like the rest.
3) Keep your business private
Once you lose your trust factor with a woman by telling everybody the ongoings of your relationship, it's over. Also, telling the boys all about your woman or a woman you're dealing with is going to do nothing but have them fixated on your girl.
4) The women you choose NOT to deal with is just as important as the women you DO deal with.
You'll save a LOT of drama in your life if you take the time to just get to know about the woman you are dealing with. You don't want to deal with clingy women, women who might hurt herself if you don't deal with her and all that crazy stuff. Quality, not quantity.
5) Avoid dealing with women with no friends
I can understand why women avoid men that make them his world. It is VERY annoying when someone doesn't have a life outside of you and they hyperanalyze your every move and never want to let you breath. Balanced women are the best... ones that handle their responsibilities, have a life, but always make time for you.
Here goes a few more
1) Stay out of the wrong cookie jars
Messing with your homeboy's sisters, mothers, or their girls is a no go. This should be obvious, but some still do it. You don't ever want to destroy your foundation, which is your relationship with God, your close friends and your family over dealings with women. You really don't want to destroy relationships with your ride or die partners and the quickest way to do that is to mess with their woman, even if she is throwing it at you.
2) Deal with reality, not fantasy
A lot of times we like to imagine what we THINK this girl is, especially if she is fine. You have to short circuit any images of her in your mind, especially of her being this perfect girl. Sit back and actually observe how she is. This way you won't disappoint yourself. I know we've all been disappointed when that real pretty girl turned out to be a go-getter like the rest.
3) Keep your business private
Once you lose your trust factor with a woman by telling everybody the ongoings of your relationship, it's over. Also, telling the boys all about your woman or a woman you're dealing with is going to do nothing but have them fixated on your girl.
4) The women you choose NOT to deal with is just as important as the women you DO deal with.
You'll save a LOT of drama in your life if you take the time to just get to know about the woman you are dealing with. You don't want to deal with clingy women, women who might hurt herself if you don't deal with her and all that crazy stuff. Quality, not quantity.
5) Avoid dealing with women with no friends
I can understand why women avoid men that make them his world. It is VERY annoying when someone doesn't have a life outside of you and they hyperanalyze your every move and never want to let you breath. Balanced women are the best... ones that handle their responsibilities, have a life, but always make time for you.
My neck and my back
All Star
this is probably the number one problem with nikkas who have trouble approaching females. they imagine the bytch to be a perfect creature just cuz she fine. nikka her shyt stank, she got boogers in her nose, her p*ssy turn sour for a week every month, and prolly look a like naked mole rat without make up. focus on her flaws so you can keep in mind that she is human.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Never tell a woman WHAT you do at work. Lets say your the top manager of a said coroporaton.Dont tell her you the TOP manager.See women care about status and positions. Brothers got to know which ?'s to look out for and how to carefully word their answers.Women play dumb when it comes to memory but TRUST me they memorize everything. Trust me guys our judge not by their content but by job and position. When her homegirls ask her what he does.She wants to brag to them not be embarassed!
He isnt a manager at his job=bum
He is the top dog=I can run thru his pockets
He isnt a manager at his job=bum
He is the top dog=I can run thru his pockets
iMajor
MartinLouisTheKingJr
A girl without any hobbies should raise question marks. Or if she isn't a productive citizen.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
iMajor
MartinLouisTheKingJr
Yeah just be general about the job title. I usually say its G-14 and they ask what does that mean? Or I say the general location of the place I work at...
Never go into thinking you can change a girl. If she's a party girl and you want her to settle down well give it to her once and if she's not with it leave. But understand you were at fault for coming to her in the first place. You knew who she was before y'all were going out. So you have to accept if she doesn't stop what she wants to do. Just keep it pushing.
Never go into thinking you can change a girl. If she's a party girl and you want her to settle down well give it to her once and if she's not with it leave. But understand you were at fault for coming to her in the first place. You knew who she was before y'all were going out. So you have to accept if she doesn't stop what she wants to do. Just keep it pushing.