Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Wild self

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Im not a gold digger, but it doesnt make sense to me to have a man giving you designer gifts while you're clearly struggling to keep the lights on. She told me she hints that she wants this or that (material things), and he gives them to her, but she doesnt want to ask for rent money because itll make her look like a gold digger? Stupid.

Like I said, if that makes me a gold digger for thinking that way, oh well.

You sound like that is a requirement to get with a woman. Yeah, the man was a foolish trick, but :ufdup: thinking that it was cool.
 

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Im not a gold digger, but it doesnt make sense to me to have a man giving you designer gifts while you're clearly struggling to keep the lights on. She told me she hints that she wants this or that (material things), and he gives them to her, but she doesnt want to ask for rent money because itll make her look like a gold digger? Stupid.

Like I said, if that makes me a gold digger for thinking that way, oh well.

So instead of a gift of the givers choice and willingness, he should just give her money? :foh: Spoken like a true ratchett. Let me guess what your moms used to say when u were younger. "shid if u fukkin wid him at lease get sum papah"

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gifts are given out of appreciation, not to make sure you are taken care of. I thought women were all about being independent, so turning down that money should be the first thing on your mind because it would be disrespectful to have a grown man taking care of you.
 

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gifts are given out of appreciation, not to make sure you are taken care of. I thought women were all about being independent, so turning down that money should be the first thing on your mind because it would be disrespectful to have a grown man taking care of you.

A lot of these women have it their way so much today that they don't appreciate shyt. All these bytches (yes, bytches) want is no form of responsibility and want to be above the law, on some Lucifer shyt. Only to end up alone at 40 screaming "what happened!?"
 

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A lot of these women have it their way so much today that they don't appreciate shyt. All these bytches (yes, bytches) want is no form of responsibility and want to be above the law, on some Lucifer shyt. Only to end up alone at 40 screaming "what happened!?"

Real talk bruh, I'm getting to the point of being offensive to women that be trying to get favors out of me. It would be one thing if the woman was appreciative of it, but for some odd reason, they think they are owed whatever they ask of you and get mad if you ain't trying to come off that favor.

I remember one time I was walking in the mall passing by some kiosk and this girl pulled me over and tried to get me to buy some lotion... acting all flirty and I basically told her I wasn't really trying to buy anything. Boy you wouldn't believe how fast her attitude shifted lol. One thing I really don't like is a woman trying to use seduction and flirting to try to manipulate me into doing something for them. I ain't no trick. If you are going to flirt with me, make sure you are doing it because you like me. Trying to come up off my back, that's a no go. Crazy thing is that same girl is always stopping me in the mall and tried to hook me up with her friend one time.

What's really making me start to go hard on these women that be trying to get something out of me is that they don't appreciate it. It's like they come at you, try to get a favor out of you, and if you don't give it to them, they get mad. If you do, they don't appreciate it. They look at you like some kind of simp who they successfully manipulated and should be avoided from now on.

It's really pretty sick man how a lot of these women just have it in their minds that there is nothing wrong with manipulating men to get what they want and to not show an iota of appreciation in return. Me, I personally like being around gracious, appreciative people. I do a favor for someone and they act like they hustled me and they won't see me no more. I don't got time to play with these women.
 

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A lot of these women have it their way so much today that they don't appreciate shyt. All these bytches (yes, bytches) want is no form of responsibility and want to be above the law, on some Lucifer shyt. Only to end up alone at 40 screaming "what happened!?"
I have an update later on today for the thread.

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Real talk bruh, I'm getting to the point of being offensive to women that be trying to get favors out of me. It would be one thing if the woman was appreciative of it, but for some odd reason, they think they are owed whatever they ask of you and get mad if you ain't trying to come off that favor.

I remember one time I was walking in the mall passing by some kiosk and this girl pulled me over and tried to get me to buy some lotion... acting all flirty and I basically told her I wasn't really trying to buy anything. Boy you wouldn't believe how fast her attitude shifted lol. One thing I really don't like is a woman trying to use seduction and flirting to try to manipulate me into doing something for them. I ain't no trick. If you are going to flirt with me, make sure you are doing it because you like me. Trying to come up off my back, that's a no go. Crazy thing is that same girl is always stopping me in the mall and tried to hook me up with her friend one time.

What's really making me start to go hard on these women that be trying to get something out of me is that they don't appreciate it. It's like they come at you, try to get a favor out of you, and if you don't give it to them, they get mad. If you do, they don't appreciate it. They look at you like some kind of simp who they successfully manipulated and should be avoided from now on.

It's really pretty sick man how a lot of these women just have it in their minds that there is nothing wrong with manipulating men to get what they want and to not show an iota of appreciation in return. Me, I personally like being around gracious, appreciative people. I do a favor for someone and they act like they hustled me and they won't see me no more. I don't got time to play with these women.

Funny thing is that they use sex and flirting to get what they want. Life is one big game for them. Anytime in the bar, if a chick asks me for a drink, I always say to them "I don't mind buying you a drink, but you got to buy me one first." Most of the time, they get :stopitslime: . I then say "Is that the first time a man said that to you?":steviej:

Most times, they call me a jerk or an a$$hole, but I prefer to be that. Especially around them.
 

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Funny thing is that they use sex and flirting to get what they want. Life is one big game for them. Anytime in the bar, if a chick asks me for a drink, I always say to them "I don't mind buying you a drink, but you got to buy me one first." Most of the time, they get :stopitslime: . I then say "Is that the first time a man said that to you?":steviej:

Most times, they call me a jerk or an a$$hole, but I prefer to be that. Especially around them.

If a chick asks for a drink dont even respond to her. Ive been in the club enough for 3 life times and know that the reason shes asking YOU is cuz she thinks she can get one out of YOU. Seriously look at her and turn away like she isn't even there. I havent had a chick ask me to buy a drink in a long time, it helps that im a big black man, but when they did I would either straight up act like a retard was babbling in public and it wasnt polite to stare. As long as when ur talking to women at a bar or club u dont try to seem thirsty she wont even ask for a drink.
 

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If a chick asks for a drink dont even respond to her. Ive been in the club enough for 3 life times and know that the reason shes asking YOU is cuz she thinks she can get one out of YOU. Seriously look at her and turn away like she isn't even there. I havent had a chick ask me to buy a drink in a long time, it helps that im a big black man, but when they did I would either straight up act like a retard was babbling in public and it wasnt polite to stare. As long as when ur talking to women at a bar or club u dont try to seem thirsty she wont even ask for a drink.

that works too, but I like to have fun going into these chicks heads.
 

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that works too, but I like to have fun going into these chicks heads.

Then i suggest ":childplease: why dont u buy me a drink", shyt works :manny: If she doesnt have money shell get someone to buy a drink and bring it to you, dont get ruffied tho :skip:
 

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Yall were right.. :snoop: wifeys been gone for 2 weeks and i actually started missing her. NOW i appreciate what i got. i just wish that i could feel like that 100% of the time and not always look at the grass bein greener on the other side.. i may try to be logical and think "its not, its an illusion" but it wont be how i feel.. having a dikk really complicates things :sadcam:
 

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Yall were right.. :snoop: wifeys been gone for 2 weeks and i actually started missing her. NOW i appreciate what i got. i just wish that i could feel like that 100% of the time and not always look at the grass bein greener on the other side.. i may try to be logical and think "its not, its an illusion" but it wont be how i feel.. having a dikk really complicates things :sadcam:
all a part of growing up
 

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Yall were right.. :snoop: wifeys been gone for 2 weeks and i actually started missing her. NOW i appreciate what i got. i just wish that i could feel like that 100% of the time and not always look at the grass bein greener on the other side.. i may try to be logical and think "its not, its an illusion" but it wont be how i feel.. having a dikk really complicates things :sadcam:

I tried to tell you breh....I went through the same thing/same feelings you were having just a few months ago.

The grass looks greener on the other side, but it's turf (it aint real).

I would still say though, because you said you wanted to be without her, give it a couple more weeks....say 2 more weeks....to see if you are better off without her. If you still feeling that "emptyness", you know what you need to do.

Go get your wife.
 

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I tried to tell you breh....I went through the same thing/same feelings you were having just a few months ago.

The grass looks greener on the other side, but it's turf (it aint real).

I would still say though, because you said you wanted to be without her, give it a couple more weeks....say 2 more weeks....to see if you are better off without her. If you still feeling that "emptyness", you know what you need to do.

Go get your wife.

all a part of growing up

HOWEVER, i think things would be a different if i was out havin fun, pullin hoes and ish, but i havent been able to do much because of my schedule lately.. so of course if all i do is work,go to school, and go home to an empty house ima feel like this.. :manny:
 
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