When do you eventually divulge your real profession?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
I know I’ve been belly aching the past few days on here about women, but the rest of my life I’m actually doing ok.
Sometimes we have to look at the positives in our life.
Even with women I can get a woman, I just can’t get the woman I want, but that’s a champagne problem
Sometimes we have to look at the positives in our life.
Even with women I can get a woman, I just can’t get the woman I want, but that’s a champagne problem
YOGEBEAR09
RAM Gang. Horns up
I want to go into more detail but maaaaaaaaaaan its so fukking night & day when a chick is cooperating and making shyt easy.Me too playa
Dealing with a difficult chick can fukk up your WHOLE energy. Wasting time trying to make that shyt work when you can move on to the millions of other women ready to act right
YOGEBEAR09
RAM Gang. Horns up
Worry bout her happiness more than mineI want to go into more detail but maaaaaaaaaaan its so fukking night & day when a chick is cooperating and making shyt easy.
Dealing with a difficult chick can fukk up your WHOLE energy. Wasting time trying to make that shyt work when you can move on to the millions of other women ready to act right
Watching what I say to not make things worse
Staying up late tryna figure out how to get things back to how they were before
Ain't none of that no more my brother
Just dealing with multiple women that's all infatuated with me
What could be better
Had a date last night with a lady I met in person, and she was awesome. She seems pretty low maintenance too
I have to say, this was the second straight date I've had with someone I met in person, and both dates were great
Maybe it's time to give the OL thing a break for a while
I have to say, this was the second straight date I've had with someone I met in person, and both dates were great
Maybe it's time to give the OL thing a break for a while
xzenothunder
Banned
So my car broke down and I was supposed to take this chick on a 2nd date,
She stays a good 30 miles away but would it be lamer to ask her to drive or just cop a rental for the weekend and be in control? I honestly want her to relax and be in her feminine but my moms is all "equality" and she can drive if she really likes you etc. I understand that perspective but at the same time I'm like "momma you know you wouldnt wanna fukk with a nikka who you had to drive around"
She stays a good 30 miles away but would it be lamer to ask her to drive or just cop a rental for the weekend and be in control? I honestly want her to relax and be in her feminine but my moms is all "equality" and she can drive if she really likes you etc. I understand that perspective but at the same time I'm like "momma you know you wouldnt wanna fukk with a nikka who you had to drive around"
If you rent a car, do it for you in case she might flake. Also if you have the money.
Also where u gonna fukk her at ? If you can’t fukk where you at, you might as well go over there.
Youseenmywork
KING
...Anyway this video I cant say enough about it. A mans NON sexual attention is undervalued because no many of us was taught how to value it and how much it actually worth. BGS put this perfectly and as an OG explains it perfectly. I couldn’t have said it better. To me personally this video is a must watch....(value your light) Y’all be easy and happy hunting this weekend 
...Anyway this video I cant say enough about it. A mans NON sexual attention is undervalued because no many of us was taught how to value it and how much it actually worth. BGS put this perfectly and as an OG explains it perfectly. I couldn’t have said it better. To me personally this video is a must watch....(value your light) Y’all be easy and happy hunting this weekend
That intro was long af! And the music was a lil loud.
But good video.
It’s a shame that’s these dudes are really 40-60 telling us this about women and still dealing with it themselves. I can not believe it. Women still playing games n shyt at any age.
African_brehda
Superstar
These women 
Known this chick for a while, we been flirting when we see each other in person, but never really talk outside of that..
2 nights ago, we're on our flirty shyt, and she starts kissing and feeling up on me..
So in my mind she's game
I text her later to come by my spot let's chill, she just says naah
I'm just like cool.
Do I bush, or try again later? Personally I think I need to bush, I feel she's just playing games
Known this chick for a while, we been flirting when we see each other in person, but never really talk outside of that..
2 nights ago, we're on our flirty shyt, and she starts kissing and feeling up on me..
So in my mind she's game
I text her later to come by my spot let's chill, she just says naah
I'm just like cool.
Do I bush, or try again later? Personally I think I need to bush, I feel she's just playing games
The Message
Lex with tv sets the minimum
thats the issue right there breh.
if a chick has to get on an app to meet a guy...somethings fukkin wrong with her.
90% of these broads on these apps are the $5 dvd bin at big lots. these bytches are double-a minor league journeymen wholl never make it to majors
theyre single for a reason. they got some heavy emotional issues they suffer from that no thorough dude would pursue anything with them past cheek clappin.
and this is coming from a breh has ran thru tons of online broads....the shyt aint worth it
most thorough bytches arent on these apps...because they dont need to be.
stay off these apps brehs
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Lead with action. Never say you are going to do something. Just do it. fukk her issue. That’s for her to decide. Take care of your self. She will ether follow or she won’t. Best way to win is not to play. They’ve played that game since they were children. She’s trying to manipulate you into doing something you don’t want to do.
fukk space, give that chick a field. Lol... take your self out. Hang with your boys. She’ll come around. And when she does you make her pay.
Let the church say Amen!!
I started dating this one girl back in January and I don't know what to make of her. I work with her, and have known her for 3-4 years. She is east African, religious (at least more than me), doesn't curse, no kids, two jobs, only 3-4 long term relationships prior, she seemed like a great pick up.
That being said I have allowed her the option of a break instead of breaking up and I think I played this wrong.
Here is some backstory on shyt she has said to me and how she behaves.
Early on in our relationship we are talking on the phone and she tells me she had a dream that I was choking her, and not the sexy type, but the assault type, wtf.
She tells me she can't believe the shyt that comes out of my mouth, she can't take jokes and gets offended easily.
She called me an a$$hole on the subway, not very loudly, but nonetheless, shyt was disrespectful to say that shyt in front of other people.
She consistently blows me off. Doesn't text back regularly, turns off her phone or ignores. She says this is because she doesn't really use her phone like that, but I see her on it when I come to work. She sits away from me on the subway at times. She declines rides home when I offer them. She only texts me now when she has a question pertinent to her.
She had friends over at her place from Africa for 3 weeks in February, in which time I got none of her attention.
Multiple times we don't see each other one on one for 2 weeks or more.
Haven't been on a dinner date since March 1st, I haven't seen her one on one since April 20th.
Had two conversations with her in the second week of May, in which she admitted to distancing herself maybe subconsciously. She said she did have some issues with me, but also her own personal issues, that she needs to fix herself first. Asked if she still wants to be with me or break up. Says she does love me more than anyone before and wants to be with me. She said her distance is because of personal things, I think she is depressed about something but she doesn't want to share, prefers to keep it to herself. We decided we would take a break, though she couldn't give me a firm commitment on how much time it would take, I asked if this would take six months because I am not waiting around that long and she said no, still she couldn't give me a time frame. I said maybe we should call each other to keep in touch but try again later once she has herself together. She said she feels bad right now because she knows she hasn't been able to make herself available the amount that we deserve for a relationship to work. We have only spoken on the phone once since these two conversations for 20 minutes. She is going on vacation with her friends in a few weeks as well.
I wanted to break it off when I had my last one on one conversation with her, but she seemed like a great girl and I didn't want to throw it away. Plus I see her everyday at work. Any advice, should I set deadlines for this "break" we are one, or tell her we are done.
That being said I have allowed her the option of a break instead of breaking up and I think I played this wrong.
Here is some backstory on shyt she has said to me and how she behaves.
Early on in our relationship we are talking on the phone and she tells me she had a dream that I was choking her, and not the sexy type, but the assault type, wtf.
She tells me she can't believe the shyt that comes out of my mouth, she can't take jokes and gets offended easily.
She called me an a$$hole on the subway, not very loudly, but nonetheless, shyt was disrespectful to say that shyt in front of other people.
She consistently blows me off. Doesn't text back regularly, turns off her phone or ignores. She says this is because she doesn't really use her phone like that, but I see her on it when I come to work. She sits away from me on the subway at times. She declines rides home when I offer them. She only texts me now when she has a question pertinent to her.
She had friends over at her place from Africa for 3 weeks in February, in which time I got none of her attention.
Multiple times we don't see each other one on one for 2 weeks or more.
Haven't been on a dinner date since March 1st, I haven't seen her one on one since April 20th.
Had two conversations with her in the second week of May, in which she admitted to distancing herself maybe subconsciously. She said she did have some issues with me, but also her own personal issues, that she needs to fix herself first. Asked if she still wants to be with me or break up. Says she does love me more than anyone before and wants to be with me. She said her distance is because of personal things, I think she is depressed about something but she doesn't want to share, prefers to keep it to herself. We decided we would take a break, though she couldn't give me a firm commitment on how much time it would take, I asked if this would take six months because I am not waiting around that long and she said no, still she couldn't give me a time frame. I said maybe we should call each other to keep in touch but try again later once she has herself together. She said she feels bad right now because she knows she hasn't been able to make herself available the amount that we deserve for a relationship to work. We have only spoken on the phone once since these two conversations for 20 minutes. She is going on vacation with her friends in a few weeks as well.
I wanted to break it off when I had my last one on one conversation with her, but she seemed like a great girl and I didn't want to throw it away. Plus I see her everyday at work. Any advice, should I set deadlines for this "break" we are one, or tell her we are done.
African_brehda
Superstar
These women
Known this chick for a while, we been flirting when we see each other in person, but never really talk outside of that..
2 nights ago, we're on our flirty shyt, and she starts kissing and feeling up on me..
So in my mind she's game
I text her later to come by my spot let's chill, she just says naah
I'm just like cool.
Do I bush, or try again later? Personally I think I need to bush, I feel she's just playing games
Brehs
