Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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I matched with a white chick and a couple of her pics were nice, despite her being a little bigger than I'm used to. But there was one last picture where she was way too big.

And then she texted me a video of her working on jewelry. She was seated at a table and the camera was aimed at her working with her hands. You couldn't see her face, but her chin entered the frame every now and then. It was bad.

Size 16 was always my limit. Nowadays I'm more into slim women. My main tastes have changed. As I get older I don't want a woman with tons of weight on her.
 

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I am not the type that likes to play games but I sense I'm going to have to do that with this chick I'm trying to deal with. I enjoy her time. She's cool, funny, bubbly. Seems to have potential. Comes from a stable background. We've went out a couple times (she's prettier in person than pics, actually) and on surface I sense a chance potential compatibility from a complementary/balance standpoint.

That said, there could be one or two hangups (namely religion. I believe in God and try to move as the Bible says in general, but I'm not really a church-goer nor is my level of spiritual closeness with the Lord where I want it yet. She says faith is a big deal to her).

Anyway, I think I'm going to fall back, let her show the interest if she has any. This is a game to me, and I'm not fond of it. But sometimes it's needed.

I don't blow her up like that (she's finishing up a doctorate), but I know I typically initiate conversation. Chasing isn't a big deal to me so long as I've been given clear signs to go after what it is I want (we had the "Let's not waste time" conversation). I haven't gotten clear enough signs to where that's the case, and if there's anything I've learned and seen, no matter how busy somebody is -- and to her credit, every time I've suggested we go do something, she's been down for the cause -- if a chick want you, she will not only make time for you, but they'll actively try to put you in a situation to get her time as well.

So either she's going to have to show me something a tad more substantial or I'll have to keep it moving.
 

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The teacher came to help me move yesterday and bought a few housewarming gifts she was a bit upset that I didn’t let her come help me during the morning. I’m way too independent, I rarely ask people for anything but she’s always proactively offering to do shyt for me, I’m not used to it:mjcry:
 

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The one bad thing about these apps etc is that it’s like I can’t stop

I’ve met 5 women in like the past two weeks and meeting another one tomorrow. Every day I say ima delete then some hot ass chick pops up and I’m down the rabbit hole again.
I was in the same boat, then i realized i was spending a lot of money and time with them :snoop:

Made me realize, i need trim the roster down and focus more on getting more money
 

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Matched with this Filipino chick on hinge earlier, was not bad until I scrolled through her pics and saw how big she was.

This chick is 32, looking at her pics all her friends are the typical Vancouver slim beach girls.

Damn shame as she has such a great personality and a deliciously pretty and slutty face but her weight is not 'day friendly'. My dating stock would drop if I ever got seen with her in a romantic sense.

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Wow 32 and that big woah
 

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The only thing about it, is that’s it’s harder to fukk(for me at least) at park/outdoor events.

I feel it’s way easier to set the mood at a dim lit bar where y’all sitting near each other in a booth

Depends. In NY you can fukk anywhere. Central Park is lit come summer time, day or night. Just gotta find the proper spots. FDR park as well. If a bytch can't bend over or ride you on a bench, she needs to hit the gym. Setting the mood is all about the conversation before hand. If its casual then shes gonna expect causal. For me, I keep it very simple "we'll hit central, blowjob, then coffee"....I always get a "you're crazy" or some other irrelevant response, but she at least knows what I'm expecting when she shows up.

Also liquor always helps, if she drinks just bring a bottle of whateverdafukk....I can't tell you how many times I've gotten laid in public just with a shot of cheap vodka being the cause.
 

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The only thing about it, is that’s it’s harder to fukk(for me at least) at park/outdoor events.

I feel it’s way easier to set the mood at a dim lit bar where y’all sitting near each other in a booth

Depends. In NY you can fukk anywhere. Central Park is lit come summer time, day or night. Just gotta find the proper spots. FDR park as well. If a bytch can't bend over or ride you on a bench, she needs to hit the gym. Setting the mood is all about the conversation before hand. If its casual then shes gonna expect causal. For me, I keep it very simple "we'll hit central, blowjob, then coffee"....I always get a "you're crazy" or some other irrelevant response, but she at least knows what I'm expecting when she shows up.

Also liquor always helps, if she drinks just bring a bottle of whateverdafukk....I can't tell you how many times I've gotten laid in public just with a shot of cheap vodka being the cause.

:whoa: I'm not talking about smashing outside. More so just doing something outdoors to feel a chick out first. Get some ice cream by lakefront and kick it in the city. Feel the chick out and if y'all vibing, then take a detour into a bar or something like that.
 

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Seeing two broads right now regularly and they have busy schedules so literally the most I’m doing is getting a drink then pounding them out :wow:

And their schedules are diff so when one is free the other one is busy :blessed:

Last night one of them wanted to get drinks but I lied and said I was drinking all day already. Showed up to her house at 9 just to pulverize her little asian box :ahh:
 

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I'm officially done trying. I'm just about to focus on me for awhile & literally put zero effort into getting p*ssy. If a girl is interested, then she'll just have to work herself in somehow because I'm done pursuing. All the simps on social media got even average looking chick's heads gassed beyond belief. Every girl thinks they're a dime now.

The entire dating scene just seems like an incredible waste of time nowadays & will give you a fukking migraine with how shallow & retarded the majority of these girls are. I even had a girl tell me that she only dates guys that have a certain number of followers on Instagram :deadrose:

I'm just gonna fall back in general & let divine intervention sort it out. I love p*ssy as much as anyone, but I just can't do the games.
 

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@Balla

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Never watched any of his videos before. Someone recommended this for me to watch. What do you all think?



U better off watching Alpha Male Strategies bruh.

I feel copying off cacs makes you do type corny things, cac women have a different personality than black women, well it depends on your type of women.
 
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