Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

MikelArteta

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Yep red flags go up if a woman doesn't check a guy trying to go raw in them. That tells me a lot about what kind of woman she is. Also if she doesn't ask what your status is like and when the last time you went to the clinic. Yeah it lowers the mood but I know I'm messing with someone who takes their health seriously

Most times when I and a woman have gone raw it's been after 3-4 smashings then she'll be more open to it.

One of the shocking experiences was hooking up with this chick one late night off Tinder, she lived near to me and so I snuck around to fukk got there and we got down to it. She was on top kissing and she slid me in her. Next thing we fukking.

Anyway, I aired her afterward as the p*ssy was trash then a few weeks later I receive a text message from her doing small talk I entertain it as I felt she wanted to tell me something. She gets to the point and says her ex some Nigerian guy had given her something and she was informing all her partners. Breh my blood ran cold. I thought shyt was over.

Luckily got thoroughly tested and was clear. still, see this nasty bytch pop up on Tinder with no mention in her profile of her herpes status.

i had that happened to me before but it was a call from toronto health to get tested and i tested positive :sadcam:..................for trich and chlamydia from a blowjob

also after i smashed a chick when i was in africa i thought i got the house in virginia even though i was strapped up like a week later i had this severe cold and sickness thought it was the end
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but got tested, got tested 3 months after and again 6 months after nothing

whats crazy is every girl i've ever smashed not one has ever brought up to like wear a condom etc.
 

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This shyt right here keeps me on track. Before I try buying anything, I just imagine her using it to please someone else, then I fall the fukk back. :wow:

During my worst simping period when I was trying to keep my OG Vancouver PAAG I brought her an expensive Bluetooth speaker as she had this shyt one. And some pricey candles for Christmas.

She stopped seeing me 5 days into Jan.

:mjgrin:

I know she probably was fukking and entertaining who was with her afterward using that speaker. Probably fukking to slow jams.

:mjcry:

Brings it all home to you haha. Never again.
 

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Went over this this white/japanese bytch apt last night from okcupid.... FAT ASS! small tittys

bytch basically agreed we can be fwb going forward...had her in a thong she ate hela edibles n was lw sleepy...so i didnt smash...made her get to her thong tho n was rubbn on her ass...she had a annoying ass dog

U never know with these bytches try n metoo me :mjpls:
 

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Brehs help me out here.

Is there ANY plausible reason for a chick to respond to your text message 36 hours or so after you’ve messaged her or is it a lack of interest on her part?

So I reached out to this chick and set up a date with her. She came 1 hour late but still turned up. Date was cool and I feel we hit it off... didn’t kiss at end of date... didn’t try to because she had a cold.

So next day I let her know I had a good time and when she’s free. She didn’t respond to this text until 30 hours plus later but was still texting other people during that time.

She’s just responded back telling me when she’s free.

Let me know because I’m about to bush this chick but also feeling to give her reasonable doubt.
I’m sorry but...:mjlol:

Would’ve ghosted and blocked that chick after 10 minutes of her being late.
 

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What did you change breh?

I'd say the number one thing I changed(and I hope this makes sense) is that I got out of my comfort zone. I did random things like going to busy bars/clubs on a friday or saturday night by myself... hell, even things like signing up for scuba diving lessons, going on hot air ballons. Anything that made me uncomfortable. I also made a list of things that I wanted to accomplish, and rattled them off one by one. At the time I was in between jobs, coming off a bad break up and had to sell my ride too :heh:

All this grinding, and trying out new things helped boost my confidence, which helped me get a new, great job, and of course confidence helps with the women. Besides that, I stopped putting anyone on a pedestal besides myself and my goals :ufdup:

Definitely not claiming that I'm out here getting dimes every week, but there's my story
 

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During my worst simping period when I was trying to keep my OG Vancouver PAAG I brought her an expensive Bluetooth speaker as she had this shyt one. And some pricey candles for Christmas.

She stopped seeing me 5 days into Jan.

:mjgrin:

I know she probably was fukking and entertaining who was with her afterward using that speaker. Probably fukking to slow jams.

:mjcry:

Brings it all home to you haha. Never again.


Setting the mood for another nikka to blow her back out, with your speaker :wow:

Thoughts like this make me keep from going beyond food. She'll shyt it out in the morning
 

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It happens, your emotions take over you, very hard to fight.

I just fukked up some shyt with a girl I really wanted to fukk, and I mean fukk raw.

The key is to keep other women around, keep your thoughts off her, and one that’s not mentioned enough, keep your distance, do not talk to her too much because you will slip up the more you talk.

It’s especially hard for dudes like me who are mad picky, see a girl I’m feeling and I wanna bust all kind of nuts inside her.

Breh that's the thing.

Got a girl at work mad hinting and wants me to take her out somewhere

Had a girl that comes to my work that was mad pursuing (literally) adding me on FB.. had to shut that down because she seems a bit erratic and don't want her fvcking up my money

Got a recent ex who i still keep in contact with and was hinting about sex.

It's like the girls i don't want are throwing it at a nikka but the girl i do want is evading me :to:
 

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Setting the mood for another nikka to blow her back out, with your speaker :wow:

Thoughts like this make me keep from going beyond food. She'll shyt it out in the morning

Breh, shyt was a revelation. I had known her for 11 months then but still.

I like to think she chucked them out but I know she kept them.

Now after a drink date and if I want to meet a woman I either take her out or do my preferred thing make her dinner. Save money and get her alone.
 
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The one bad thing about these apps etc is that it’s like I can’t stop

I’ve met 5 women in like the past two weeks and meeting another one tomorrow. Every day I say ima delete then some hot ass chick pops up and I’m down the rabbit hole again.
 

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The one bad thing about these apps etc is that it’s like I can’t stop

I’ve met 5 women in like the past two weeks and meeting another one tomorrow. Every day I say ima delete then some hot ass chick pops up and I’m down the rabbit hole again.


You meet one hot chick then one more pops up and it being summer now, chicks are on it even more. I'll use the apps this summer then delete for autumn until cuffing season tryouts in October.
:shaq:
 

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Why do women get on these apps when they clearly have no time?

One chick I talked to was in grad school and had a bunch of work to do, so she couldn't meet up.

Another one is busy every day next week, so she wanted to do something today. Then she remembered she had to do a work thing, so she wants to reschedule until tonight. But she lives kinda far.
 
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Matched with this Filipino chick on hinge earlier, was not bad until I scrolled through her pics and saw how big she was.

This chick is 32, looking at her pics all her friends are the typical Vancouver slim beach girls.

Damn shame as she has such a great personality and a deliciously pretty and slutty face but her weight is not 'day friendly'. My dating stock would drop if I ever got seen with her in a romantic sense.

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I matched with a white chick and a couple of her pics were nice, despite her being a little bigger than I'm used to. But there was one last picture where she was way too big.

And then she texted me a video of her working on jewelry. She was seated at a table and the camera was aimed at her working with her hands. You couldn't see her face, but her chin entered the frame every now and then. It was bad.
 
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