Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Goon for hire]

Are you the dude that was going to college to play ball?

Yeah, all my offers were from extremely small division two private schools (like only 1000 people). Never really loved hooping anyways, So I was like fukk that shyt

I do regret not doing it a bit because I set myself back a year education wise but oh well fukk it live and learn

 

[Balla]

Yeah, all my offers were from extremely small division two private schools (like only 1000 people). Never really loved hooping anyways, So I was like fukk that shyt

I do regret not doing it a bit because I set myself back a year education wise but oh well fukk it live and learn

I feel u, I would of did that shyt tho lol. Did ya pops or coach make you play in high school ?

 

[HARLEM AL]

I'm about to be 25 in a few weeks. And boy I am glad that I'm learning at an early age about women. Like I'm glad I don't have kids nor am I married yet.

Saturday night I went to my buddies bar and it was only the bartender and her friend. She said since no one else was around we could smoke our wax pen. So we were in there getting drunk and high so i was chillen

Then the bartender and her friend started a conversation that had me like

Bartender's friend was talking about how the guy she hung out with was cool but hes too nice. I hopped in the convo like see this is why women are trash.

Both chicks laughed it off and they tried to reason my argument with how they are independent women with kids

Then they continued to talk about other shyt like how: some dudes tried to pay all their bills, how many guys are in their dms, how there are plenty of young men in their dms (these women were like 30), and recent incidents where they rejected some dudes. I'm sitting there like

Another breh walks in, orders a drink, and goes back outside.

The bartender was like: "if he hollers at me don't laugh at me guys seriously.."

I respond with: oh you know him?

She laughs and says no.... like bytch why you throwing shade at breh for minding his business?

Breh comes back in. We sitting there talking for a little bit. Breh isn't from our town so he asks whats the next to go to bar. The ladies tell him and my buddy is like lets go there and I'm down to go. The ladies tell us they will meet us there.

They show up at the bar an hour later with that breh and then they just ditch him. I ask one of them is he outside smoking and one of the chicks say.. "I don't know where he went. We just offered a ride for him here. We don't know how hes getting to his next destination but we saved him from spending money to get here."


I guess that was fair

We go outside of this bar.. drinking and smoking... (me, my friend, the bartender, her friend)

We sitting there chillen and then a crazy ass storm comes and it's fukking wild...

I'm like lets dip out breh. We told the ladies peace and they kind of had this shocked face that we were dipping out before them.

It was as if they expected us to holler at them ... I'm not saying they would have let us hit but it was more of some shyt like they were just shocked we didn't even try. As if they were shocked the guys left them there before they could leave us there type shyts.

I know it sounds wild but after their convos i wouldn't be surprised.


Moral of the story is women aint shyt

You killed their ego.

Yep I agree breh, I’ve fukked two girls off the hinge app since I’ve downloded it last month but I’m just not feeling that shyt, would prefer to get to know a woman in person, feels more authentic to me tbh, I start college in August so I’m trying to improve my mouthpiece so I can simply just walk up to hoes on campus and start spitting game, do you have any advice for a young breh? Only time I can approach random girls is when I am under the influence of drugs or alcohol, but I’m done with both

You have to just start talking to random women. Young and old. Try to do it like 2 weeks straight. You will see there’s nothing to be afraid of. Don’t let your mind trick you into believing something that ain’t true. You’re going to thank yourself for it.

Only advice that will help you is to just do it tbh.

You can start off small at first, but you have to do it and not gaf if you get rejected or someone sees it.

That was always my biggest problem with women; cold approaching during the day without her showing me any signs.

And this is for years my g, years!!

I still can’t do it consistently, I can do it at clubs and bars, but straight up day time hell no.

But another thing that I haven’t done yet is actually go out with the intent to do it consistently.

I feel if you go out specifically to holla at women, and you keep going out. You’ll end up doing it.

I have a massive ego and I couldn’t really go around campus just approaching chicks because I would be worried if it turned out bad.

Plus my age makes me feel too old to do that as well with college chicks (24/25).

I did cat calls and would try to have some conversations, but shyt still felt weird to me.

Anyway my advice is to just do the shyt, just fukkin say hi.

These dating apps help to because it’s extra, so I’m not relying on only one thing.

Just don’t go too hard on campus and focus more when you’re out and about.

When you can just holla at women anywhere, that’s that ultimate freedom.

Clubs are a no no. That shyt is for attention seekers.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Brehs help me out here.

Is there ANY plausible reason for a chick to respond to your text message 36 hours or so after you’ve messaged her or is it a lack of interest on her part?

So I reached out to this chick and set up a date with her. She came 1 hour late but still turned up. Date was cool and I feel we hit it off... didn’t kiss at end of date... didn’t try to because she had a cold.

So next day I let her know I had a good time and when she’s free. She didn’t respond to this text until 30 hours plus later but was still texting other people during that time.

She’s just responded back telling me when she’s free.

Let me know because I’m about to bush this chick but also feeling to give her reasonable doubt.

 

[HARLEM AL]

I feel like I’m wasting women

Let me explain

I can pull chicks with relative ease, but it’s like once I get them, I don’t want them anymore. It seems like I lose women as fast as I get them out of sheer boredom.

My larger issue, and the reason why I made this post, is because I am running through GOOD women. Women with their own everything looking for a man to settle down with. The type of Professional black women with good jobs looking to build a stable black household.

My latest fling just broke up with me. I was supposed to go see her tonight but I bailed because I have family in town. She wants “space.” The truth is I don’t give a fukk because I’ve been texting several other chicks. Sometimes in her bed right after we’ve had sex and she went to the bathroom to wipe my nut off her ass or face.

I really want to care, but it’s hard when my exes keep throwing it at me, and I’m constantly meeting new chicks. I feel like I’ll never get married because I can’t commit.

I’m scared to keep meeting women because they fall for me, I fukk for a couple months, then I find something new. Meanwhile they’re thinking about forever.

I say I want something more, and when I get it, I fukk it up.

I don’t wanna be a skeets type of guy, but I am never satisfied.

I don’t know what to do...

I’m going to tell you something that might a unpopular if this story is true.

Whatever you’re doing, keep doing. Don’t worry about how they feel. In actuality they don’t give a fukk about how you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Listen playa, you either the nikka that she wish she could be with or the nikka “she settled with”. There’s no such thing as a good woman. They might be good to one dude but to the next they are the total opposite.

Don’t fall for the Jedi mind trick.

 

[Balla]

@HARLEM AL

Two questions for you tho my guy:

1. Why don’t you like dating apps ? Did you deal with a lot of aint shyt bytches?

2. Where do you usually go to approach in person? How often do you go out?

 

[PewPew]

I’m going to tell you something that might a unpopular if this story is true.

Whatever you’re doing, keep doing. Don’t worry about how they feel. In actuality they don’t give a fukk about how you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Listen playa, you either the nikka that she wish she could be with or the nikka “she settled with”. There’s no such thing as a good woman. They might be good to one dude but to the next they are the total opposite.

Don’t fall for the Jedi mind trick.

THIS is the response i wanted.

Deep down, this is exactly how i feel. Honestly.

When i was a lame broke scrub, they didnt give a fukk about me. you shoulda seen the way they treated me when i was broke.

Now that im doing better i can hardly be bothered to care about them. I get what i want and i move the fukk on.

Society tells me i am fukked up for it, but my heart and mind tells me to stay the course.

Funny enough, the chick that prompted that story called me this morning complaining because i dont make her a priority in my life.

She wants to talk face to face tonight. its like the less you care, the more they care

 

[Balla]

Brehs help me out here.

Is there ANY plausible reason for a chick to respond to your text message 36 hours or so after you’ve messaged her or is it a lack of interest on her part?

So I reached out to this chick and set up a date with her. She came 1 hour late but still turned up. Date was cool and I feel we hit it off... didn’t kiss at end of date... didn’t try to because she had a cold.

So next day I let her know I had a good time and when she’s free. She didn’t respond to this text until 30 hours plus later but was still texting other people during that time.

She’s just responded back telling me when she’s free.

Let me know because I’m about to bush this chick but also feeling to give her reasonable doubt.

Don’t take her seriously. It seems that a majority of girls are kind of acting like this now.

If you can get her out again try to fukk her this time.

That bytch ain’t that busy.

 

[Balla]

You killed their ego.


You have to just start talking to random women. Young and old. Try to do it like 2 weeks straight. You will see there’s nothing to be afraid of. Don’t let your mind trick you into believing something that ain’t true. You’re going to thank yourself for it.

Clubs are a no no. That shyt is for attention seekers.

If clubs are a no no how do you meet a lot of chicks?

Day game to me is so limited because you might not have a bunch of women to talk to.

I’m tryna get my notches up.

 

[HARLEM AL]

@HARLEM AL

Two questions for you tho my guy:

1. Why don’t you like dating apps ? Did you deal with a lot of aint shyt bytches?

2. Where do you usually go to approach in person? How often do you go out?

1. All are these broads are the same. A lot of the time the dating apps is nothing more than something to boost their ego. I fukked a couple off of their. I’m still pretty cool with them.

2. Honestly I don’t approach women to often. They come to me. Or in my area. I could approach more often but approach constantly gives you a thirst vibe. You never want to appear thirsty. Women feel that. And to honest I have to much shyt going on to be approaching chicks lol. Dealing with multiple women at a time is a headache

And to tell you the truth, if you doing everything you need for yourself you already have women watching. A woman will watch you for a long ass time before she puts herself in your way for you to find her. Man listen, most chicks you met have seen you before or even know of you.

 

[HARLEM AL]

If clubs are a no no how do you meet a lot of chicks?

Day game to me is so limited because you might not have a bunch of women to talk to.

I’m tryna get my notches up.

Bars. Pick a couple and make your self a regular. Just go out and enjoy yourself. You’ll find you get more p*ssy that way. It’s all about you. Not about them. Don’t worry about getting your numbers up. The average dude has only been with maybe 5 women give or take. Find some smash them for a while and do it all over again. Be honest, Don’t lie.

 

[semicko82]

Nah I backed out of my contract a couple weeks ago, my uncle was telling me I need to go the college route since I want to ultimately be an officer, he got me connected to the navy rotc instructor at N.C. state, so I’m gonna do the rotc shyt and try to get a active duty commission in a few years

Good decision, If you got options in the civilian world I would suggest not enlisting.

 

[Apollo Kid]

Met up with a woman on Hinge for a coffee date. I was thinking this would've lasted about an hour but we ended talking for about 3 hours. She suggested that I call her to go out again

 

[twan83]

I didnt elaborate enough but perhaps it could be as simple as you sayin.

I get bent out of shape cuz I dont do the lil word games and mind games and shyt. Almost word for word what you just said to me is what I texted a broad tonight.

Adding on to this, these broads be sayin they want to have fun and this and that...yaddayadda

Mane before we even meet they jumpin to relationships and wanting "more". bytch more of fukking WHAT we just started talking.

Mane...jus gettin to tha point I be doin what you said and these broads cant take that shyt. It causes me to lose my patience cuz as I stated in the post you quoted....they initiated ALL that...

Itd be different if *I* hit them up but i didnt. These weird ass broads be coming out of tha air tryin to take shyt over.

shyt ill keep it to myself tho you right about that my g.

I ain't bout that life either breh
Either u wanna be fukk buddies or not
I make my intentions clear as shyt ain't got time to waste when other potential women can get at ya boy
If I wanted a relationship I would of made it clear as day dont go wasting my time cuz u all dikk happy
Like one breh said u got the juice and they mad they cant control u or have u the way they want

Just relax like I said laugh it off and do u breh
When females coming to u and u can smash easily it's a wrap cuz they dont know what to do at all they not use to and dont have control of the situation and they hate that shyt

I any female who plays games or attempts too with me
My time is more valuable than ur life is what I go by
U want my time act right or gtfo of my face

 

[twan83]

Nah I backed out of my contract a couple weeks ago, my uncle was telling me I need to go the college route since I want to ultimately be an officer, he got me connected to the navy rotc instructor at N.C. state, so I’m gonna do the rotc shyt and try to get a active duty commission in a few years

Offices route is always best breh just do something that will help u later down the line once u do get out of the military dont go doing any random shyt
Cuz once ur out people like to hire military guys but will pay them way more if it's a field that is good in the civilian sector
My dad retired e6 and now is making 6 figures cuz of the military job he did he was so good at and the usefulness of it they wanted to make sure they got him