Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What's y'alls feeling on giving away social media to someone you're talking to on a dating app?

This broad I was talking to, gave me her number, and I asked if we could meet for drinks. She said yes, but asked for two social media profiles. I refused, and moved on to another chick I was talking to :manny: Set up a date for this thursday.

Rubbed me the wrong way, but I probably overreacted
 

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What's y'alls feeling on giving away social media to someone you're talking to on a dating app?

This broad I was talking to, gave me her number, and I asked if we could meet for drinks. She said yes, but asked for two social media profiles. I refused, and moved on to another chick I was talking to :manny: Set up a date for this thursday.

Rubbed me the wrong way, but I probably overreacted


I wouldn’t. She wants to see your life and scope you out like a background check.

If she wanna get comfortable talk on the phone first.
 

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So I went round the the mixed Filipino chicks place last night was fun but the sex was just ok. Nothing mind blowing. Tbh we should have rearranged. Lesson learned.

Nice chick not sure if its worth putting any effort in to smash again though.


My nikka I need some advice lol. Idk if the girls are different where you at, but these chicks are taking long to set some shyt up, I be tryna set shyt up ASAP, but they stay claiming they gotta do something or I just get bored and move on.

There’s a couple chicks I ain’t meet up tho because they were either too far or they wanted me to go somewhere I ain’t wanna go and I think it would have made smashing more difficult.

I move on from chick to chick, but I notice a lot of them do it.
 

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What's y'alls feeling on giving away social media to someone you're talking to on a dating app?

This broad I was talking to, gave me her number, and I asked if we could meet for drinks. She said yes, but asked for two social media profiles. I refused, and moved on to another chick I was talking to :manny: Set up a date for this thursday.

Rubbed me the wrong way, but I probably overreacted

I always check their ig to make sure they’re not catfish, but wtf@ 2 diff ones
I only have ig, so I wouldn’t have passed her test. fukk that weird bytch :heh:
 

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What's y'alls feeling on giving away social media to someone you're talking to on a dating app?

This broad I was talking to, gave me her number, and I asked if we could meet for drinks. She said yes, but asked for two social media profiles. I refused, and moved on to another chick I was talking to :manny: Set up a date for this thursday.

Rubbed me the wrong way, but I probably overreacted

i dont have social media but why she asking like you applying to rent a room at her place

As I said above there are to much women out there to go the extra mile for chicks you haven't even met yet.
 

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Long as it’s extra. I’ll always advocate talking to chicks in person.
whatever works big homie.

Yeah when you think about it, if you can get a couple of bytches off there, that’s more bytches that you could fukk with less effort.

That’s how I see it, if I’m bored I’ll just swipe and try to get some hoes.

The only thing I hate about in person is going to the places to meet them and the time.

I went to the club recently and it was trash, I wasted my time and money. So there’s that as well.

It’s just a lot of time to go out and approach women, but I do feel it is very important to do.

I was strictly in person too, but I added online and I’ve talked to like 40+ women that I would have never talked to with low effort.

Two questions for you tho my guy:

1. Why don’t you like dating apps ? Did you deal with a lot of aint shyt bytches?

2. Where do you usually go to approach in person? How often do you go out?
 

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I don’t know how y’all do it with them apps. I like meeting and talking to people in person. shyt is easier.
Yep I agree breh, I’ve fukked two girls off the hinge app since I’ve downloded it last month but I’m just not feeling that shyt, would prefer to get to know a woman in person, feels more authentic to me tbh, I start college in August so I’m trying to improve my mouthpiece so I can simply just walk up to hoes on campus and start spitting game, do you have any advice for a young breh? Only time I can approach random girls is when I am under the influence of drugs or alcohol, but I’m done with both
 

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Yep I agree breh, I’ve fukked two girls off the hinge app since I’ve downloded it last month but I’m just not feeling that shyt, would prefer to get to know a woman in person, feels more authentic to me tbh, I start college in August so I’m trying to improve my mouthpiece so I can simply just walk up to hoes on campus and start spitting game, do you have any advice for a young breh? Only time I can approach random girls is when I am under the influence of drugs or alcohol, but I’m done with both

Only advice that will help you is to just do it tbh.

You can start off small at first, but you have to do it and not gaf if you get rejected or someone sees it.

That was always my biggest problem with women; cold approaching during the day without her showing me any signs.

And this is for years my g, years!!

I still can’t do it consistently, I can do it at clubs and bars, but straight up day time hell no.

But another thing that I haven’t done yet is actually go out with the intent to do it consistently.

I feel if you go out specifically to holla at women, and you keep going out. You’ll end up doing it.

I have a massive ego and I couldn’t really go around campus just approaching chicks because I would be worried if it turned out bad.

Plus my age makes me feel too old to do that as well with college chicks (24/25).

I did cat calls and would try to have some conversations, but shyt still felt weird to me.

Anyway my advice is to just do the shyt, just fukkin say hi.

These dating apps help to because it’s extra, so I’m not relying on only one thing.

Just don’t go too hard on campus and focus more when you’re out and about.

When you can just holla at women anywhere, that’s that ultimate freedom.

:wow:
 

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My nikka I need some advice lol. Idk if the girls are different where you at, but these chicks are taking long to set some shyt up, I be tryna set shyt up ASAP, but they stay claiming they gotta do something or I just get bored and move on.

There’s a couple chicks I ain’t meet up tho because they were either too far or they wanted me to go somewhere I ain’t wanna go and I think it would have made smashing more difficult.

I move on from chick to chick, but I notice a lot of them do it.

What are you suggesting asap a date or you and them smashing?
 
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