Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Send that bytch a smiley face. bytches love smiley faces.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Fam you in south Kensington, says it all. Where did you meet those two black women you asked? Because what they said is bullshyt. Go Peckham, Croydon, Brixton, Tottenham, Edmonton, Hackney you will see nikkas dating black girls. Like i said Different places in London attract different types of people. You will rarely ever see black couples frequent the same spots as these interracial couples.

Like you said about Hinge, attractive black educated women. Those types in London are looking for a specific type of black guy, who walks, talks, dresses and thinks a certain way and that type of nikka they want is only looking at white girls. The nikkas that date black women they don't check for. You need to understand that shyt

Class and Classism is a real thing here in London ill tell you that now, its why alot of places in central london got dress codes, its to keep a certain type of person and a certain type of nikka from certain areas out. I dated a white girl cuz, her dad worked for MI5 for 20 years and works for the UN now, when with her we went out to places in london i have never been before, places i didn't even know existed and im born and bred in London. It was all similar type people in those spots too, and the types of nikkas there were not like me. I dont fukk with those type of nikkas, although cause of my personality, im funny and the fact i can articulate myself in many different ways i have the ability to get on with all sorts of people and i do but i grew up by East street off Wolly Road, Elephant and Castle im not the same as that type nikka and me personally i dont really get them. I hated being in them spots man, its where i peeped how bad classism is here in London, i felt like an alien in them spots, i couldn't believe i grew in the same city as these people.

Most of them type nikkas date white girls and these educated black girls are funnily enough looking for them type nikkas cause of their education they wanna be in a particular social and class circle in london and its them nikkas that are there.

You go out to Leicester square, Liverpool street, Soho, Covent garden etc and go out to restaurants bars there of course your gonna see 9/10 interracial couples. When i dated that white girl those were the spots i was hitting. When homie from the bits going out to eat with his girl they going to places like Kervan in edmonton fam

Lol sounds like my experiences with moving in that world. I also used to live on East Street just off old kent road ends. Grew up near Yellow Brick in Peckham.

I got into that world because I started working in museums and the art galleries and meeting important people. Because I was also articulate you get to see how the other side live and how they conduct themselves. Not gonna lie a lot of those people put me on and I certainly would not be where I am today without doors being opened and people looking out for me with no want of anything in return.

But I'll always be a boy from Peckham. I never forget my roots or look down on people I came up with. But yes London is heavily classist.
but if you can walk the fine line you can use it to your advantage.

 

[WavyHair ChippedTeeth]

Wow, I didn't know so many Coli guys were local. Yellow Brick wow. Wooly Road eesh.

 

[old_timer]

lately i pester my wife with anal sex jokes

me: knock knock
her: Who's there?
me: uranus
her:

me: u in the mood for a party 2nite??
her: Sure! Where is it at?
me: ur a$$hole
her: Not a whole lot of room in there, I'm afraid.
me: thats ok, , ill be the only one cumming

her: Yeah, so how would that be different than every other time we have sex?
me:
her: Don Demarco
her:

 

[DaRealness]

Previous posts like these are why I always stress travel.

I know we always talk about getting p*ssy lol, but we're explorers, we've been doing that for thousands of years it's a byproduct. Travelling opens your mind and opportunities as you never know the type of connections you can make by meeting certain people that will help you in different ways in your life. My recent trip inspired me to start learning spanish and I've made a few good contacts in South America.

As for London, yeah the mandem from the ends are localised AF. I'm North London through and through, Tottenham born and raised and although I don't live there now, I very rarely venture into South London especially. The mentality is different and it's too far lol. It's easy to get to the city from where I live though so I still go to some of these 'classy' establishments every now and again but I'm more comfortable when I keep it hood.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

makes no sense

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I generally don't like texting with men all day, or talking on the phone with them--I prefer to see them in person. If it comes down to phone calls vs texting, I prefer texting over phone calls, because I don't really like talking on the phone in general. So, when brehs want to talk on the phone, I don't like it, lmao. It just feels awkward to talk to someone on the phone that I've never met in person. Now if we met in person, then I don't mind talking on the phone occasionally, but otherwise, I'd prefer a text. But, there is a breh that I text with frequently right now, and I actually like texting with him. I feel like I probably like him. What do you think @BalmainReyes any advice to give this poster?

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

But, there is a breh that I text with frequently right now, and I actually like texting with him. I feel like I probably like him. What do you think @BalmainReyes any advice to give this poster?

See, guys.

Nothing you do really matters if a woman is attracted to you.

So don't stress yourself out and just go with the flow.

If you're her best option, you'll get away with little things like bad texting as long as you act normal.

Because even if you do everything right, a better option can swoop right in.

 

[Krazy K]

I generally don't like texting with men all day, or talking on the phone with them--I prefer to see them in person. If it comes down to phone calls vs texting, I prefer texting over phone calls, because I don't really like talking on the phone in general. So, when brehs want to talk on the phone, I don't like it, lmao. It just feels awkward to talk to someone on the phone that I've never met in person. Now if we met in person, then I don't mind talking on the phone occasionally, but otherwise, I'd prefer a text. But, there is a breh that I text with frequently right now, and I actually like texting with him. I feel like I probably like him. What do you think @BalmainReyes any advice to give this poster?

Do you tell them you don't like talking or texting or just tell em your phone is broke?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

See, guys.

Nothing you do really matters if a woman is attracted to you.

So don't stress yourself out and just go with the flow.

If you're her best option, you'll get away with little things like bad texting as long as you act normal.

Because even if you do everything right, a better option can swoop right in.

I don't see it as "bad texting" if I like texting with him though. In general though, it's better to just text to set something up, but it's true that if I'm feeling you, I'll be more open to texting with you often and I won't see it negatively.

 

[Knicksman20]

Long story short she gave me her #
Next day I text
Me:"Hey it's Rozay"
She texts hours later: "I imagine this is the cashier from x. How are you?"
Me 20 mins later: "Yeah lol, I'm good and you?"

That's when you should've used humor & fuked with her a little (like obviously pretending it wasn't you). You had a perfect opportunity but you spoke like 99% of other dudes she interacts with. After making her laugh & a couple of messages back & forth you either call her to setup a day/time to go out

 

[Ohene]

Try actually ringing her. Woman are shocked when you do. As so many people just text all the time. I was texting a chick last Thursday after 5 mins of texting I just rang her to speak to her. I've done it before and the women were taken aback and were even more open to seeing me.

Plus with actual voice you can at least properly gauge if she's feeling you.

meh

if you around 30 years old or below you know these girls will find phone calls damn near intrusive and creepy.
not every girl is down for them until they have really established that they like you

calling unannounced is a quick way to hear "can i call you back i have to do xyz" and never hear from them again

 

[Ohene]

I wouldn't even ask her out tbh. I stopped asking chicks out and it's been working for me. If a girl is interested she will at the very minimum imply that you guys go out. I don't ask girls out because even, if they're into you, by asking her out you're subconsciously showing your interest and you've killed (some of the) the mystery without even realizing. You're also making yourself the inferior person in the situation. You're essentially saying "Hey I like you I want to spend time with you" fukk that. Just keep the conversation basic when she hits you up. Stop "lol-ing". Don't try to be funny over texts and if she's interested enough she will ask either out right or hint. She'll say "What are you doing this weekend ?" or some dumb shyt like that.

@Rozay Oro
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how old are you guys seriously?
stop being funny over text?
you guys are fukked. if you cant be funny or flirtatious over text most girls will bush you. if they dont get your sense of humor then so be it...on to the next.
but its a risk you have to take

 

[Womb Raider]

Y’all making this shyt too deep

If a bytch fwu it don’t matter how you text her...fr fr you should probably give a lot less fukks than you do now. bytches ain’t shyt bro they will literally rush to give you their number and then leave you on read

 

[Balla]

Y’all making this shyt too deep

If a bytch fwu it don’t matter how you text her...fr fr you should probably give a lot less fukks than you do now. bytches ain’t shyt bro they will literally rush to give you their number and then leave you on read

bytches really ain’t shyt lol