Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I wouldn't even ask her out tbh. I stopped asking chicks out and it's been working for me. If a girl is interested she will at the very minimum imply that you guys go out. I don't ask girls out because even, if they're into you, by asking her out you're subconsciously showing your interest and you've killed (some of the) the mystery without even realizing. You're also making yourself the inferior person in the situation. You're essentially saying "Hey I like you I want to spend time with you" fukk that. Just keep the conversation basic when she hits you up. Stop "lol-ing". Don't try to be funny over texts and if she's interested enough she will ask either out right or hint. She'll say "What are you doing this weekend ?" or some dumb shyt like that.

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They live on Oxford street and Bond street, that's exactly what im talking about g. The class they are in living in those areas means they socialise in certain places in London with a certain class of people and have a certain mindset. The type of nikkas they gonna regularly encounter in the places they go and frequent, as two women who live on Bond and Oxford street, the type of nikkas in their social class that they looking for are the type of nikkas that for the most part date white women. Cause in truth those nikkas see those white women as the ultimate badge representing the social class they are in. Those Black Women are on some classism shyt ill tell you that now, for me as a black man to approach them i'd need to be a certain way, talk, dress and act a certain way or immediately they will stereotype me in their mind and im fighting an uphill battle and i dont feel comfortable like that, im not saying its not possible to bag those women if game is tight but them things never last cause they always look at you as almost beneath them.

I i can believe that last part too g, the white girl i dated was hot aswell, we got compliments on nights out from strangers about how we were a good looking couple, strangers smiling at us etc. but i didn't feel comfortable in those circles, i cant be me, i cant be the way i am when im with my boys in these places.


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I wouldn't even ask her out tbh. I stopped asking chicks out and it's been working for me. If a girl is interested she will at the very minimum imply that you guys go out. I don't ask girls out because even, if they're into you, by asking her out you're subconsciously showing your interest and you've killed (some of the) the mystery without even realizing. You're also making yourself the inferior person in the situation. You're essentially saying "Hey I like you I want to spend time with you" fukk that. Just keep the conversation basic when she hits you up. Stop "lol-ing". Don't try to be funny over texts and if she's interested enough she will ask either out right or hint. She'll say "What are you doing this weekend ?" or some dumb shyt like that.

@Rozay Oro



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somebody post his patreon shyt, he blocked me from patreon and I don't know how to contact the motherfukka
:mjlol: For what?

Anyway tho, his patreon fell off. Dude got lazy and stopped posting vids every day. Only post vlogs of his life on tuesdays & saturdays.

I signed up for the comedy not that bullshyt :camby:
 

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I wouldn't even ask her out tbh. I stopped asking chicks out and it's been working for me. If a girl is interested she will at the very minimum imply that you guys go out. I don't ask girls out because even, if they're into you, by asking her out you're subconsciously showing your interest and you've killed (some of the) the mystery without even realizing. You're also making yourself the inferior person in the situation. You're essentially saying "Hey I like you I want to spend time with you" fukk that. Just keep the conversation basic when she hits you up. Stop "lol-ing". Don't try to be funny over texts and if she's interested enough she will ask either out right or hint. She'll say "What are you doing this weekend ?" or some dumb shyt like that.

@Rozay Oro

I guess the only next step is a better job for more coin and the gym. I have a decent fashion sense but I wonder how much not following the trends is hurting me. I dress with fitted clothing but not everything is mall shyt.
 

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I guess the only next step is a better job for more coin and the gym. I have a decent fashion sense but I wonder how much not following the trends is hurting me. I dress with fitted clothing but not everything is mall shyt.
Yea definitely hit the gym. Exfoliate. Use shea butter, clip your fingernails and shyt man. bytches check all of this stuff, just look at how they take care of themselves, everything is on point so you gotta be on point too. How old are you ?
 

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I'm here till Saturday but Paris tomorrow

What's funny is those chicks told me to go to camden

Where should a black breh go to?

Lol i ain't surprised, my and my nikkas had a convo recently where we named Camden as the interracial couple date spot of choice. Camden is some weird emo/satanic cac sorta place. If you go there and go thru the Market there you will see exactly what i mean, there's just alot of bars, music venues and places to eat there too.

The thing about Black people in London is when we go out we tend to go local, me and my nikkas will go Nandoes and shyt like that if we wanna go eat. Its very rare we will go central on a night out, and even then again theres places there we just wont go. You can go to places like Stratford and Shepard's bush to see nikkas and still have bars are stuff you can go to and see nikkas but it aint gonna match the glamour of the places you have been.
 
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somebody post his patreon shyt, he blocked me from patreon and I don't know how to contact the motherfukka
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Yea definitely hit the gym. Exfoliate. Use shea butter, clip your fingernails and shyt man. bytches check all of this stuff, just look at how they take care of themselves, everything is on point so you gotta be on point too. How old are you ?
23, not a virgin but my body count is low. I used to be very awkward and have low self esteem. My city full of cacs so don't bother me with apps please.

The only way to meet more of my kinfolk is go to black bars and shyt. I got a few friends from highschool and shytty jobs I've worked.

Most part everybody dealing with life and shyt. This the age you should have your shyt together or work on it.
 

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:mjlol: For what?

Anyway tho, his patreon fell off. Dude got lazy and stopped posting vids every day. Only post vlogs of his life on tuesdays & saturdays.

I signed up for the comedy not that bullshyt :camby:


Not gonna lie I don’t think he could have kept doing videos everyday. That started to get repetitive, but I did enjoy watching him everyday.

Ion fukk wit his 2 days a week shyt. Could have been at least 3-4.

I like new shyt tho, like when he calls bytches and we see how they react n shyt. We see the girls naked sometimes,etc.

He should still make like 2 extra videos for only questions.

He helps me get out my feels for women lmao.
 

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I wouldn't even ask her out tbh. I stopped asking chicks out and it's been working for me. If a girl is interested she will at the very minimum imply that you guys go out. I don't ask girls out because even, if they're into you, by asking her out you're subconsciously showing your interest and you've killed (some of the) the mystery without even realizing. You're also making yourself the inferior person in the situation. You're essentially saying "Hey I like you I want to spend time with you" fukk that. Just keep the conversation basic when she hits you up. Stop "lol-ing". Don't try to be funny over texts and if she's interested enough she will ask either out right or hint. She'll say "What are you doing this weekend ?" or some dumb shyt like that.

@Rozay Oro



That’s the thing tho, op didn’t ask her out and got left on read.

Not all bytches gonna make it easy for you, some will, some won’t no matter what.

There’s really no point of talking to a chick on the phone or text like that because she still can play those games and not answer or whatever.

At least when you ask her out, it’s put up or shut up, none of this talking shyt.

Wish they all could just make it easy for us tho and cooperate.
 
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