Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Got to shout out all the regulars and even not so regulars in this thread who came through and put in work and shared that knowledge. This is what men should be doing, having this roundtable, sharing that real knowledge that helps everyone who is about stepping up their game take their game to another level. Ain't no hating or cattiness in here and we can have our disagreements like gentlemen without those circular arguments that span 10,000 pages. Keep it up.
 

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On that cologne tip, just copped something new... Burberry Brit Summer
(not my picture)
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Joint has a beautiful bottle. Smell is spicy and yet sweet as well. I'm going to have to wear it out a few times and see, but the scent impressed me when I went out to try a few of them.

Fendi has a cologne for men called Fan di Fendi that just released. Beautiful bottle, but I didn't particularly care for the smell:

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Other colognes I liked at the store was Paco Rabanne's 1 million and Mont Blanc Legend. Smelled that Acqua Di Gio Essenza which smelled nice on paper but I didn't like how that smelled on me.
 

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keep posting those profiles malcolm

keeps reiterating to me why i dont mess with online dating naymore
 

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bytch was 40 plus with a kid and looks flabby:snoop:
the level of entitlement is scust :snoop:

again women don't get it she may get alot of messages because guys just want to smash, guys just want puzzy thats it, shes looking for commitment and all that, that she will never get.

any women no matter how hideous she looks how old she is, how much kids or baggage she has can get a guy to sleep with her, the thing is they cant differentiate between that and a guy who will actually love them, treat them with respect be there for them etc.

what these women dont realize they are just like strippers/escorts/porn stars to these dudes giving them attention they jus twant to bust their nut, slap their ass pull their hair may spend a few bucks on them for entertainment but once thats over eh
 

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When it comes down to it, you shouldn't be a man because 'that's what women want' or 'that's what they respond to.' You should do it because it is your God-given role and stepping up and embracing your manhood will give you far more satisfaction than this feminized role that is being artificially created for men. We're seeing so much disappointment from men these days because they've never really been taught or encouraged to embrace their masculinity. The beautiful thing is though, that when you do embrace being a man, the women come with it.

Women have been trained by school and society to verbalize one thing, but when they feel comfortable and aren't thinking about mouthing off an acceptable response, they will let you know how they REALLY feel. Just in the article above, those women didn't care for those frail 'herbivore' men at all. There's a reason women love that 50 shades of grey book. I had a coworker telling me about it and she was going crazy over the book and from what she was telling me about it, it halfway sounded like the dude was abusing the female, but she was actually highly turned on by it and talked about how she loved how dominant and in control the man was.

One reason I hate watching television and listening to a lot of rnb music is because it often shows unrealistic outcomes for actions. Upon continually watching it, your brain starts to associate that false outcome as the real outcome from said action. This is why so many men have grown up disappointed. They've been brainwashed through various means, seeing certain images on television that show unrealistic outcomes for actions. On television, you see the goofy, passive guy who defers to the woman end up with her, and the way he deals with her is mad weak. He's gently carressing her face and kissing her tenderly. But in real life, women might think passive goofballs are cute, but she will NOT hold him to nearly the same esteem as a confident, masculine man. She will NOT respect the man who gently kisses her and nibbles on her earlobe like he's a lesbian compared to the man that can pick her up with ease and handle her.

That's what all of these 'tests' women bring up amount to. She's testing for your leadership, strength and self-respect, which are key traits of you being a man. She wants to see if you are going to step up and check her on her errant behavior... if you are strong enough to tell her to keep that disrespect at the door.

The problem is that men aren't being directly taught this. They are taught some catering and pandering trash and they end up being angry when this nonsense they were reared on ends up getting them used and abused. This whole 'being nice' thing men were reared on on television has nothing to do with nice. Men were taught estrogen based behavior under the guise of 'nice guy' and we see that it doesn't work AT ALL... you now see that underlying objective becoming clearer and clearer as society's handlers are becoming even more bold with their objectives. They are now 'destroying gender roles' supposedly, but in reality they are assigning female roles to men and masculine roles to women. You now see men wearing skirts and all sorts of trash, and speaking out against it makes you bad because you are supporting restrictive gender roles or some trash. All of it is breaking down the family structure. Just as that graph showed you, matriarchal societies have the highest divorce rates. It just goes to show you, despite all the feminist rhetoric these women regurgitate, they do NOT want effeminate men. And you, as a man, will never be able to really look at yourself with pride if you live your whole life being buttery soft, as if your testosterone was extracted from your body.

One of the KEY causes of anger, sadness and disappointment is when expectations diverge from reality. So, what I'm telling the fellas here to eliminate a lot of future anger or sadness is to stop expecting decent behavior from women if you are coming with an estrogen-filled approach... and a lot of us were reared on it in very subtle manners. I'll go into more of this with the next post and show some of my personal mistakes.


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For real, I almost been completely brainwashed and sickened by it. Up until some years ago, the "nice" guy routing I thought I would get success with it. Has a little bit f it, but when I turned into this funny a$$hole that said nothing about what I really do, some of these women been looking at me with the :ninja1: vision. Had a lot more success with it and I will school any good dude about this, as well as to nay of my sons when I have kids one day.
 

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On that cologne tip, just copped something new... Burberry Brit Summer
(not my picture)
Burberry-Brit-Summer-for-Men-EDT-Natural-Spray-100ml-%E2%82%AC-58-.jpg


Joint has a beautiful bottle. Smell is spicy and yet sweet as well. I'm going to have to wear it out a few times and see, but the scent impressed me when I went out to try a few of them.

yeah! that one is real nice. Ill be walking out with that on like :myman:


Fendi has a cologne for men called Fan di Fendi that just released. Beautiful bottle, but I didn't particularly care for the smell:

nd.15726.jpg


Other colognes I liked at the store was Paco Rabanne's 1 million and Mont Blanc Legend. Smelled that Acqua Di Gio Essenza which smelled nice on paper but I didn't like how that smelled on me.

I want to check those one out. theres this wholesale district downtown with a few stores and outlets that have all the newest colognes. at a decent price too. I need to get back on that. and some shoes. fukk a sneaker, if Im not in the gym I dont rock that anymore. I need to build up on my shoe game.

Got to shout out all the regulars and even not so regulars in this thread who came through and put in work and shared that knowledge. This is what men should be doing, having this roundtable, sharing that real knowledge that helps everyone who is about stepping up their game take their game to another level. Ain't no hating or cattiness in here and we can have our disagreements like gentlemen without those circular arguments that span 10,000 pages. Keep it up.


thats another thing. I saw another thread yesterday full of bs, and a lot of times people are just arguing to just to argue. they have inner conflicts with themselves and want others to join in on it. running around definitions that everyone knows and shyt. so much twisting of words and not getting to any point.

the only thing to do, is hear someone out, then stick by the truth and stand by it. discussion is good, but fighting over words is bullshyt
 

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again women don't get it she may get alot of messages because guys just want to smash, guys just want puzzy thats it, shes looking for commitment and all that, that she will never get.

any women no matter how hideous she looks how old she is, how much kids or baggage she has can get a guy to sleep with her, the thing is they cant differentiate between that and a guy who will actually love them, treat them with respect be there for them etc.

what these women dont realize they are just like strippers/escorts/porn stars to these dudes giving them attention they jus twant to bust their nut, slap their ass pull their hair may spend a few bucks on them for entertainment but once thats over eh

Im beginning to think that women lack so much foresight, that they believe they can live like men do, spreading their wild oats and seed around not giving a fukk. not realizing that the way to keep a man loyal to your relationship, is to treat him with the same amount of effort and respect as he treats you.

the thing is, women are more needy, more up and down, hot and cold, attention starved, and way more likely to start up shyt for no reason. playing games to test him and make him think things arent what they are. theyre driving men off.

and the reason they shouldnt play around like therye promiscuous, in demand men with a list of unreasonable requirements, is because that kind of behavior isnt really in their best interests in the long term. theyre the ones who will be tied down more when a baby comes. they have the nurturing instinct thats more stronger than anyone elses too, it was in her body and it grew there. does that not also give them more rights when its time to decide to keep the baby or not? so running around with a partner, is more in their interests, their baby, and their situation. they need that partnership. thats why women were traditionally learning early on in life how to keep a man around. cook, clean, and submit to his will . provided that his will is ALSO to handle his duties.

now Im not saying that its right, or natural for men to be running out on their kids (thats uncivilized and low), but damned if we get stuck with it as hard as they do. mothers have an incentive to have a man around to handle the other duties. but acting entitled and wishy washy due to their new found "freedom" is only fukking up the natural laws. men and women need to learn the lay of the land and work by the rules. loyalty is royalty. :obama:
 
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