Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Liquid]

One of the most disgusting things that men have been taught in this day and age is the need to be liked and to fit in above all else. As opposed to standing on principles and doing the right thing, you need to be 'politically correct', have an 'acceptable opinion' and so on and so forth. Frankly, it's a sick attitude for a man to have, and those emasculated men have pretty much let themselves be 'liked' right into wearing skirts.

Look at this:

Can any man in their right mind tell me that is acceptable? Instead of telling his boy, you better take that skirt off and we'll go hunting or put you in a karate class, this dude wants to be politically correct and pleasing to his kid to the point where HE is not only allowing the boy to wear the skirt, HE is wearing a skirt. I mean that is pathetic that this guy is letting his child lead him. Children should emulate their parents, not the other way around.

Getting back to the point at hand, as a man you should want what you want and like what you like as long as it is righteous. You should always have your principles. If society doesn't like it, you have to be strong enough to say screw society and continue standing on your principles. Society has never changed for the better by men who always allowed society to dictate to them their opinions and actions. God has given you manhood and to throw away this gift is disgraceful and you see the downward trend society is headed towards due to men shunning their manhood and instead rebelling by embracing estrogen. The repercussions of this is a downward spiral into destruction.

We are the hunters in society. We pursue. We go out and get. Unfortunately, in this day and age, boys are taught to 'let' and to wait. They have their decisions undermined and they are taught to be passive. Boys are shamed out of their natural nature-- their aggressive attitudes, instead of channeled into something positive, is drugged and medicated out of them. You know what would have happened to society if all men did was 'wait for game' to come to them? If they took a passive attitude instead of pursuing? That society would have starved. What would have happened to societies if the men were sitting around dressed in skirts, allowing their bodies and mind to become frail? Nothing would have ever become done, there would be no food on the table, no real shelters, and those men would have been dominated by surrounding tribes/civilizations.

This is why it is so important to embrace manhood. The riches of this society which were produced by men being men is being squandered now by men being taught and embracing being women. If society or some woman doesn't like it, screw them and let them head towards self-destruction.

Now, the important reason I brought up the point of the chemist is that as men, we're not to sit here and be passive and react to society. We are supposed to CAUSE the positive reactions. We've talked about the things women are capable of doing and how society is against us as men being me. But when is your strategy? What are you doing to counteract this bullrush? This is exactly what we should focus on... this strategy of overcoming this society who would shame us from over God given heritage of being men and of shaming women of their just as blessed role of being a woman.

 

[T-K-G]

^^^ that nikka is not doing anything to "fit in" so it seems like you contradictin yourself


sayin "tryna fit in aint the business" but at the same time sayin "as men we need to...." (trying to fit in wit other men)

a boy wearing a skirt was never "politically correct" i have no idea where you got that shyt from

 

[kevm3]

^^^ that nikka is not doing anything to "fit in" so it seems like you contradictin yourself


sayin "tryna fit in aint the business" but at the same time sayin "as men we need to...." (trying to fit in wit other men)

a boy wearing a skirt was never "politically correct" i have no idea where you got that shyt from

Nah, I didn't contradict myself. Society is pushing to increasingly feminize men and, yes, it is starting to become acceptable in these increasingly feminized nations for men to act feminine.

Did you skip over the article in sweden where feminists are making men squat down to pee or how they are putting ads out with boys engaging in feminine activities and vice versa?

Ever heard of the story here in America about the 'princess boy' and how they are using it to 'promote tolerance'?

Nothing I said has to do with fitting in with other men. It has to do with BEING a man regardless of whether you fit in or not. In this day and age, you are looked down upon for desiring to be the leader of the household, of wanting a woman that can cook and clean and be submissive.

 

[winb83]

Don't scare that man lol. He should know his girl by now but guessing he had to come to this thread maybe he don't and maybe that is the problem alot of guys have anyway. They don't know who the fukk they dealing with outside of her looks. It can never be a continuous problem but if I know what is her usual norm I'll give her a pass just like I would anybody else that has proven that isn't their normal behavior. I can't be the only one that looks at peoples bodies of works on here can't be.

You don't ever really know anybody outside of what they show you. people act different around different people.

the fact of the matter is if his girl mentions something about doing anything and he gets that gut level feeling that that's wrong or something he should be suspicious of he should follow his gut. every single time i've had that gut level feeling and ignored it things have come back to bite me on the ass.

 

[T-K-G]

Nothing I said has to do with fitting in with other men. It has to do with BEING a man regardless of whether you fit in or not. In this day and age, you are looked down upon for desiring to be the leader of the household, of wanting a woman that can cook and clean and be submissive.

but your definition of being a man aint gonna be the same as the next nikka
so tryna use that to give nikkas tips still wouldn't work

 

[killacal]

Western countries are now being considered matriarchal

Those south american countries divorce rates all under 4 percent

 

[kevm3]

It's funny ain't it? All the nations with 'matriarchies' are having the family unit being destroyed via divorce. Even the women that proclaimed they want a matriarchy feel disgust at the feminized men and choose not to stick around.

Women stay complaining about the patriarchy, but then you see this article about 'herbivore men' in Japan, and look at what the interviewed woman says:

Japan's 'herbivore men' -- less interested in sex, money
GENERATION


June 05, 2009|By Morgan Neill CNN


They are young, earn little and spend little, and take a keen interest in fashion and personal appearance -- meet the "herbivore men" of Japan.

Author and pop culture columnist Maki Fukasawa coined the term in 2006 in a series of articles on marketing to a younger generation of Japanese men. She used it to describe some men who she said were changing the country's ideas about just what is -- and isn't -- masculine.

"In Japan, sex is translated as 'relationship in flesh,'" she said, "so I named those boys 'herbivorous boys' since they are not interested in flesh."




Typically, "herbivore men" are in their 20s and 30s, and believe that friendship without sex can exist between men and women, Fukasawa said.

The term has become a buzzword in Japan. Many people in Tokyo's Harajuku neighborhood were familiar with "herbivore men" -- and had opinions about them.

Shigeyuki Nagayama said such men were not eager to find girlfriends and tend to be clumsy in love, and he admitted he seemed to fit the mold himself.

"My father always asks me if I got a girlfriend. He tells me I'm no good because I can't get a girlfriend."

Midori Saida, a 24-year-old woman sporting oversized aviators and her dyed brown hair in long ringlets, said "herbivore men" were "flaky and weak."

"We like manly men," she said. "We are not interested in those boys -- at all."

Takahito Kaji, 21, said he has been told he is "totally herbivorous."

"Herbivorous boys are fragile, do not have a stocky body -- skinny."

Fukasawa said Japanese men from the baby boomer generation were typically aggressive and proactive when it came to romance and sex. But as a result of growing up during Japan's troubled economy in the 1990s, their children's generation was not as assertive and goal-oriented. Their outlook came, in part, from seeing their fathers' model of masculinity falter even as Japanese women gained more lifestyle options.

Former CNN intern Junichiro Hori, a self-described herbivore, said the idea goes beyond looks and attitudes toward sex.

"Some guys still try to be manly and try to be like strong and stuff, but you know personally I'm not afraid to show my vulnerability because being vulnerable or being sensitive is not a weakness."

Older generations of Japanese men are not happy about the changes. At a bar frequented by businessmen after work, one man said: "You need to be carnivorous when you make decisions in your life. You should be proactive, not passive."

 

[kevm3]

but your definition of being a man aint gonna be the same as the next nikka
so tryna use that to give nikkas tips still wouldn't work

Men handle their business in different ways, but when it comes down to it, the man handles business and is proactive. A man steps up when the pressure comes.

 

[George Gooney]

but your definition of being a man aint gonna be the same as the next nikka
so tryna use that to give nikkas tips still wouldn't work

But there never existed a definition where wearing skirts and pushing around baby doll strollers was considered manly so what the fukk you arguing about nikka?

 

[T-K-G]

But there never existed a definition where wearing skirts and pushing around baby doll strollers was considered manly so what the fukk you arguing about nikka?

i never said there was so you need to fall back cuz me and this man aint even arguing nikka

Men handle their business in different ways, but when it comes down to it, the man handles business and is proactive. A man steps up when the pressure comes.

exactly. i just felt all that other shyt was unnecessary thats why i said somethin.


keep these other lil niglets on a leash tho, jumpin in nikkas conversations n shyt

 

[George Gooney]

i never said there was so you need to fall back cuz me and this man aint even arguing nikka

dude wearing that skirt is trying to fit in with this new sensitive feminist logic that says we should avoid "gender stereotypes" How is wearing skirts a gender stereotype??? You gotta understand where kevm3 was coming from. Western society is becoming more cherry-mango at a shocking pace and the roles are being switched and you see a bunch of fakkits and dikes roaming the world because of this society's need to be free and rebellious to the ways God meant for us...

 

[T-K-G]

dude wearing that skirt is trying to fit in with this new sensitive feminist logic that says we should avoid "gender stereotypes" How is wearing skirts a gender stereotype??? You gotta understand where kevm3 was coming from. Western society is becoming more cherry-mango at a shocking pace and the roles are being switched and you see a bunch of fakkits and dikes roaming the world because of this society's need to be free and rebellious to the ways God meant for us...

that's all i needed to see to understand where you coming from.


im not getting into no religion-based convos

 

[George Gooney]

that's all i needed to see to understand where you coming from.


im not getting into no religion-based convos

it don't even have to be that way and you don't have to be religious in order to believe in God. From a religious or scientific standpoint there's no way to justify the shyt thats going on with this gender bender monstrous nation is there?

 

[T-K-G]

it don't even have to be that way and you have to be religious in order to believe in God. From a religious or scientific standpoint there's no way to justify the shyt thats going on with this gender bender monstrous nation is there?

in my opinion there is.....i take it as people not getting beat the fukk up or ostracized for this shyt anymore so they more open with it

do i care? no cuz I know who I am, why would i worry about how other people decide to dress or behave unless they're infringing on my day to day life.

i see a soft nikka in a skirt walkin down the street, you damn right imma make the face but i'd still fight for his right to do that shyt, fukk i look like telling someone what they can or can't wear

 

[kevm3]

When it comes down to it, you shouldn't be a man because 'that's what women want' or 'that's what they respond to.' You should do it because it is your God-given role and stepping up and embracing your manhood will give you far more satisfaction than this feminized role that is being artificially created for men. We're seeing so much disappointment from men these days because they've never really been taught or encouraged to embrace their masculinity. The beautiful thing is though, that when you do embrace being a man, the women come with it.

Women have been trained by school and society to verbalize one thing, but when they feel comfortable and aren't thinking about mouthing off an acceptable response, they will let you know how they REALLY feel. Just in the article above, those women didn't care for those frail 'herbivore' men at all. There's a reason women love that 50 shades of grey book. I had a coworker telling me about it and she was going crazy over the book and from what she was telling me about it, it halfway sounded like the dude was abusing the female, but she was actually highly turned on by it and talked about how she loved how dominant and in control the man was.

One reason I hate watching television and listening to a lot of rnb music is because it often shows unrealistic outcomes for actions. Upon continually watching it, your brain starts to associate that false outcome as the real outcome from said action. This is why so many men have grown up disappointed. They've been brainwashed through various means, seeing certain images on television that show unrealistic outcomes for actions. On television, you see the goofy, passive guy who defers to the woman end up with her, and the way he deals with her is mad weak. He's gently carressing her face and kissing her tenderly. But in real life, women might think passive goofballs are cute, but she will NOT hold him to nearly the same esteem as a confident, masculine man. She will NOT respect the man who gently kisses her and nibbles on her earlobe like he's a lesbian compared to the man that can pick her up with ease and handle her.

That's what all of these 'tests' women bring up amount to. She's testing for your leadership, strength and self-respect, which are key traits of you being a man. She wants to see if you are going to step up and check her on her errant behavior... if you are strong enough to tell her to keep that disrespect at the door.

The problem is that men aren't being directly taught this. They are taught some catering and pandering trash and they end up being angry when this nonsense they were reared on ends up getting them used and abused. This whole 'being nice' thing men were reared on on television has nothing to do with nice. Men were taught estrogen based behavior under the guise of 'nice guy' and we see that it doesn't work AT ALL... you now see that underlying objective becoming clearer and clearer as society's handlers are becoming even more bold with their objectives. They are now 'destroying gender roles' supposedly, but in reality they are assigning female roles to men and masculine roles to women. You now see men wearing skirts and all sorts of trash, and speaking out against it makes you bad because you are supporting restrictive gender roles or some trash. All of it is breaking down the family structure. Just as that graph showed you, matriarchal societies have the highest divorce rates. It just goes to show you, despite all the feminist rhetoric these women regurgitate, they do NOT want effeminate men. And you, as a man, will never be able to really look at yourself with pride if you live your whole life being buttery soft, as if your testosterone was extracted from your body.

One of the KEY causes of anger, sadness and disappointment is when expectations diverge from reality. So, what I'm telling the fellas here to eliminate a lot of future anger or sadness is to stop expecting decent behavior from women if you are coming with an estrogen-filled approach... and a lot of us were reared on it in very subtle manners. I'll go into more of this with the next post and show some of my personal mistakes.