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Hinge is fun. I play with my female friends’ hinge to troll Bay Street swagless cacs
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Hinge is fun. I play with my female friends’ hinge to troll Bay Street swagless cacs
Already have two yorubas a pharmacist and a lawyer wanting to take me out as soon as I land
@FireDwaneCasey you were right, just enjoy the experience while it lasts.
3 months in, current shawty is starting to say some sneaky disrespectful shyt. I'm gonna check her & see if she listens. If she dont fix up, she out. I'm not tolerating any bit of disrespect
I damn near deleted all my dating apps for this shawty, the last one left is Hinge becuz I got a Kenyan chick on there who just started talking to me. I gotta keep my options open.
Btw 3 months is usually once the honeymoon period ends and you start seeing the real them. It’s when most people decide as well should I continue or just end.
Just like for most jobs probation is 3 months
Peter Popoff
Baba Yega in black uptowns
Facts
Mickey Kane
All Star
Hinge has quality women, I was at an event last week and there was this chick I matched with working there I think she did recognized me as well but I was with a female friend
God bless Hinge.
Mickey Kane
All Star
Facts.
You only get 24 hours in a day right? I spend about 11-14 hours each day grinding at my main job and my side hustle combined, plus I'm 34 so I have to make sure I get enough sleep to get ready to do it all again the next day with full energy. Then the weekends I'm focused on my side hustle full time and then spending the rest of it on family and/or my day 1's.
Finding time to spend with women are slimmer and slimmer. When I do decide to deal with women, I want to make it count. Because time is finite as fukk. The truth is that when you evaluate it from a cost/benefit analysis, the majority of these women aint worth the time.
It is what it is.
One of the realest things said in here recently.
I had been thotting at a high level past few months and you realise, most women aren't worth your time, money and energy. And not even from a resentful place (which is a tone I see A LOT of in this thread) but more so from a place of realising, value lies in scarcity, not abundance.
Be attractive to the majority, but focus on the minority.
The women a man is supposed to invest his resources in, whether it be financial, physical, emotional, intellectual should be far and few between. Of course, part of the process is exploring and messing with a bag of women growing up but at a point, whenever it comes, men have to develop self-mastery FIRST, learn discipline, learn focus.
Naturally, that makes you MORE attractive to women and options increase but at this point, is when you're meant to be even more focused on women.
If a woman does not enhance your quality of life, I implore men to not even entertain them. It doesn't matter whether you're only trying to sleep with her. Take a holistic approach. If she doesn't make you a better version of yourself, let them be.
If she does, go all in.
BornStar
Marathon Continues
I'm back on this. I was on the edge of having 5 on the team, meaning a full rotation of small relationships. Straight time consuming.. With 2 of these broads being high 8s low 9s. Idk about you guys but that's too much on my plate for the moment.
But when that p*ssy calls
im running a 4.25 to dive in it. I need help brehs.Other brehs have already alluded to this but be mindful of the time you spend accumulating a roster. At the end of the day if none of these women can elevate u above ur current status u need to release them to the wild.I'm back on this. I was on the edge of having 5 on the team, meaning a full rotation of small relationships. Straight time consuming.. With 2 of these broads being high 8s low 9s. Idk about you guys but that's too much on my plate for the moment.
But when that p*ssy calls
Update: threw her to the bushesgot a half-habesha girl on the team now, early 30s no kids
sucked me off in the back of the uber last week
She planned on visiting me this weekend at my school about 2.5 hours away from her. I had an event that I invited her to and she was excited about. This woman had to nerve to ask me for not only my personal address but my MOTHERS address so she can give to her parents (black mom and cac Jew stepdad) just so they can know where she’s going to be this weekend. I immediately told her no and we got into a big argument.
Keep in mind this woman is 33 years old and lives with her parents at the moment (she just came back from Australia after living there for a while) I’m a grown ass man (27) and not on some high school kiddy shyt. I understand her parents concerns but I’m not going to give up my info like that FOR THAT PARTICULAR REASON.
I asked her if her parents ever asked her cac ex boyfriends about there’s addresses in Australia and she told me only there instagram.
In the end I told her not to come since she wouldn’t budge and I subsequently blocked her number
Am I trippin brehs or is this bush worthy? Just feed mad weird to me, not to mention she’s in desperation mode for having a kid in less than 2 years.
BossmanChad
Pro
I need to stop dating for a while. I low-key feel happy when my dates flake or are not interested. Tired of giving these stranger to much thought and effort.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Well, I've finally left the land of ass and titties and waiting to connect on my next flight back to the UK. 
The time just flew by. It feels like just a couple of days ago when I made my first stop in Panama and now I'm going back home. I hate that depressing feeling when your holiday is over.
I did get a "going away" gift from this Colombian chick last night though. Chick was riding me so hard I was telling her to slow down cos I was gonna bust but she got so caught up and didn't understand me plus reggaeton was playing in the background so the inevitable happened lmao. That reverse cowgirl or whatever you call it she was doing made me stand no chance of holding on. 
But still that p*ssy was 
. The Venezuelan broad was the best though.
Oh well, next time.
The time just flew by. It feels like just a couple of days ago when I made my first stop in Panama and now I'm going back home. I hate that depressing feeling when your holiday is over. I did get a "going away" gift from this Colombian chick last night though.
Chick was riding me so hard I was telling her to slow down cos I was gonna bust but she got so caught up and didn't understand me plus reggaeton was playing in the background so the inevitable happened lmao. That reverse cowgirl or whatever you call it she was doing made me stand no chance of holding on. But still that p*ssy was . The Venezuelan broad was the best though.Oh well, next time.
Update: threw her to the bushes
She planned on visiting me this weekend at my school about 2.5 hours away from her. I had an event that I invited her to and she was excited about. This woman had to nerve to ask me for not only my personal address but my MOTHERS address so she can give to her parents (black mom and cac Jew stepdad) just so they can know where she’s going to be this weekend. I immediately told her no and we got into a big argument.
Keep in mind this woman is 33 years old and lives with her parents at the moment (she just came back from Australia after living there for a while) I’m a grown ass man (27) and not on some high school kiddy shyt. I understand her parents concerns but I’m not going to give up my info like that FOR THAT PARTICULAR REASON.
I asked her if her parents ever asked her cac ex boyfriends about there’s addresses in Australia and she told me only there instagram.
In the end I told her not to come since she wouldn’t budge and I subsequently blocked her number
Am I trippin brehs or is this bush worthy? Just feed mad weird to me, not to mention she’s in desperation mode for having a kid in less than 2 years.
breh, im sorry but i gotta be real with u. its posts like this that make me question the mental health of a lot of dudes in this thread.
granted, a 33 year old woman living with her parents is a red flag on its own.
another red flag is any girl thats willing to blow a guy in the back of a uber. yeah. if she did it with u, u already know she's done it plenty of times.
and to top it off, a 33 year old woman single with no kids, not married. at that age u can rest assured she has some history...many of it bad!
now, her asking u for ur address, if she's going to spend the weekend, IS NOT a bad thing. at all. i mean, i read ur post and was just like wtf is wrong with this dude? afterall she's a girl and you're a guy. from a safety perspective alone, she did the right thing. there's too many crazies out there.
as i said in a earlier post, it seems this girl doesnt elevate ur life in anyway. so its probably best u kick her to the bushes, but NOT for the reason u initially did.