Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What's your next move
She says she's not looking to commit because she's busy. She's 25, attractive, and about to become a bartender through a course with a job placement. How many after work drink sessions until a new coworker ends up smashing?

I'm going to do the same thing I was always going to: try to meet up with her at a place close to my apartment. See if she wants to come over afterwards.
 

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She says she's not looking to commit because she's busy. She's 25, attractive, and about to become a bartender through a course with a job placement. How many after work drink sessions until a new coworker ends up smashing?

I'm going to do the same thing I was always going to: try to meet up with her at a place close to my apartment. See if she wants to come over afterwards.
You haven't hit? How long yall been talking?
 

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You haven't hit? How long yall been talking?
Almost 2 weeks, I think. She's been busy with her class. We're going out for the first time tomorrow night.

I'm kinda concerned though. I haven't gone on any dates since December. Depending on the girl, I sometimes run into the problem of running out of things to say. I dunno. We'll see what happens.
 

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Almost 2 weeks, I think. She's been busy with her class. We're going out for the first time tomorrow night.

I'm kinda concerned though. I haven't gone on any dates since December. Depending on the girl, I sometimes run into the problem of running out of things to say. I dunno. We'll see what happens.

I don’t talk if I have nothing to say.
 

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Just saw my homegirls dm boxes.

She has just under a thousand dm’s from nikkas since December 2018. She’s about an 8/10 also. Not even a dime :gucci:

Brehs you HAVE to have a rotation. These women have options and YOU ARE replaceable. Seeing this shyt is why I’m #GMB and #HOH

The game and market is out of sync, not sure when it will correct itself. We might be too far deep breh.


Online dating is like the club x300 (even the companies know it), I seen from years ago this very plain chick I knew had like hundreds of messages on dating sites. :mjlol:

I'm ugly gang so I know that shyts not worth it.


She wants my attention but we ain't fukking like that so wtf...

Ain't this the truth.

Also, experience teaches me again that if women don't communicate readily, might as well throw it in the bushes. :ehh:
 

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Online dating is like the club x300 (even the companies know it), I seen from years ago this very plain chick I knew had like hundreds of messages on dating sites. :mjlol:

I'm ugly gang so I know that shyts not worth it.




Ain't this the truth.

Also, experience teaches me again that if women don't communicate readily, might as well throw it in the bushes. :ehh:
To make matters worse, there's a chick upstairs that flirts with me and 2 coworkers that wanna fukk.

Women don't seem to grasp that being a bytch and abstaining sex only makes us cheat more and increase the GMB movement.
 

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Online dating is like the club x300 (even the companies know it), I seen from years ago this very plain chick I knew had like hundreds of messages on dating sites. :mjlol:

I'm ugly gang so I know that shyts not worth it.




Ain't this the truth.

Also, experience teaches me again that if women don't communicate readily, might as well throw it in the bushes. :ehh:


So true. Never thought about it that way.

:ehh:
 

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On a side note, no incel, is it wrong to be cold hearted to these chicks? My idgaf meter just be through the roof.

Yup!

That’s acting like a sassy female.

U can’t treat EVERY chick like a thot. U gotta do it case by case. She act like a thot, treat her like a thot. She act like a woman, treat her like a woman.
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl
:francis: You already know.

One thing for sure, you better not chase her ass.
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl

Never speak to her again. That shyts disrespectful if you’ve treated her right
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl

11.30pm? He must have just finished with her :lolbron:

In all seriousness a woman talking about a break is not an instant thought shes probably been thinking about it for weeks. Something has got her not feeling you at all. You've already started chasing. Which if you want her back will turn her off more.

Was she chasing you prior to her falling back?
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl


1) You move on. It's gonna sting a lil bit; that's normal. We're human.
2) she'll get hurt by someone else and/or tired of playing the field and will want to come back to you
3) you already moved on so you can hit her with the :umad: and go about your business


seen it happen with too many people (including myself)
 
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