Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I don’t think she coming back breh, I been reading through this thread since page 1 for the last hour and thinking about things and I think she been fukking somebody else. I ain’t gonna contact her though fukk that shyt

She'll come back or at least attempt to talk to you again in a few weeks or months. Usually as if nothing has happened.
 

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Came across this randomly on twitter just now:



Not to be an AMS fanboy but shyt immediately had me thinking about this:



There is no right way with some of these chicks :snoop:

That's because a lot of women carry a physical mirror but not a spiritual mirror that shows who they are so they will run their life in circles pointing out the flaws in others but will be extra critical about theirs.

When we point it out we get hit with the reverse psychology because women are excellent speakers.
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Confronting a woman is pointless. Be sneaky. Play the game.
 
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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl
Ahh the good ole “let’s take a break” move. A chick used that on me and i never heard from her again. Found out she been dating another dude
 

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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl
Did you get any indication there was trouble in the relationship
 

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How long you staying out there for? Seems like you did the reverse of what I did. I stayed in Cartagena for 5 days and flew to Medellin and stayed there 4 days and flew back to cartegana for two more nights.

You right tho bruh, Medellin and the way the city is situated on the Andes mountains makes for some of the most incredible views you will EVER see in any city in the world. It just absolutely breathtaking, especially at night and if you manage to get a dope rooftop view.

I did the same except me and my girl went up to Parque Arvi, the last stop on the cable cars and those views :wow:don’t lie tho bruh you was shook on your way back down seeing the whole city beneath you :russ:

We was gonna do the Pablo tour but instead just got off at one of the stops on the Cable car I think it’s called Santo Domingo and we just walked around the hood, had lunch, chopped it up with some locals. Felt good being around black people cause in Medellin I found it was very limited in the city Center, most live in the favellas it seems

The women tho... :ohhh: even my girl was like “wow, the women here are gorgeous.. they all have such amazing bodies... “ I was like “babe, remember when we talked about threesomes... :lolbron: LOL man I wish tho. You’re gonna love Cartagena tho, while you in Medellin did you check out El Plobado? That’s where we stayed and clubbed in the El Lleras Park not too far from our stop. Downtown Medellin was :hubie: definitely not for tourists but still cool to check out.

Anywhere else you going to in the country? Keep us posted bruh, I’m still missing Colombia like crazy. Take tons of pics and enjoy every moment, even those quiet times of peace. Just soak it all in

Man I'm in Santa Fe mall right now taking a break and every other chick could be a model easily. Dime faces and bodies that are out of this world.:wow:

One thing I find interesting about dudes out here is that they so cool they WANT you to smash broads, not like other places where they get on some jealous bullshyt if you're not from there.

My hotel is in el poblado of course and I've walked around the place and the locals have shown mad love. I went for a long walk the other night that went into an area that was starting to look a lil bit sketchy. Something told me to turn back around lol, but dudes was dapping me for no reason. Even when I passed a group of dudes on a corner, I just briefly nodded my head in acknowledgement and kept it moving. You'd be surprised how a little act like that can prevent bullshyt when you're in hood areas. I do the same when I'm in a rough area of my own city that I'm not familiar with. I don't do dumb shyt and I'm always respectful, but I look like a dude who knows how to handle himself, so I'm not some corny looking cac gringo.

Honestly I wasnt shook of the cable car, it was a dope experience. The views of the favelas and Andes mountains. :wow: I love heights.

You a better man than me cos I couldn't bring a woman to this place! :russ: It feels good being single out here, you can do whatever the fukk you want. So many bad chicks I gotta sneak a look when one walks by like :mjpls:. Not trying to look creepy out here lol.

One thing that's interesting to me though....NOBODY in Colombia fukks with people from Bogota! I been hearing how that part of Colombia isn't friendly. It's supposed to be cold out there anyway.

Pretty much non existent but you’ll manage with Google translate and pointing lol. Luckily my girl spoke some Spanish so we managed okay but yoh wouldn’t be assed out completely if you know nothing. You just won’t be able to smash locals or it will be harder since you can’t flirt or drop lines ... can make it awkward unless the girl just wants to fukk but still possible. If you don’t mind paying ... :mjlit:

My regret is not being able to speak the language, cos it's a struggle at times and really does limit your social interactions. It has been awkward as fukk sometimes cos the wifi and phone signal out here is a bit hit and miss and Google translate only works if you have a connection. Even at the hotel where I'm at their english is as good as my spanish.

When u travel outside the country it's a rude awakening on women looks and how they treat u
I tell brehs that all the time
Have u comeback to the country like :scust: and wanna snatch up a foreign female instead or live there instead

Man don't even get me started. In Panama last week I smashed a dime broad from Baranquilla and came across other women there and here in Medellin who are not only friendly, but initiate physical contact and don't act like they're too good to look at you.

Even reading the headlines on dating profiles here compared to back in the UK you see a huge difference. Overweight and/or average at best women back home acting as if they look like broads over here. Its gonna be struggle going back to junk food when you've had gourmet meals smh.

When you see how women (and just people in general) are out here and other foreign countries, you clearly see how the west ruins the human condition.
 

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Nah now that I’m thinking about it she been acting funny for a while now. She went out to parties with her friends dressed like a thot, went on spring break with two of her thot friends, throw random insults and start arguments.

I was giving the benefit of the doubt, and was overlooking a lot of things now that I think about it. I definitely share that girl.
I’m just gonna charge it to the game and move on.

Take it as a lesson rather than a loss. Sometimes we have to go through these things.

This is why I always say look out for the red flags and warning signs. Also look at the company broads keep. Birds of a feather and all that shyt.
 

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I don’t think she coming back breh, I been reading through this thread since page 1 for the last hour and thinking about things and I think she been fukking somebody else. I ain’t gonna contact her though fukk that shyt

They always come back. Cuz they goofy. Once she realize that she not gonna get da love n respect outta tha “new nikka” she gonna come RUNNIN back. Cuz no matter what type of woman u dealing wit, in da end they all want tha same shyt: LOVE N RESPECT. She gonna come lookin for you, cuz you was a good nikka that gave her love n respect. Then you got tha power of, if u want her back, take her back orrrrr you got tha power to throw her in da bushes.
 

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They always come back. Cuz they goofy. Once she realize that she not gonna get da love n respect outta tha “new nikka” she gonna come RUNNIN back. Cuz no matter what type of woman u dealing wit, in da end they all want tha same shyt: LOVE N RESPECT. She gonna come lookin for you, cuz you was a good nikka that gave her love n respect. Then you got tha power of, if u want her back, take her back orrrrr you got tha power to throw her in da bushes.

To add to what he said, if you take the time away to level up on some grown man shyt you'll realize that its best to keep her in the bushes because going back would hinder your progress.

My ex cheated on me and tried to get back and I was like :camby:

Ever since the breakup this is all thats happened.

-lost over 30 pounds, put on some muscle

-was making 35K when we was together, got certed up and now im making 80K

-took one of my hobbies and made a successful Youtube channel thats almost at 10K subs

-got chicks I can smash anytime in 3 different states

-regained the freedom to do what I want without having to deal with her insecurities

If you focus on you and you do it the right way, you wont want her back when she inevitiably tries to "check on you
 
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Any of y’all had a chick tell you they want to take a “break”

Basically, my girl texted me at like 11:30 last night telling me we need to take a break, she needs some time to herself, think about what she wants, y’all know the drill. I made the mistake of texting back quick as hell and texting her again this morning, which she hasn’t replied to. How y’all think i should play this? Ignore her from now on and end the relationship or wait for her to come back? Intuition is telling me I share that girl

Ignore her messages from now until the end of time....

The measure of control of how a girl has you is how devastated you become when she leaves

To avoid this ...treat them as disposable and never take them seriously
 
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