Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2 random thoughts about women recently.

1st one was out with some friends, some of them girls.

We talking about dating apps. I'm like yeah, ya boy got a new hair cut and made a new tinder, :shaq: got 13 likes within 24 hours.

I ask the girls next to me there matches.

Girl on my left: Tinder: 200 matches, Hinge: 70
Girl on my right: Tinder: 2000 matches.

:gucci::dahell::damn:

Now I would pipe them both, but both of the barely a 6. since I know them pretty well I'm a be one hundred; their personalities is like paint drying on a wall.

Holy fukk shyt no wonder why we as men have it rough out here. I told my OG about this shyt and he like :heh:, "your generation full of simps."

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Part 2.

I saw a tweet two weeks ago.

"you nikkas never turned down p*ssy before and it shows."

I can't get that out of my mind :damn:
Self control is truly a superpower
 

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Colombia :wow:

Every breh needs to go!!!!!!!!! Place ain't even fair. It's such a beautiful country rich with African culture and history

Was just in Cartagena a few months ago (and Medellin) let me know if you need any spots in Carta to hit.

Matter of fact, be sure to check out club Space :banderas: go on your first night!!!!!

Come back and report to this thread once you do :steviej:

This country is a hidden gem. Phat asses and titties everywhere like :whew:. A dime piece will initiate physical contact like it ain't shyt. The dudes out here are so used to dimes it's like :manny: to them. This uber driver was showing me pictures of broads he fukking! :russ: Told me the name of some nightclub but I forgot.

Was in Comuna 13 and did a Pablo Escobar tour and did that overhead metro cable car thing.

This country literally has some of the best views I've seen anywhere. The landscape is out of this world. The sun hasn't been shining though but it's got that warm spring weather its famous for.

I've still seen a heavy Afro Colombian presence and I haven't even hit Cartagena yet. I'm going there on Sunday. I will try and check out that place you mentioned.

One thing for sure though, if you don't speak spanish and you travel solo you NEED Google translate out here. It was like that in Panama too.
 

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and both never get approached in person. most girls dont

because...dudes are too scared to approach
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theyre just decent looking. the app inflates a girls true "value". the girl really is a 6 or 7 but the thirst factor on the app pumps them up two notches.

a lot of dudes need to realize these girls you swipe on and hit in the dm...you wouldnt look twice at in person

and the girls who are really top notch...theyre not on a fukkin app


we need a mass exodus from these apps...and start spittin live in the field to these broads

the game is way out of balance

All factual.
 

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TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday :huhldup:

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming :snoop:

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags:snoop:

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop :snoop:

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam :snoop:

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death:pachaha:
This story is sick :hhh:
 

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Just saw my homegirls dm boxes.

She has just under a thousand dm’s from nikkas since December 2018. She’s about an 8/10 also. Not even a dime :gucci:

Brehs you HAVE to have a rotation. These women have options and YOU ARE replaceable. Seeing this shyt is why I’m #GMB and #HOH

The game and market is out of sync, not sure when it will correct itself. We might be too far deep breh.


and both never get approached in person. most girls dont

because...dudes are too scared to approach
&
theyre just decent looking. the app inflates a girls true "value". the girl really is a 6 or 7 but the thirst factor on the app pumps them up two notches.

a lot of dudes need to realize these girls you swipe on and hit in the dm...you wouldnt look twice at in person

and the girls who are really top notch...theyre not on a fukkin app

we need a mass exodus from these apps...and start spittin live in the field to these broads

the game is way out of balance
 
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Just saw my homegirls dm boxes.

She has just under a thousand dm’s from nikkas since December 2018. She’s about an 8/10 also. Not even a dime :gucci:

Brehs you HAVE to have a rotation. These women have options and YOU ARE replaceable. Seeing this shyt is why I’m #GMB and #HOH

The game and market is out of sync, not sure when it will correct itself. We might be too far deep breh.

Its far too late now,a lot of women have been gassed by simps worldwide.

fat ugly women get hit on. Some men are thirsty for ANY woman it's a pathetic sight.

Despite the fronting a lot of guys get no women whatsoever. I want to know what drives men to leave thirsty comments on these chicks pages and DMs
 

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Just saw my homegirls dm boxes.

She has just under a thousand dm’s from nikkas since December 2018. She’s about an 8/10 also. Not even a dime :gucci:

Brehs you HAVE to have a rotation. These women have options and YOU ARE replaceable. Seeing this shyt is why I’m #GMB and #HOH

The game and market is out of sync, not sure when it will correct itself. We might be too far deep breh.
it will correct itself believe me. it will be once our generation gets into its 30s
 

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This country is a hidden gem. Phat asses and titties everywhere like :whew:. A dime piece will initiate physical contact like it ain't shyt. The dudes out here are so used to dimes it's like :manny: to them. This uber driver was showing me pictures of broads he fukking! :russ: Told me the name of some nightclub but I forgot.

Was in Comuna 13 and did a Pablo Escobar tour and did that overhead metro cable car thing.

This country literally has some of the best views I've seen anywhere. The landscape is out of this world. The sun hasn't been shining though but it's got that warm spring weather its famous for.

I've still seen a heavy Afro Colombian presence and I haven't even hit Cartagena yet. I'm going there on Sunday. I will try and check out that place you mentioned.

One thing for sure though, if you don't speak spanish and you travel solo you NEED Google translate out here. It was like that in Panama too.
hows the english there

ediyt nvm
 

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Sup Coli Fam

2 random thoughts about women recently.

1st one was out with some friends, some of them girls.

We talking about dating apps. I'm like yeah, ya boy got a new hair cut and made a new tinder, :shaq: got 13 likes within 24 hours.

I ask the girls next to me there matches.

Girl on my left: Tinder: 200 matches, Hinge: 70
Girl on my right: Tinder: 2000 matches.

:gucci::dahell::damn:

Now I would pipe them both, but both of the barely a 6. since I know them pretty well I'm a be one hundred; their personalities is like paint drying on a wall.

Holy fukk shyt no wonder why we as men have it rough out here. I told my OG about this shyt and he like :heh:, "your generation full of simps."

////////

Part 2.

I saw a tweet two weeks ago.

"you nikkas never turned down p*ssy before and it shows."

I can't get that out of my mind :damn:

its true:ld:

not for me but it is true
 

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Brehs you HAVE to have a rotation. These women have options and YOU ARE replaceable. Seeing this shyt is why I’m #GMB and #HOH

are you just discovering this now? all a woman has to do is walk outside and she can pull guys easy, its not that deep
women are actually more sexual than guys, they just have to suppress it and keep up with the "good lady" image , although more are owning their hoeness now

women been had options breh, a toothless crack whore will still be able to get dikk from someone :yeshrug:
 

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:wow: Damn i hate being so introverted
Learn to use it, when you’re at work learn to be a bit more extroverted say hi to people, engage in small talk and all that bullshyt but when you’re on your own time learn to enjoy your own company. Read the introvert advantage and how to talk to anybody
 
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