Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Two of the chicks I was messing with have gone silent. Previous me would have sent a "Hi hows your day going message." Current me. :yeshrug:

If she calls she calls, if she doesn't then it's all good.

The sixth sense thing is true as well. I will never again underestimate my gut feeling and vibes. Since I started trusting mine it hasn't done me wrong with these broads

In fact people in general.

Lol that would have been me as well

Hey haven’t heard from you in a while?

Even in the past you knew it was over but just held out hope.
 

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What were some signs you knew the ride was coming to an end

Lack of enthusiasm to see you as much. Like you have to really try to get her to meet up with you.

Often it comes down to a subtle unspoken power exchange. Where once she chased you. Now your chasing her.

Looking back you can often work out that moment that a chick you messed with was pulling away.
 

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fukk man i'm hurting, i just need to vent to someone. some women just change on you and you dont even see it coming. i was messing with this girl for 2 months and we'd talk and hang out all the time. she'd say and do all the right things, she was lowkey on social media, told her parents and friends and coworkers about me, was talking about our future and shyt. but i always never said much about whether i really liked her, and i didn't tell anyone about her.

then one day she says you never tell me how you feel, what you're thinking. and i'm like fukk it i think shes the one so i tell her i like talking to you, hanging out with you. and then next thing i know she starts becoming more distant until she tells me shes too busy with school this semester and work to make this work and then she says i know im gonna regret it if we stop talking.:mindblown: shes doing her PHD and teaching at the same time, but damn man shyt still hurts.:mjcry: i dont even know if she really is busy or if me telling her how i felt about her pushed her away.
 

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fukk man i'm hurting, i just need to vent to someone. some women just change on you and you dont even see it coming. i was messing with this girl for 2 months and we'd talk and hang out all the time. she'd say and do all the right things, she was lowkey on social media, told her parents and friends and coworkers about me, was talking about our future and shyt. but i always never said much about whether i really liked her, and i didn't tell anyone about her.

then one day she says you never tell me how you feel, what you're thinking. and i'm like fukk it i think shes the one so i tell her i like talking to you, hanging out with you. and then next thing i know she starts becoming more distant until she tells me shes too busy with school this semester and work to make this work and then she says i know im gonna regret it if we stop talking.:mindblown: shes doing her PHD and teaching at the same time, but damn man shyt still hurts.:mjcry: i dont even know if she really is busy or if me telling her how i felt about her pushed her away.
Same shyt happened to me recently. These chicks are backwards as FUCCK.

It hurt now, but the only thing that'll help get you past it is time. It sucks that you can't be straight up with women about how you feel but that's just how they are :francis:
 

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fukk man i'm hurting, i just need to vent to someone. some women just change on you and you dont even see it coming. i was messing with this girl for 2 months and we'd talk and hang out all the time. she'd say and do all the right things, she was lowkey on social media, told her parents and friends and coworkers about me, was talking about our future and shyt. but i always never said much about whether i really liked her, and i didn't tell anyone about her.

then one day she says you never tell me how you feel, what you're thinking. and i'm like fukk it i think shes the one so i tell her i like talking to you, hanging out with you. and then next thing i know she starts becoming more distant until she tells me shes too busy with school this semester and work to make this work and then she says i know im gonna regret it if we stop talking.:mindblown: shes doing her PHD and teaching at the same time, but damn man shyt still hurts.:mjcry: i dont even know if she really is busy or if me telling her how i felt about her pushed her away.

If you’re hurting after only two months then you’re not built for this.
 

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fukk man i'm hurting, i just need to vent to someone. some women just change on you and you dont even see it coming. i was messing with this girl for 2 months and we'd talk and hang out all the time. she'd say and do all the right things, she was lowkey on social media, told her parents and friends and coworkers about me, was talking about our future and shyt. but i always never said much about whether i really liked her, and i didn't tell anyone about her.

then one day she says you never tell me how you feel, what you're thinking. and i'm like fukk it i think shes the one so i tell her i like talking to you, hanging out with you. and then next thing i know she starts becoming more distant until she tells me shes too busy with school this semester and work to make this work and then she says i know im gonna regret it if we stop talking.:mindblown: shes doing her PHD and teaching at the same time, but damn man shyt still hurts.:mjcry: i dont even know if she really is busy or if me telling her how i felt about her pushed her away.

2 months is nothing in the grand scheme of things breh

It's sick and counter productive but you should never really tell a chick how you ultimately feel about her until she's properly sprung and tells you she loves you. At least then you'll have her on the hook at least for a while.

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I have a dilemma bros. Going to Amsterdam this weekend (I'm already in Europe; I ain't no simp) and there's this girl that's been feeling me.

The catch is, she has a man. But she's still feeling me.

If it comes down to it and she's like, "But my man":usure:

How do I persuade her to keep going?
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