Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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im always the first to say how flakey the are but...

how are you on the dates? is it like...just getting to know you vs. im trying to fukk you tonight?
maybe youre playing the nice guy role and not more fukkboy-ish. or you could be coming across too high value and they think youre arrogant.

I have storyteller charisma. I'm well traveled and go to all major events in my city, so I've got stories for every situation. But I know how to ration them out and keep the woman talking most of the time. I do have some "nice guy" traits though, mainly the fact that I don't drink, smoke or club. Those tend to be the "fukkboy" hallmarks, but I'm not about to start messing with my health for the sake of p*ssy. I'm thinking of working on my cocktail making skills though, so that even though I don't drink, I could still serve up drinks at my place and be fun in that sense. I've also downloaded "Mode One" by Alan Roger Curry to teach me how to skillfully demand p*ssy after a successful date. That's one thing I haven't been doing right. I've been waiting for the third date to pounce.
 

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You ain't gonna be able to tie down most of these chicks nowadays anyway
Oh. I got a bunch of those.

I need a legit gf to tide me down for a min.
It's been a while

I wonder if karma exists because I was a shytty bf to my last two gfs

So maybe I have been taught a lesson???

Because I be fukking these FWBs but then they got to get out


I want a girl I can actually chill with it and be around
 

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I have storyteller charisma. I'm well traveled and go to all major events in my city, so I've got stories for every situation. But I know how to ration them out and keep the woman talking most of the time. I do have some "nice guy" traits though, mainly the fact that I don't drink, smoke or club. Those tend to be the "fukkboy" hallmarks, but I'm not about to start messing with my health for the sake of p*ssy. I'm thinking of working on my cocktail making skills though, so that even though I don't drink, I could still serve up drinks at my place and be fun in that sense. I've also downloaded "Mode One" by Alan Roger Curry to teach me how to skillfully demand p*ssy after a successful date. That's one thing I haven't been doing right. I've been waiting for the third date to pounce.


I had this 10 years ago ... It's good but honestly looking back getting into sales/business means
you become a wittier, sharper problem solver and also gives you the added benefit of having resources
which lowers their threshold/resistance...

You can literally deal with them on your terms and move on like they never existed and sort of
protects you from their baggage and emotional antics
 

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I've been waiting for the third date to pounce.
there it is right there.

the fact that you even get to a third date says that the girls like you enough...which means with a few tweaks, you could hit on the first date consistently.

sounds like you got your mouthpiece together so all you need to do is turn the flirting on TEN. most flake because they are wondering why you arent making that move. and they move onto the next nikka who will.

you gotta turn on that sex appeal. shyt needs to be dripping off you.

breh...flirt with the broads. tease them. touch them. tell them how good they look. talk about lighthearted topics that can lead towards sex. maintain that eye contact.

i damn near look at these broads like this...:shaq: lol

you need to turn up the sex appeal to the point where she says "if im alone with this nikka, theres no doubt hes fukkin me"
 

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there it is right there.

the fact that you even get to a third date says that the girls like you enough...which means with a few tweaks, you could hit on the first date consistently.

sounds like you got your mouthpiece together so all you need to do is turn the flirting on TEN. most flake because they are wondering why you arent making that move. and they move onto the next nikka who will.

you gotta turn on that sex appeal. shyt needs to be dripping off you.

breh...flirt with the broads. tease them. touch them. tell them how good they look. talk about lighthearted topics that can lead towards sex. maintain that eye contact.

i damn near look at these broads like this...:shaq: lol

you need to turn up the sex appeal to the point where she says "if im alone with this nikka, theres no doubt hes fukkin me"

Yeah, I'm upping that part from today. Just got off the phone with a high interest brehette who has agreed to come to my new apartment this weekend for our second date. I'm gonna serve her cocktails as I play some dancehall music in the background, then after she gets comfortable, imma go full flirt, and also try get some dirty dancing going before I pounce :shaq:
 

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Man, the flakiness nowadays gets tiring. I mean, I get how the game goes nowadays with social media and dating apps giving women all kinds of options, but it's still hard on your psyche to have airtight game and be high value yet still have women ghosting you left and right :francis:

I'm a business owner making six figures, 5'11", well dressed, well groomed, 12% body fat, gym and active lifestyle, several women on Tinder have told me "I'm too cute to be on there," I'm usually the life of the party in social gatherings and I got enough game to where I can predict what dating coaches are gonna say majority of the time. Even with all that, last two months have been nothing but flakes despite all the conversations/dates going well. 14 strikes in two months brehs. Must be picking them wrong or something. This shyt never gets easier.


The thing is this breh it doesn’t matter what you do what you have it’s how they feel.

It’s why a woman will leave her dr husband for the mail man, why a chick will stick with a guy who always cheats but only give you once chance.

Putting stock into women will leave you disappointed.

I’ve had women who say they love me, would die without me, did everything left right and center but where are they now?

Just enjoy the ride and when it ends find someone else.

I look at every woman that doesn’t want to be with me as a blessing rejection is only redirection.
 

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Man, the flakiness nowadays gets tiring. I mean, I get how the game goes nowadays with social media and dating apps giving women all kinds of options, but it's still hard on your psyche to have airtight game and be high value yet still have women ghosting you left and right :francis:

I'm a business owner making six figures, 5'11", well dressed, well groomed, 12% body fat, gym and active lifestyle, several women on Tinder have told me "I'm too cute to be on there," I'm usually the life of the party in social gatherings and I got enough game to where I can predict what dating coaches are gonna say majority of the time. Even with all that, last two months have been nothing but flakes despite all the conversations/dates going well. 14 strikes in two months brehs. Must be picking them wrong or something. This shyt never gets easier.
It’s literally like that for most men. Try not to let it get you down. And it not even about the girl changing her mind that gets me. It’s about the utter lack of respect for my time that makes me livid :francis:. You cancel an evening date the morning of. I’m not stressing at all. You call me 15 min beforehand to say you can’t make it, fukk you:scust:
 

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It’s literally like that for most men. Try not to let it get you down. And it not even about the girl changing her mind that gets me. It’s about the utter lack of respect for my time that makes me livid :francis:. You cancel an evening date the morning of. I’m not stressing at all. You call me 15 min beforehand to say you can’t make it, fukk you:scust:

Sometimes I have to wonder whether these women are even flaking to go on other alternative dates, or they're blowing off real dates to just go home and chat with brehs online where they get unlimited attention from all corners of the world.
 

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there it is right there.

the fact that you even get to a third date says that the girls like you enough...which means with a few tweaks, you could hit on the first date consistently.

sounds like you got your mouthpiece together so all you need to do is turn the flirting on TEN. most flake because they are wondering why you arent making that move. and they move onto the next nikka who will.

you gotta turn on that sex appeal. shyt needs to be dripping off you.

breh...flirt with the broads. tease them. touch them. tell them how good they look. talk about lighthearted topics that can lead towards sex. maintain that eye contact.

i damn near look at these broads like this...:shaq: lol

you need to turn up the sex appeal to the point where she says "if im alone with this nikka, theres no doubt hes fukkin me"
Big facts on everything this man said. And when you don’t make a move on a girl in their mind you rejected them. That’s why they be gettting cold on you.
 

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Sometimes I have to wonder whether these women are even flaking to go on other alternative dates, or they're blowing off real dates to just go home and chat with brehs online where they get unlimited attention from all corners of the world.

To me it's just your not a priority and it could be for a myriad of reasons. Usually I would say the guy thy want really caught or is showing them attention
 
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