Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Solano707

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A lot of the females I'm cool with are off the market, so they rarely have any events.

Random approach doesn't work for me.

And my friends aren't the go & bag them type.

I'm just quit caring and just focus on some other shyt.


I would say start going out to events by yourself. Such as bars, social events like salsa dancing and YMCA events. You kneed to expose yourself. Having a social circle is good to extent but it only limits you to those you are around with constantly. Try, again, doing something that involves a wider range of people. Also, don't go on the sole purpose of finding someone, but go to actually have fun. You might be giving off the wrong type of energy breh. Trust me on this.
 

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I would say start going out to events by yourself. Such as bars, social events like salsa dancing and YMCA events. You kneed to expose yourself. Having a social circle is good to extent but it only limits you to those you are around with constantly. Try, again, doing something that involves a wider range of people. Also, don't go on the sole purpose of finding someone, but go to actually have fun. You might be giving off the wrong type of energy breh. Trust me on this.

I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.
 

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I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.

Yeah my body language definitely be on some:birdman: if I'm not careful....there are body language books/articles out there that can assist you

There might be lil things you can do to help..

You might be vitamin d deficient and dehydrated..

Lack of vitamin d can send your depression/anxiety into overdrive if you suffer from it..

Water can help balance your mood along with deep breathing..
 

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I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.

Find an event that takes you out of your comfort zone. I was like you, people would say I looked way too serious, but I was sometimes overly nervous and that would come off as aloof.

I'm a lot more relaxed in myself now and that comes across.
 

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I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.
Check out meetup.com
 

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I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.

Walking around looking like Killmonger is fine, women love it, men respect it. You simply have to turn being/looking like an a$$hole, into amusement. Some snarky humor, and just a pinch of adventure. There's one thing to look like you don't give a fukk, but its another to not do anything with it. You have to lead, find something you like being around and take said prospect there. In my case, the average go-to spots are;

Central Park
Second avenue
FDR walkway.

I detest the museum in cases of trying to get laid, it works if you already laid down pipe, but for a first? hell no. Pick spots with a view. Being in NY, damn near everywhere I go has a view/coffee spot, this is vital. You should never have to spend money on some thot you're trying to introduce to your penis. And if you do, everyone likes Zebra cakes.
 

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I don't know breh, the only places that I could see going solo would be the movies, a bar, or a sporting event. The salsa dancing and museum events is definitely not my steeze.

I wouldn't say I give off a wrong energy, but people have told me that I have a serious/a$$hole look to me.


Movies is a bad place to meet people because, for the most part you have to be quite. But I was just giving examples on getting out there to be entrenched with the local populace.
 

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Online dating Breh is a goldmine:wow:

There is a lot of trash but a few gems online. Especially those cute homebody females who don't go out, all they do is go work/school & go home. Their only avenue to meet men is online

facts only esp out here all these workaholic bytches or hos working at start ups, schedules like 8am-8pm, always tired :heh:
bytches aint got time to be going on dates or clubs n shyt. just tryna meet a bytch up for some tacos the first day then 2nd meet up im like "im tired af lets watch black mirror"
bytches love black mirror. that show dumb as shyt :martin:

Your a better man than myself :steviej:

Sleezeball gang in the building and them guts:youngsabo:

SAME. if i dont know the dude, i dont owe him shyt :hubie:

couple years back i was the last tryst these two bytches had before they got engaged (separately). shyt was wild, i was blowing their backs out for two months, then august comes and they're posting ring pics on ig :dead:
 

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Brehs..

As I stated before, there are diary apps where you can write all your flaws down and keep it password protected...sometimes you gotta let it all out..

Also meditation and listening to some relaxing music/poetry to calm the nerves...

Drinking water
Getting proper vitamins(Especially vitamin d)
Proper body language
Dieting
Exercise
Breathing

Having good mind/body/spirit are the building blocks
 

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Brehs..

As I stated before, there are diary apps where you can write all your flaws down and keep it password protected...sometimes you gotta let it all out..

Also meditation and listening to some relaxing music/poetry to calm the nerves...

Drinking water
Getting proper vitamins(Especially vitamin d)
Proper body language
Dieting
Exercise
Breathing

Having good mind/body/spirit are the building blocks

What's the name of those type of apps
 
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