Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Stop with this foolishness. Don't go back to her. You weak af if you do this. You are the prize bro, she lost it. Let some other woman bask in your favor while she stares from the other side of the velvet rope. That whole "impulsive" shyt, is a woman's trademark of using and manipulating men to do what they want. Stringing you along, making you suffer. Then when you go back (if you go), you'll be on pins and needles cause you ain't trying to piss her off. fukk that. Let your nuts hang and ditch the broad. :blessed:

Don't even text back at all. :hubie:


He’s clearly not about that life breh..

If he had a roster I bet he would drop her faster than he met her :hubie:
 

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You got your own place?
I live with roommates, a couple. They're always in their room on the other side of the apartment. I don't know how I'd convince a chick to come home with me on the first date. I feel like she'd feel like a hoe.
 

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This one chick hits me up about over a month ago, hinting on social media that she wants to link up. I message her to set something up. Her work schedule is trash, so the first few weeks are a no go. I hit her up last week, since both our schedules are free, now she says she doesn't know if she wants to link anymore. So I told her to let me know when she's ready. I've peeped a few things on social media that leads me to believe that she has a man now.

I'm sick of the games, if shorties have no intention of rocking with me, than leave me the f*ck alone. Don't get my hopes up, and don't waste my time. I'm not interested in being part of a "roster" or the side d*ck.
 

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I live with roommates, a couple. They're always in their room on the other side of the apartment. I don't know how I'd convince a chick to come home with me on the first date. I feel like she'd feel like a hoe.
:heh: Man chicks come back to my place on 99% of the dates I go on. I ain't saying I smash them all, but the numbers are high enough. I live alone though.
 

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This one chick hits me up about over a month ago, hinting on social media that she wants to link up. I message her to set something up. Her work schedule is trash, so the first few weeks are a no go. I hit her up last week, since both our schedules are free, now she says she doesn't know if she wants to link anymore. So I told her to let me know when she's ready. I've peeped a few things on social media that leads me to believe that she has a man now.

I'm sick of the games, if shorties have no intention of rocking with me, than leave me the f*ck alone. Don't get my hopes up, and don't waste my time. I'm not interested in being part of a "roster" or the side d*ck.

Are these women apart of your social circle?

I mean when you first meet any joint, your literally one of many men she knows...if she tells you she too busy, put her to the backburner asap...

In these times you need more than one woman that your talking too...and shyt moves pretty fast out here:francis:...

If you dont have the time or the energy, it can put you in a sunken place..
 

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I live with roommates, a couple. They're always in their room on the other side of the apartment. I don't know how I'd convince a chick to come home with me on the first date. I feel like she'd feel like a hoe.

It doesn't take much, you just have to not make it the agenda when you're hanging out. Though as per my strict rules, don't ever invite a thot/plate to the homebase, just a bad move all around.
 

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If a woman keeps pushing you to meet at your place most of times it could be a set up or she has something up her sleeve,no matter how sexy she may you think you are.First time you meet a woman shouldn't be at your house.If you gonna get down go to hotel etc .Not saying a woman will Rob you off bat,she could be setting you up or waiting until you leave room or sleep to go thru your stuff.I had this woman on an app kept pushing to meet at crib,ol girl wasn't bad looking but being around in game I know women.Always follow your gut!
 

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Choose Better :manny:

I'm guilty of the same shyt most times and so are many others, so its not just you.

You got the power back with her now though, up to you how you choose to use it...

You fukked up a lot places here homie... let me break down real quick...

1. If a female is not answering her phone when she got people hitting her up, or pretending its not ringing or trying to avoid the fact - she is running game. Period. You need to confront her on this. Either tell her to asnwer the damn phone or leave and tell her you got business to handle. Don't come off like bytch, jsut stay cool. You got options bro, so use it. Either way, don't put up with this type of disrespect.

2. Don't ever tell a woman your fears or insecurities. She'll use that against you, see you as a lesser man and ultimately, won't respect you as one and will not follow your lead.

3. You need to end things first, don't let the woman do it, because her doing it on her own terms, she would look at you weak because you weren't man enough to do it first. You gave her that power. Women ego's are very fragile - use it to your advantage. Nothing screams alpha than letting a woman know that she ain't up to your standards and just dip on a masculine / respectful tip. Don't be a bytch about it and slam doors and cry while you leave. Leave with your head up and walk out with a purpose.

4. Don't ever put yourself in a situation where you feel helpless. You have power. If you ain't with it, then leave. Women love to play this game with men, talking bout we stress them and this and that, when in fact, the broad had nikkas hitting her phone when she with you. She doing this to herself.

Stop with this foolishness. Don't go back to her. You weak af if you do this. You are the prize bro, she lost it. Let some other woman bask in your favor while she stares from the other side of the velvet rope. That whole "impulsive" shyt, is a woman's trademark of using and manipulating men to do what they want. Stringing you along, making you suffer. Then when you go back (if you go), you'll be on pins and needles cause you ain't trying to piss her off. fukk that. Let your nuts hang and ditch the broad. :blessed:

Don't even text back at all. :hubie:

You's a gotdamn fool if you take this manipulating broad back :ufdup:

There is always a bit of trouble with women even good ones try it sometimes. With this chick though the messaging or entertaining texts from guy 'friends' would have me side eyeing her. Her behavior sounds like when I was doing dirt chatting messy to other chicks whilst my ex was watching me frustrated and upset.

Do not take this broad back or message her.

She’s basically the nikka on this situation...running game on you :wow:


I pulled a buzzer beater on this girl :wow:. She indirectly admitted to texting nikkas when she sent me screenshots of her telling them she's seeing someone NOW....what she failed to realise is that the dates exposed her and that she'd been entertaining and flirting with them behind my back all this time. I confronted her, she caved in and admitted. Thats when I went "checkmate, bytch". I cut her off right there and then and told her not to text me again.

She done sent me a total of 17 long ass texts crying and begging me to take her back and not walk away. She's literally in shambles right now posting on facebook trying to get whatever pitty she can from people. She even has an exam today, which I know she's gonna fail cause she aint in her right mind.

I aint caving in, this was a moment of clarity for me and I'm glad I managed to flip that shyt on her. Now I can move forward knowing I won the emotional tug-of-war :blessed:

Now I can go back to focusing on the women I put on the bench for that hoe :pacspit:

Ya boy is back :blessed:
 

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I pulled a buzzer beater on this girl :wow:. She indirectly admitted to texting nikkas when she sent me screenshots of her telling them she's seeing someone NOW....what she failed to realise is that the dates exposed her and that she'd been entertaining and flirting with them behind my back all this time. I confronted her, she caved in and admitted. Thats when I went "checkmate, bytch". I cut her off right there and then and told her not to text me again.

She done sent me a total of 17 long ass texts crying and begging me to take her back and not walk away. She's literally in shambles right now posting on facebook trying to get whatever pitty she can from people. She even has an exam today, which I know she's gonna fail cause she aint in her right mind.

I aint caving in, this was a moment of clarity for me and I'm glad I managed to flip that shyt on her. Now I can move forward knowing I won the emotional tug-of-war :blessed:

Now I can go back to focusing on the women I put on the bench for that hoe :pacspit:

Ya boy is back :blessed:


Scheming ass hoes :wow:

Let that broad die slow breh :mjgrin:

Told ya so :sas2:
 

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I pulled a buzzer beater on this girl :wow:. She indirectly admitted to texting nikkas when she sent me screenshots of her telling them she's seeing someone NOW....what she failed to realise is that the dates exposed her and that she'd been entertaining and flirting with them behind my back all this time. I confronted her, she caved in and admitted. Thats when I went "checkmate, bytch". I cut her off right there and then and told her not to text me again.

She done sent me a total of 17 long ass texts crying and begging me to take her back and not walk away. She's literally in shambles right now posting on facebook trying to get whatever pitty she can from people. She even has an exam today, which I know she's gonna fail cause she aint in her right mind.

I aint caving in, this was a moment of clarity for me and I'm glad I managed to flip that shyt on her. Now I can move forward knowing I won the emotional tug-of-war :blessed:

Now I can go back to focusing on the women I put on the bench for that hoe :pacspit:

Ya boy is back :blessed:
That Ruthlessness :wow:

Repped :wow:
 

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Man I love this place. All these replies really brought me back to my senses :wow:

Its her birthday 2 sundays from now and this shyt couldnt have happened at a more convenient time for me. The money i'll save from not being obligated to get a gift for her :mjgrin:


You do realize that she will be expecting a Happy Birthday text from you right. :sas1:

Don't cave in :ufdup:



Celebrate her birthday by spending that money all on yourself, Take a trip somewhere out of state and get on tinder and enjoy your new freedom :blessed:
 

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You do realize that she will be expecting a Happy Birthday text from you right. :sas1:

Don't cave in :ufdup:



Celebrate her birthday by spending that money all on yourself, Take a trip somewhere out of state and get on tinder and enjoy your new freedom :blessed:

:mjlol: I'd be damned if I was nice enough to do that after all this shyt I found out about her lack of loyalty. When I move on from a girl, I treat her like she's dead. This one aint an exception. Trust me
 
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