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What's the best way to tell girls I don't want them coming over to my crib? Like ever. I just don't want these hoes in my personal stuff

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What's the best way to tell girls I don't want them coming over to my crib? Like ever. I just don't want these hoes in my personal stuff
You shouldn't be fukking with them bytches then breh
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What's the best way to tell girls I don't want them coming over to my crib? Like ever. I just don't want these hoes in my personal stuff
Was talking about this a few pages back. Chick who I was seeing for 11 months and broke it off in January hit me up last week. Talking about she had been thinking of things and wanted to meet for coffee. One of the many reasons me and her stopped talking was I was a bit too eager to get with her. Over messaging. Asking if she was gonna see me when she got back to Vancouver. asking how her day was going. Real lame shyt.
We've arranged to meet for coffee next Sunday. From my POV many of us don't get a chance for closure, and I was seeing and sleeping with her for 11 months in the tail end of my last relationship. I'd like to see her. She wants to be 'friends' so we'll see how that goes.
My wild adventure last night, and the ones I have had the past month, proves to me one thing.
Social Media/Hook up apps are smoke and mirrors. You probably get no matches on Tinder, thinking you're trash/ugly.
That's not the case at all. The truth is that the social technological field just favored for women.
You're basically a small fish in the giant ass ocean.
Don't let shyt get to you bros. Go out and hang with chicks, you'll have a better chance.
Also, don't be constantly texting a chick unless shes your gf. Matter of fact, don't text her at all unless its about meeting up.
Pull back a little and make yourself less available.I have this friend where I got a love/hate relationship for her.
Like the friendship is great, we talk whenever we can, and when both of us are in town-- we hang.
I hate the friendship because she leads me on a lot.
And I don't want to throw the relationship away because we are actually close friends.
I wouldn't mind being friends with benefits
She be calling me: daddy, sexy, baby, etc. Also, she recently been telling that she a freak.
But when I try to advance shyt between us with theshe be like
We already talked about how we both are attracted to each other, but no fukking can happen because she feels like it will damage the friendship
But when I agree, she be flirting still
I'm not tripping like that. i be out here slanging that thang to them females
Just kind of annoying when we can get this fukk over with and continue the friendship. But its whatever, I guess we all have a girl like that in our life.
I have this friend where I got a love/hate relationship for her.
Like the friendship is great, we talk whenever we can, and when both of us are in town-- we hang.
I hate the friendship because she leads me on a lot.
And I don't want to throw the relationship away because we are actually close friends.
I wouldn't mind being friends with benefits
She be calling me: daddy, sexy, baby, etc. Also, she recently been telling that she a freak.
But when I try to advance shyt between us with theshe be like
We already talked about how we both are attracted to each other, but no fukking can happen because she feels like it will damage the friendship
But when I agree, she be flirting still
I'm not tripping like that. i be out here slanging that thang to them females
Just kind of annoying when we can get this fukk over with and continue the friendship. But its whatever, I guess we all have a girl like that in our life.
Oh yea...update on neighbor chick I met a month or two ago:
-been hanging out a good amount
-a few red flags popped up...
1.her not even trying to pay for ANYTHING even if she invited me to the spot
2.some of her expectations of her BF while in a relationship are a lil ridiculous to me. She wants to be pampered. I can see why a lot of these late 20/early 30 women date older cuz them dudes have no problem simping. I'm not with it. Relationships should be mutually beneficial.
3.throwing shade on social media vs being upfront with me
4.her attitude when she's mad.
5.this one is superficial but I never knew how much girls wearing a lot of makeup and weave can turn me off
-...so I've kinda been falling back. She def wants me to hit but she also wants a relationship (she doesn't want to go the fwb route cuz of her past). Yesterday morning she tried to throw shade @ me for not making a move and I straight up let her know that I think we're compatible sexually (we've messed around) but possibly not relationship wise. Haven't heard from her since. She's pulled that stunt before, but I refuse to try and check up on her. She can text me or reach out when ready; she's most likely just used to dudes chasing her. Not gonna be me.
too many other girls where I wont have to deal with some of those, and I have the patience to wait until I find one.
Easy bushes decision. There's so many women out there, no need to be wasting time with this one. Attitude? Where they do that at. B.u.s.h.e.s.
You wanna live in fear of some girl? That seems dumb. OP take the L and learn not to shyt where you eatThe downside is she is a neighbor..its bushes, but a woman potentially scorned that you can avoid running into is completely different from a neighbor![]()
You wanna live in fear of some girl? That seems dumb. OP take the L and learn not to shyt where you eat