Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Update: Chick that I mentioned yesterday goes back into “hibernation”. She hit me up yesterday after 2 months. We text a bit and I said I’ll call her in the evening. Called that night, no response. I didn’t message her today but she’s been silent.

Lol, what was even the point of reaching back out? :mjlol:

I’ll just take this as a sign that I just need to stay lowkey for a while and focus on my next job and my finances. :ehh:

I already know if I tried to get back with shawty I’d be delaying the timeline on my financial goals.

I already have this Airbnb property I’m managing now. Don’t need additional stress.

Plus Nigeria is coming up. That in itself is a whole bag and some.
 

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I've always wondered what prompts some ladies to reach back out after a long time, especially if they're the ones that broke it off.

Was talking about this a few pages back. Chick who I was seeing for 11 months and broke it off in January hit me up last week. Talking about she had been thinking of things and wanted to meet for coffee. One of the many reasons me and her stopped talking was I was a bit too eager to get with her. Over messaging. Asking if she was gonna see me when she got back to Vancouver. asking how her day was going. Real lame shyt.

We've arranged to meet for coffee next Sunday. From my POV many of us don't get a chance for closure, and I was seeing and sleeping with her for 11 months in the tail end of my last relationship. I'd like to see her. She wants to be 'friends' so we'll see how that goes.
 

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Headed to campus, Praying for some thick lightskin bytches :ohlawd:
 

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Update: Chick that I mentioned yesterday goes back into “hibernation”. She hit me up yesterday after 2 months. We text a bit and I said I’ll call her in the evening. Called that night, no response. I didn’t message her today but she’s been silent.

Lol, what was even the point of reaching back out?
:mjlol:

I’ll just take this as a sign that I just need to stay lowkey for a while and focus on my next job and my finances. :ehh:

I already know if I tried to get back with shawty I’d be delaying the timeline on my financial goals.

I already have this Airbnb property I’m managing now. Don’t need additional stress.

Plus Nigeria is coming up. That in itself is a whole bag and some.

When a girl ghosts/dumps you and comes back, don't allow them back in anyway, shape or form because shyt like above is almost always guaranteed to happen.

should've just asked who it was, she responds, then reply with ah cool and leave it at that.

men these days are to women what video games are to us. Fun and something to play with when you're bored. As fukked up as that sounds, that's what a sizeable portion of the dating landscape is looking like presently in 2018.

the next woman you deal with needs to know you're a nikka she knows she cannot mess with.
 

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When a girl ghosts/dumps you and comes back, don't allow them back in anyway, shape or form because shyt like above is almost always guaranteed to happen.

should've just asked who it was, she responds, then reply with ah cool and leave it at that.

men these days are to women what video games are to us. Fun and something to play with when you're bored. As fukked up as that sounds, that's what a sizeable portion of the dating landscape is looking like presently in 2018.

the next woman you deal with needs to know you're a nikka she knows she cannot mess with.

Aye my man, I'm learning now. I'm glad I'm learning this young, rather than later.

Learning and pivoting as necessary.
 

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I’m tired of all the women I have. I Lowkey want to settle down but I’m so picky smfh. Gonna just build a new roster and see who stands out I guess

You get one that means you give her all the power.
Eventually you will get tired of that. My vote would be to build a new roster. But that's just my take.
 

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You get one that means you give her all the power.
Eventually you will get tired of that. My vote would be to build a new roster. But that's just my take.
This, its either all or nothing


Honestly wish I had nothing
 

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Told her “hope u find your WhPrince Charming”

Not to be petty but to be genuine

But i already know her deal :francis:
 

MollyGalaga

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I want my bad bytch back bruh :mjcry:



Imma take a trip somewhere christmas time
Need new hoes in different area codes
 
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