Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dreamzeedream]

Man peridotpuss gave me some game in my inbox when I was 23 and told me that I look up and be 25 soon. Just turned 25 wed. I'm about to reread our messages. She was on point, especially about the women

 

[Apex]

Man peridotpuss gave me some game in my inbox when I was 23 and told me that I look up and be 25 soon. Just turned 25 wed. I'm about to reread our messages. She was on point, especially about the women

what was said?

 

[Dreamzeedream]

what was said?

This the last message she sent me. This was Oct 2016. Check some of her threads out. She use to drop gems.
She just gave self improvment advice








"What are your options as far as continuing your education? What GPA did you graduate with? In one more year you could file independent on your FAFSA and get considerable financial aid. Hbcus are easier to get into. I'd try that on some real shyt.

Since you're 23 and not in school and working retail you may need to date much younger (18-20 year olds) who are also not in school.

Leveling up and bossing up will help you with women. ..but in your life as well pushing 25 (it all comes sooner than you think) all that "lame" shyt really goes out the window. Most women want a man with some level of accomplishment or that appears that he has something to offer.

Do you work out?
Do you read?
Do you pray?

The time is now and your life will turn out to be a combination of your choices and how well you cared for yourself and managed adversity.

As far as women....being a more mysterious version of yourself is my advice. Unfold your past, habits, intentions and desires....slowly. women like to think and feel through things. Give her something to think and feel through"

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

In the game again. Already getting numbers. Organizing meet-ups. No intention to date. Just hook up. I'm going to be brutally honest to these women outchea

I've got a good excuse too

 

[Atlrocafella]

This chick I’ve been talking to is the baddest I done pulled. I need to really be careful so I don’t get hypnotized by her looks and start low key simping. Gonna have to put her through the same test as everyone else

 

[FishNGrits]

Should I waste my time with a broad that always waits for me to initiate first? I’m crushing on shorty but I’m also a lazy nikka. I ain’t trying to do all the legwork on setting up get togethers an shyt.


Only reason I put up with it as long as I did cause she was the one that approached me and bought me a drink asking for my number.

 

[Silkk]

Should I waste my time with a broad that always waits for me to initiate first? I’m crushing on shorty but I’m also a lazy nikka. I ain’t trying to do all the legwork on setting up get togethers an shyt.


Only reason I put up with it as long as I did cause she was the one that approached me and bought me a drink asking for my number.

Depends, sometimes you may have to do all the initiating first until you get her emotionally attached

 

[FishNGrits]

Depends, sometimes you may have to do all the initiating first until you get her emotionally attached

Yea she not that cool and my Nikkas need my time for the 2k pro am. Ima pass this one

 

[Atlrocafella]

Should I waste my time with a broad that always waits for me to initiate first? I’m crushing on shorty but I’m also a lazy nikka. I ain’t trying to do all the legwork on setting up get togethers an shyt.


Only reason I put up with it as long as I did cause she was the one that approached me and bought me a drink asking for my number.

I usually set up the first 2 outings, after that I wait to see if she will take some initiative to set something up. If she doesn’t, let’s me know she’s expecting you to entertain her everytime. Pass on that or let her know that you’re gonna wait for her to set something up.

 

[Software]

So based on recent experiences I've come to the conclusion that if you ask a chick to hangout sometime during the weekend and she says yes but when you ask when she free, she says "I'll let you know"

Bush her cuz she doesn't value your time/thinks her time more valuable than yours/using you as a back up plan

 

[Dreamzeedream]

So based on recent experiences I've come to the conclusion that if you ask a chick to hangout sometime during the weekend and she says yes but when you ask when she free, she says "I'll let you know"

Bush her cuz she doesn't value your time/thinks her time more valuable than yours/using you as a back up plan

The direct approach

 

[Software]

The direct approach

What you mean?

 

[Dreamzeedream]

What you mean?

You Set the Time,Date and place.and do a follow up the day of or the day to see if yall are still on.

 

[Software]

You Set the Time,Date and place.and do a follow up the day of or the day to see if yall are still on.

I just used the weekend as an example but sometimes even when you specific with a date and time they will do the same thing. Say for instance Downtown bar Friday at 8
I say when are you free so she can give me times she not doing something and pick one we both not doing something to meet up its faster than continually throwing out days and times.

The point is the ho tryna give herself room for an out by saying "I'll let you know". If she does actually meet cool, she don't bush that bytch. She gonna keep doing that fukk shyt

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I just used the weekend as an example but sometimes even when you specific with a date and time they will do the same thing. Say for instance Downtown bar Friday at 8
I say when are you free so she can give me times she not doing something and pick one we both not doing something to meet up its faster than continually throwing out days and times.

The point is the ho tryna give herself room for an out by saying "I'll let you know". If she does actually meet cool, she don't bush that bytch. She gonna keep doing that fukk shyt

You right.I was just about to say that


How many chicks you talking to at the moment?