so today this girl decided to put me on death row brehs. She handed my ass to me and told me she is fed up of having to argue with me every time we chill together and having to walk on eggshells. she told me i got some deep insecurities I need to deal with and that she's hurt and the only way right now for her to get her peace of mind and happiness back is if i'm no longer in her life. she says i'm manipulative and that I have no accountability for my actions and that everything is always her fault in my eyes....and because of that she feels like her attraction towards me has went out the window.
funny thing is she still maintains that we stay in contact (by that she means we can still talk and visit each other but no sex or kissing) so that she can monitor and see if im changing and if she feels that i'm serious about making change and putting her happiness in the forefront. I asked her though "whats the point of keeping contact when u say u no longer like me as much, also surely u might want to see someone else then", but she insists that because she had no one in her life before we met then she has no reason to jump on another dude and that the reason she's saying we can still keep in contact is to give me another chance cause she insists shes not talking to other dudes.
I don't know what to do brehs. I like the girl, she's cool and all but this whole thing of being put in jail is making me skeptical.Like i don't know how i'm gonna be evaluated or how long this gonna last. im in a lose-lose situation: If I say "fukk this we might as well cut ties if we cant work it out while still together as normal" she gonna be like I never cared for her to begin with and basically affirm her suspicions of me being an insecure aint shyt mofo. If I stay and agree to be put in deathrow i'll be allowing her to put her foot on my neck and have me behave just like how she wants
I need some opinions on this![]()
Absolutely not! Do not fall for this. Don't let some broad keep you on the string, keeping you on hold and setting you on the back burner. nikka - you worth more than that. If a woman wants to jump ship, let her and makes sure she has a cinder block tied to her fukking ankles too. You don't need any woman putting some shyt like "to give you me another chance...". fukk that. I guarantee she got dikks appointments already lined up into mid next week.
With that being said, you may have some insecurities or whatnot, but those are things that you have to work through; however, that doesn't give her the right to make you feel less of a person and that there is somethign wrong with you. We all have insecurities, so don't think that there is something wrong with you.
My ex tried to force that shyt into my head and for a while I believed it. Then I came to a reasoning that, I am who I am. as long as you are happy who you are, then so be it.