Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[beezy]

Just thought id give yall an update.

So last time i posted was a big argument where the wife blew up irrationally.. and at that point i was pretty much checked out. So then yesterday, over the course of the day i had to help her get all their things ready for the trip home to jersey. She even sold some things to get money to buy winter clothes and all that.. as the day progressed we talked more and more, not about any of the issues though or arguing.. and we even went to a finance class that we been going to together. in my mind im thinkin "why is she bein so nice" especially when i heard her throw comments out of the blue referring to her coming back.. and things like callin me baby again and just actin like things were cool.. then when we got home before bed she asked if i wanted to have one last drink with her before she left i could see where this was going. right when it was time to sleep she says "theres still a few things we need to talk about but right now all i can think of is one thing.." so there you go i let her "seduce" me. then afterwards she was just talkin bout how she loves me and what not. i didnt even know what to say.. and all day today she acted like everything was all good, and how shes comin back etc. not once did we address any of the problems from before. and im just sittin here like is that it? im supposed to just go along with it and be happy and let things be? i dont even feel that make up connection.. i dropped her off at the airport and have no idea whats gonna happen now.. im gonna have to talk to her about this shyt and bring up the fact that we never even got on the same page about making up.. she cant think that the sex was her way of getting me back on track with this..

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

girl says she wants to be fukk buddies
you fukk her
she tries to switch it up after and say relationship or no more sex

best way to handle it if you don't wanna date her?

 

[sixsixtwo]

girl says she wants to be fukk buddies
you fukk her
she tries to switch it up after and say relationship or no more sex

best way to handle it if you don't wanna date her?

If it was me, I'd get rid of the bytch.. I don't respond to ultimatums..

NEXT!

 

[Rich Spirit]

Brehs,

i've been meaning to ask this for a while. Say you tell a chick that yall going out somewhere this week, then she say something like "I don't get paid till next week, so im just gonna chill" or something in that context, what does that mean? How should one proceed with that?

 

[Smashley]

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[Smashley]

girl says she wants to be fukk buddies
you fukk her
she tries to switch it up after and say relationship or no more sex

best way to handle it if you don't wanna date her?

Call her bluff, and be like

Brehs,

i've been meaning to ask this for a while. Say you tell a chick that yall going out somewhere this week, then she say something like "I don't get paid till next week, so im just gonna chill" or something in that context, what does that mean? How should one proceed with that?

Tell her to get you next time. Test her to see if she conveniently forgets after she gets paid.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 14:

After last night's high, I nearly forgot to do this today, but fortunately I got kind of a free one tossed my way while I was leaving my building at work today.

I saw a woman who looked around 22-24 holding a bag that said "Harrod's" on it, like the big department store over in London. I recognized it immediately and jumped on the opportunity to jump on it and ask her when she was traveling in order to show that I instinctively knew to go straight to ask when she was traveling then ask the obvious question of, "Hey, is that bag from like, Europe or something?" Going straight into questions that indicate that I already kinda know what I'm talking about when it comes to international travel (hopefully) made me look wiser, more worldly, and caused her to draw on deeper pools of knowledge to respond to me about something she was going to obviously be excited to talk about.

I don't like looking stupid or goonish when I talk to girls. It's not really my thing and the type of girls that this type of guy attracts aren't the kind of girls that are my type anyway.

We chatted about travel for a good five minutes, but then her boyfriend showed up. Weak.

Edit: On a side note, I'm going to Vegas for an extended period next week for Thanksgiving with the family. It'll be good to take this experiment on the road. If there's anything you guys want me to try, I'm down, so go ahead and let fly with suggestions!

My bad for this one not being as interesting. I can never tell if they're wifed up or not.

 

[Sinnerman]

To piggy back off of the @DaygoTaco post, I did two approaches today. the first one was awkward but I swagged out on the second one. First girl was black, second asian. some personal notes

The first approach was terrible. but I really went in with some recycled garbage, and it hurt me. I could tell it was really awkward, and it was a shame I messed it up because she was fine. I really had no choice with the second one, considering she was eyeraping me. It was easier this time because I freestyled basically. She's actually a little older(27).


-Listening is the most important thing when approaching

-don't allow your conversation to sound scripted, nor should it sound like an interview. Allow it to feel organic, and show real interest in her

-Make your decision whether or not to approach in the first 5 seconds. after a while of waiting you risk other factors screwing up your game(her leaving, a friend meeting her etc.)

-Don't have a prepackaged line when you approach, look at her, then comment on something such as her outfit, her mood, etc.

-We really have nothing to lose brehs Worst she can say is no, and it actually feels kind of good tbh. it's better to just do it then to regret it later.

One more thing brehs, make sure you're getting some sort of exercise every day. It will help you with your confidence

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

To piggy back off of the @DaygoTaco post, I did two approaches today. the first one was awkward but I swagged out on the second one. First girl was black, second asian. some personal notes

The first approach was terrible. but I really went in with some recycled garbage, and it hurt me. I could tell it was really awkward, and it was a shame I messed it up because she was fine. I really had no choice with the second one, considering she was eyeraping me. It was easier this time because I freestyled basically. She's actually a little older(27).


-Listening is the most important thing when approaching

-don't allow your conversation to sound scripted, nor should it sound like an interview. Allow it to feel organic, and show real interest in her

-Make your decision whether or not to approach in the first 5 seconds. after a while of waiting you risk other factors screwing up your game(her leaving, a friend meeting her etc.)

-Don't have a prepackaged line when you approach, look at her, then comment on something such as her outfit, her mood, etc.

-We really have nothing to lose brehs Worst she can say is no, and it actually feels kind of good tbh. it's better to just do it then to regret it later.

One more thing brehs, make sure you're getting some sort of exercise every day. It will help you with your confidence

This is all good, but exercise alone is excellent. Your clothes fit better and the endorphin rush you get from it improves your mood.

 

[winb83]

Just thought id give yall an update.

So last time i posted was a big argument where the wife blew up irrationally.. and at that point i was pretty much checked out. So then yesterday, over the course of the day i had to help her get all their things ready for the trip home to jersey. She even sold some things to get money to buy winter clothes and all that.. as the day progressed we talked more and more, not about any of the issues though or arguing.. and we even went to a finance class that we been going to together. in my mind im thinkin "why is she bein so nice" especially when i heard her throw comments out of the blue referring to her coming back.. and things like callin me baby again and just actin like things were cool.. then when we got home before bed she asked if i wanted to have one last drink with her before she left i could see where this was going. right when it was time to sleep she says "theres still a few things we need to talk about but right now all i can think of is one thing.." so there you go i let her "seduce" me. then afterwards she was just talkin bout how she loves me and what not. i didnt even know what to say.. and all day today she acted like everything was all good, and how shes comin back etc. not once did we address any of the problems from before. and im just sittin here like is that it? im supposed to just go along with it and be happy and let things be? i dont even feel that make up connection.. i dropped her off at the airport and have no idea whats gonna happen now.. im gonna have to talk to her about this shyt and bring up the fact that we never even got on the same page about making up.. she cant think that the sex was her way of getting me back on track with this..

If you ever decide you're done with a chick never have that talk with her. I mean that post big fight talk where she tries to flip the script and behave like an angel and possibly give you some ass.

in layman's terms this is called "she's trying to manipulate you." these women suffer from emotional outburst. its like a child that screams "I hate you" to their parents. they might possibly mean that but they're a child and they're dependent on their parents so you put enough distance between them and their anger and they'll realize they need their parents and act right.

if you deep down felt like you're leaving her then you let her behave a certain way and talk you down then that's not being a stand up guy and if you fold don't think she doesn't take note of the fact that you're fair game to be manipulated.

once you decide to leave its best to cease all unnecessary communication. and def not to talk about what happened, emotions, and feelings.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Think i am done going after white girls for a bit(i am white) only going to focus on mixed and asian girls

 

[Oye]

In anticipation of my trip to brazil I decided to check out a dating site just to see what else it has to offer other than the woman I'm talking to on facebook

Spoiler

The girl from Facebook wants to meet but I'm not too sure because she's a few hours from where I will be staying. What would you all do? I'm not going for sex tourism either.

 

[kevm3]

some nice women right there

 

[Oye]

@kevm3 can you believe half of them are 24-28 years old. I'm not sure on meeting the girl I posted a few days back.

 

[kevm3]

i'm not surprised. I need to gone head and make a profile and see what they talking bout.

what got you hesitant on meeting the one you was chopping it with on facebook?

my main concern with them would be if they are using a fake picture or not.