Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I was at this going away party for this entrepreneur woman I mentioned before. I decided it would be nice to see her before she left.

I ended up being introduced to her best friend since high school. Gorgeous woman. I saw them whispering as they were looking at me prior to the introduction.

Just a general conversation. I later saw her ring and said "How long have you been married?" She told me eight years. The conversation went from very topical banter to her telling me the issues in her relationship. I think it's a good point to drive home to men that you should focus on your passion in life and of course drive you and your partner.

She's a musician and also does event coordinating. I'm not sure of the husband's job but she stated that he has been at the same job for several years and lacks ambition. She is trying to focus on her music and the fact that they have to kids makes it hard.

She sort of stated that she would have done it slightly differently if she knew all of this.

I realized through this conversation she was interested in what I was talking about and her eyes brightened up talking to me. I wasn't being flirtatious just gave her good conversation. I ended up getting her # and she later texted saying that she enjoyed talking to me.

Her friend (the woman I was banging) said in front of her colleagues and friends that she should divorce her husband and realize that men like me out there exist. Pretty crazy situation overall.
 

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So I was at this going away party for this entrepreneur woman I mentioned before. I decided it would be nice to see her before she left.

I ended up being introduced to her best friend since high school. Gorgeous woman. I saw them whispering as they were looking at me prior to the introduction.

Just a general conversation. I later saw her ring and said "How long have you been married?" She told me eight years. The conversation went from very topical banter to her telling me the issues in her relationship. I think it's a good point to drive home to men that you should focus on your passion in life and of course drive you and your partner.

She's a musician and also does event coordinating. I'm not sure of the husband's job but she stated that he has been at the same job for several years and lacks ambition. She is trying to focus on her music and the fact that they have to kids makes it hard.

She sort of stated that she would have done it slightly differently if she knew all of this.

I realized through this conversation she was interested in what I was talking about and her eyes brightened up talking to me. I wasn't being flirtatious just gave her good conversation. I ended up getting her # and she later texted saying that she enjoyed talking to me.

Her friend (the woman I was banging) said in front of her colleagues and friends that she should divorce her husband and realize that men like me out there exist. Pretty crazy situation overall.

The husband might have been supporting her dream while she was making pennies...:francis:

You never know with these women
 

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The husband might have been supporting her dream while she was making pennies...:francis:

You never know with these women

God I know dude and in this instance I'm on his side here. I was talking about I want something serious and it sounded like she was WARNING me about marrying the wrong person. I wasn't flirting with her other than me being present and talking (there's an innate level of attraction obviously) and I didn't trash the dude either.
 

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I'm an ass man to the core, but I never really run across quality single women with bunz. They all either are taken, or have some negative qualities that make them tough to deal with, even for a casual smash. It's like dudes just took that segment out the game.

It hurts to say this but I might have to give up on the mission for a chick with a donk and take the best player available. As a black man, I would have never thought I'd have to concede on that category.
They are oversexualized so they tend to have some trust issues and insecurities from that, possible sexual assaults and nikkas that got in their pants just cuz of the ass.

Last girl I was fukking with was 5’2 and she had an ass on her :ohlawd: but we was having these types of issues
 

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Love,Affection,intimacy. Thats all I really want from s women right now.



I ain't gone lie I ain't got no hoes right now. So what I feel might change
This is a lot to ask in 2018.
I'm an ass man to the core, but I never really run across quality single women with bunz. They all either are taken, or have some negative qualities that make them tough to deal with, even for a casual smash. It's like dudes just took that segment out the game.

It hurts to say this but I might have to give up on the mission for a chick with a donk and take the best player available. As a black man, I would have never thought I'd have to concede on that category.
Single quality women are in depressive numbers period whether the ass is fat or not.
 

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This is a lot to ask in 2018.

Single quality women are in depressive numbers period whether the ass is fat or not.
Kinda of. The thing is these chicks are acting like dudes now a days.they got that 1 person they want to be with or in a relationship with but they still got other people on the side. Not every girl is like that but I'm seeing alot of chicks are ok with having "hoes"
 

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Love,Affection,intimacy. Thats all I really want from s women right now.



I ain't gone lie I ain't got no hoes right now. So what I feel might change

Alot of guys say that but when they get it they get annoyed make sure that is a type of female u want.
Plus a clingy female is more than likely to fit what ur looking for also
I'm an ass man to the core, but I never really run across quality single women with bunz. They all either are taken, or have some negative qualities that make them tough to deal with, even for a casual smash. It's like dudes just took that segment out the game.

It hurts to say this but I might have to give up on the mission for a chick with a donk and take the best player available. As a black man, I would have never thought I'd have to concede on that category.

Reality is and has always been this just worse as the years went by. A good woman is hard to find but also if she is a good woman and she is missing certain quality u willing to let her go cuz she got no ass that's naive too do it.
Sometimes the good ones may miss a thing or 2 u like as long as it ain't a deal breaker keep her or if she is just average in looks but no ass lil t*ts but makes good money and will ride and die for u and makes u happy keep her
 

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Alot of guys say that but when they get it they get annoyed make sure that is a type of female u want.
Plus a clingy female is more than likely to fit what ur looking for also



Reality is and has always been this just worse as the years went by. A good woman is hard to find but also if she is a good woman and she is missing certain quality u willing to let her go cuz she got no ass that's naive too do it.
Sometimes the good ones may miss a thing or 2 u like as long as it ain't a deal breaker keep her or if she is just average in looks but no ass lil t*ts but makes good money and will ride and die for u and makes u happy keep her
I feel you. That's why I was saying I dont have any hoes right now so when I do get some or get somebody what I feel might change.but right now that's what I want. As far as clingy females. Its hard for me to find one. All the girls I'm running into have somebody already. I haven't met a chick yet that's single and not talking to nobody
 

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I feel you. That's why I was saying I dont have any hoes right now so when I do get some or get somebody what I feel might change.but right now that's what I want. As far as clingy females. Its hard for me to find one. All the girls I'm running into have somebody already. I haven't met a chick yet that's single and not talking to nobody

Dont look for it let it come too you while your focusing doing u.
Not saying not holler but let it just happen organically.
 

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Kinda of. The thing is these chicks are acting like dudes now a days.they got that 1 person they want to be with or in a relationship with but they still got other people on the side. Not every girl is like that but I'm seeing alot of chicks are ok with having "hoes"
Which is why it's a luxury...even when you become that "1 they want to be with" the likelihood is there's still 3 nikkas in her orbit. So the love ain't real and the affection and intimacy are just pacifiers :wow:
 

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So I was my girl crib and she went to wash dishes so she told me to find a movie on Netflix to watch(it was streamed to her tv):ehh:
So I’m minding my business and she got notification pop up on the top from her friend that I know:ehh: I tried to swipe it away so it can go away but I press it By accident.the message showed:hubie::hubie: I immediately was bout to close it cuz I don’t like reading people personal shyt. But something caught my attention :jbhmm: her friend was talking about how she might go back to her thot phase...my girl responded “I wish I can”:patrice: her friend said you stupid you basically married and my girl said whoaaa hold on not even close:patrice:
Brehs when she said I wish I can is that a alarm:patrice: or am I tripping :patrice:
 
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