Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

Hey has anyone here ever had sex with a new woman without kissing her on the mouth?

Is there a way I can get around it?

Yeah, a few times actually. Just kiss her on the neck and avoid the contact.

I had one chick who FORCED me to make out with her, I hated that shyt cause it was like our 2nd time.

I can fukk a chick no problem but tonguing her down and all that, nahhhh thats gonna wait.

 

[Apex]

Respond a day or two later

Texting response times signal how much you care

do u respond late to every single text a girl sends or just the INITIAL one

 

[phcitywarrior]

do u respond late to every single text a girl sends or just the INITIAL one

I'll respond if I have my phone in my hand but I do prefer talking on the phone.

I really am not one for the texting games but I do understand why one may need to play it. Personally, if I have to do the whole texting games thing then idk about it.

Side note - Shawty at work coming in even harder...temptation is a MF.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

do u respond late to every single text a girl sends or just the INITIAL one

I respond given their texting times.

For example:
I text her. She responds 12 minutes later. I respond approximately 12 minutes later.

Another example:
She texts me. I text back. She responds 3 minutes later. I respond around 3 minutes later.

My time is precious

 

[sfgiants]

Doesnt curving em make them want u more

It does
One girl told me she didn’t want a fukk buddy early on and that she was only gona date a guy if he was serious about a relationship
I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead and I was like
Eventually I got her to agree to giving me a 30 minute blowjob and no cuddling after sex and that I didn’t want a relationship

The key is u can’t fake that disinterest and natural aloofness. I lost all interest in her because she was stupid and it only made her wana do whatever it takes to get me interested again

Women are driven by attention it’s crazy

 

[sfgiants]

I respond given their texting times.

For example:
I text her. She responds 12 minutes later. I respond approximately 12 minutes later.

Another example:
She texts me. I text back. She responds 3 minutes later. I respond around 3 minutes later.

My time is precious

This is childish and immature.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

This is childish and immature.

Works great for me. Why reply right away to an individual who responded to a message you sent 3 hrs ago?

 

[sfgiants]

Works great for me. Why reply right away to an individual who responded to a message you sent 3 hrs ago?

You’re obviously not a priority to her, why play these childish games with someone who will go 3 hours without responding to you
You tryna play mind games while she’s having a full convo with another dude

 

[MikelArteta]

always remember women have their phones on them from when they get up to when they sleep even at work

if a chick takes long to message you back you're not a priority she minimized your text when she received that msg
@The Odum of Ala Igbo i still have chicks in nigeria texting me daily, if someone 10,000 miles away 5 hrs ahead timezone with spotty connection can get back to me asap why are we giving chicks in our own city leeway abeg o

i remember i messaged some chick last week, she didn't reply back to me, but she was doing whatsapp statuses and ish.

like 7 hrs after the fact she messaged me, i didn't even reply and just deleted her number

as kevm3 would say if it was chris brown or trey songz she would have got back ASAP

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah, a few times actually. Just kiss her on the neck and avoid the contact.

I had one chick who FORCED me to make out with her, I hated that shyt cause it was like our 2nd time.

I can fukk a chick no problem but tonguing her down and all that, nahhhh thats gonna wait.

with how rampant herpes is ....

i actually was a little shook cuz i kissed a few chicks in nigeria and i came back and i had a sore throat and a cold after thought i had herpes

 

[MikelArteta]

its the disease of leeway brehs, just because she's attractive we keep giving chances like a talented athlete who keeps screwing up (ala josh gordon).

oh she doesn't reply till a few days later that's ok
oh she cancels no worries its ok

stop with the its ok and stand firm breh. That ish won't be me


I used to be the biggest simp ever, prob won an award for simping

I was always mr its ok maybe next week?, its all good I understand?, oh don't worry about it!

Now im mr block and delete, mr don't waste my time, mr whose up next


Before I went on my trip to Nigeria I was actually talking to this chick down there for a little, we were spose to hang out and all that ish she got angry at me and stopped talking to me. Like last week she hit me up how she missed not talking to me and wished we could have hung out and why didn't I reach out to her. I was like no biggie I met like 15 women, actresses, socialites, drs, lawyers when I was down there and was taking all over the place. You actually thought I'd be locked up in a hotel, or sending some text like hey im here ?

That's what these chicks think because they look half way decent your life as a man revolves all around them and if they remove themselves you'll be chasing and begging and ish

 

[Apex]

It does
One girl told me she didn’t want a fukk buddy early on and that she was only gona date a guy if he was serious about a relationship
I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead and I was like
Eventually I got her to agree to giving me a 30 minute blowjob and no cuddling after sex and that I didn’t want a relationship

The key is u can’t fake that disinterest and natural aloofness. I lost all interest in her because she was stupid and it only made her wana do whatever it takes to get me interested again

Women are driven by attention it’s crazy

So how often do u text

What are ur secrets and tips

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

its the disease of leeway brehs, just because she's attractive we keep giving chances like a talented athlete who keeps screwing up (ala josh gordon).

oh she doesn't reply till a few days later that's ok
oh she cancels no worries its ok

stop with the its ok and stand firm breh. That ish won't be me


I used to be the biggest simp ever, prob won an award for simping

I was always mr its ok maybe next week?, its all good I understand?, oh don't worry about it!

Now im mr block and delete, mr don't waste my time, mr whose up next


Before I went on my trip to Nigeria I was actually talking to this chick down there for a little, we were spose to hang out and all that ish she got angry at me and stopped talking to me. Like last week she hit me up how she missed not talking to me and wished we could have hung out and why didn't I reach out to her. I was like no biggie I met like 15 women, actresses, socialites, drs, lawyers when I was down there and was taking all over the place. You actually thought I'd be locked up in a hotel, or sending some text like hey im here ?

That's what these chicks think because they look half way decent your life as a man revolves all around them and if they remove themselves you'll be chasing and begging and ish

Exactly

Treat them how they treat you

 

[sfgiants]

So how often do u text

What are ur secrets and tips

Depends on the girl. I always text back when I read a text because I’m not a sassy petty 16 year old girl. if a girl is on some “wait 2 hours to reply” shyt it’s easy to detect and to the bushes she goes
ESP when you’re setting up something to do and they don’t reply then you know they’re indifferent so I don’t even bother. I’ve had a girl reply back the next day with the “sorry I didn’t get ur text/sorry just saw ur text” shyt. What more do u need to see to kno you’re at best her back up option.

I also never ask “wyd” or “what are u up to” because I don’t care. If I wana start talking (because I’m bored or whatever) I’ll say something random. It’s better in my opinion than “wyd”.

 

[Apex]

Depends on the girl. I always text back when I read a text because I’m not a sassy petty 16 year old girl. if a girl is on some “wait 2 hours to reply” shyt it’s easy to detect and to the bushes she goes
ESP when you’re setting up something to do and they don’t reply then you know they’re indifferent so I don’t even bother. I’ve had a girl reply back the next day with the “sorry I didn’t get ur text/sorry just saw ur text” shyt. What more do u need to see to kno you’re at best her back up option.

I also never ask “wyd” or “what are u up to” because I don’t care. If I wana start talking (because I’m bored or whatever) I’ll say something random. It’s better in my opinion than “wyd”.

what do u do if a girl isnt ready for a relationship cause shes just getting out of one and she tells you herself that shes closed off

do u just move on? even if she enjoys talking to u and even initiates conversation?