Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Pclarkrsa

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Yes but its nt friendzone
We were cool n all
I just dnt knw hw to answer when the person ask me wher u got my number from
Mind u dat i had her number before n lost it
Well shyt, how you get it before? If she gave it to you, you just came across it in your phone, or saw it while looking for something in your old phone if it's been that long. If you got it off a group chat or something, remind her of the chat. Or you can be playful if it works for you, "so and so gave me your number, said we'd make a good match" type shyt.
 

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Can anyone help me make sense of this.

Shorty I'm talking to is on some bs right now

Left me on read after a few messages but watches my snapchats
Posted a snap of her elsewhere with a few drinks
Hmu last minute to chillll last weekend when I been asking her when she's down to hangout
I ask where she was and why she couldn't respond to me lately said she was hanging out with her dad
Has been posting snaps of her dubbing dudes, she didn't used to post that before
Does the same thing this week
Not sure if it's my response to her asking what she we do this week told her I'm trying to break her back (jokingly) then I followed quickly and told her I'll figure something out. Leaves me in read


My friends say its because she feels that I'm treating her like a jump off but I feel like there's another guy she's messing with that she doesn't want to come clean about
I feel like I’m missing something between “chick I’m talking to” and “asking why she couldn’t reply”

You sound really possessive for someone you just talking to.

Watching some snaps doesn’t mean crap. Hitting you randomly is something bored people do.

You are somewhere low on her list of priorities and she is higher on yours so that’s why u seem confused.
 

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I feel like I’m missing something between “chick I’m talking to” and “asking why she couldn’t reply”

You sound really possessive for someone you just talking to.

Watching some snaps doesn’t mean crap. Hitting you randomly is something bored people do.

You are somewhere low on her list of priorities and she is higher on yours so that’s why u seem confused.
Ok we dating basically, and we had a talk about how often we wanna see each other and we agreed once a week vecause our schedules don't really align. But she's being mad wishy washy which I'm not fukkin with.

Also I find that mad disrespectful, how you gonna watch my snap and post but you won't respond to my text. I might as well charge you to the game if you can't be 100 with me and say what's on your mind
 

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She came over last night. Somehow the condom came off.

Decided to just get the Plan B today. ($44 :damn:

Bought a whole pack of Magnums. Life has been good sexually lately :blessed:
 

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Ok we dating basically, and we had a talk about how often we wanna see each other and we agreed once a week vecause our schedules don't really align. But she's being mad wishy washy which I'm not fukkin with.

Also I find that mad disrespectful, how you gonna watch my snap and post but you won't respond to my text. I might as well charge you to the game if you can't be 100 with me and say what's on your mind
Okay that makes more sense.

Agreeing to date someone you can only see once a week is personally DOA dating wise unless there’s some kind of temporary reason. 90% of the relationship will be text messages.


Yeah I see your point about the responding.

My guess is she likes you on a superficial level. Like if your snaps were you going out of town for the weekend or concert stuff. She’d want to be involved. But the meat and potatoes sitting around the apartment talking isn’t what she wants from you for a once a week dating scenario.
 

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Once in a while, sit back and observe without seeking. just check how people act around eachother and towards you. you will notice certain women choosing you. go after those ones without seeking their validation. make the offer and let her choose. if she fronts on you, do not try to convince her to change her mind. Just keep it moving. If she comes back, don't be passive aggressive. keep your head cold and check if you still want to spend time with her or not. Some girls will front at first and then come back around and it's frustrating but if you succumb to it, that anger stays within you and even the next girl you meet, you bring that vibe along with you.

Someone posted this in the early pages of this thread, but luckily I had copy n pasted it on a word document. Thought i'd share it for all my coli brehs out there :jbsideburns:
 

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I told her I appreciated her honesty and owning up to it. Told her she would have to make it up to me but I was totally nonchalant about it. Don't really care because I only been on one date with her but in the world of ghosting/fading I actually genuinely appreciated that she owned up to it b/c many women don't have accountability.

I wouldn't even give her credit for owning up to it. She had other plans w/ another dude and it didn't pan out. Unless a family member had some sort of emergency etc there's no other possibly reason.
 

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I wouldn't even give her credit for owning up to it. She had other plans w/ another dude and it didn't pan out. Unless a family member had some sort of emergency etc there's no other possibly reason.

I see what you mean but in modern dating most people are silent, don't tell anyone anything and leave others guessing. I wasn't like "oh wow! let's do something!" moreso thanked her for her honesty.
 

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She came over last night. Somehow the condom came off.

Decided to just get the Plan B today. ($44 :damn:

Bought a whole pack of Magnums. Life has been good sexually lately :blessed:


:stopitslime:

bruh, you ain't got no business with magnums if the condom "somehow" falls off.... :usure:
 

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:stopitslime:

bruh, you ain't got no business with magnums if the condom "somehow" falls off.... :usure:
:heh: Bad choice of words.

The condom broke. The thick ring was still on the base but I punched thru the rubber. I'm not gonna debate whether I have a big dikk with you. Condoms break. fukk outta here :camby:
 

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Been ignoring my messages for a hot min now

Maybe ill come back to these apps today

Maybe
 
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