Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MidniteJay]

play it safe and say something along the lines of "we should definitely grab a cup of coffee one of these days". if shes into you she'll say something along the lines of "id really like that".

dont push it though. if she responds well, give her ur number.

i wouldnt recommend kicking it to her unless she leaves no doubt she really likes u.

Thanks, breh. I'll return to this thread with feedback first week of April.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

yo wassup brehs, my baby mama trying to bush me on the low

she wants to hang out with her co-workers more cause she feels i "chained" her down in the relationship. I admit, i didnt wine and dine her too often but thats because we always had alot of issues trying to raise a "mistake" baby (yeah i said it) and now that our kid is older, she wants to go "out" more.

She went out last time with her co-workers birthday thing at a bar and she let 2 guys buy her a drink. i tried to tell her thats mad disrespectful but do u. She said "its just a drink, i didnt go home with him"

but now, she on some, "i wanna be free to do what i want and not need your approval" type of shyt

she got plans to go out with her "co-workers" to some ladies night thing and she trying to say "im free of your chains" i was listening to her like

we put alot of fun activities on hold because we didnt have a babysitter and we were raising our baby all by ourselves alot of the time but now, she on some "Stella wants her groove back stuff" and took me my fun side for granted and thinks others are more "fun" than me.


whats all this about in detail?

I know you all gonna say "run" or "throw her to the bushes" but what went wrong here? Im a good dad but now she wants a "party social life" now that our kid is at the annoying age.


p.s. i cheated on her a few times over the years but she is the only one i entertained as a GF but i definitely got other p*ssy

Immediately break up with this woman and let her live her life otherwise it won't end well for you. You're going to end up sharing that girl.

It's best you move on and be with someone who truly wants you and not live the party life.

 

[International Playa]

Had a great weekend

Friday morning, female wanted to meet up for FWB on Saturday in a motel, declined her, I had a date set up with the female I like.

Date with new female I like, went well, cute, short nerdy Nigerian chick. She was laughing at all my jokes & had good convo

Sunday an ex who left me for another breh whose tryna come back texted me, i dont really want her (we not compatable) but will just entertain her for now

 

[Mr.bocario]

Real talk brehs

Where do y’all meet these cool nerdy chicks

I work from 9-5 m-f

On weekends I can onky go to hiphop clubs filled with ratchet club bytches

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

At what age is a chick unmoldable? She bad, but she ain’t on shyt

 

[Action Mike]

At what age is a chick unmoldable? She bad, but she ain’t on shyt

Late 20s in my opinion but once in 30s its a wrap

 

[The True HD]

Real talk brehs

Where do y’all meet these cool nerdy chicks

I work from 9-5 m-f

On weekends I can onky go to hiphop clubs filled with ratchet club bytches

Outside. Hit the library or Starbucks to do work or sumn, switch up your routine. Enroll in a college class that will put you around those types, a lil extra but I'm back in school while working so thats why I threw it in. You got the whole evening to be finding shorties though, the cute nerdy ones prob gonna be more introverted so they're only gonna come out selectively...

 

[Wargames]

Real talk brehs

Where do y’all meet these cool nerdy chicks

I work from 9-5 m-f

On weekends I can onky go to hiphop clubs filled with ratchet club bytches

I live in a major city and did AmeriCorps and volunteer in general. Like I've noticed that women who give their time to a cause (besides religion) tend to be smarter and more likely about something (even if it's just their careers).

Haven't met a straight dumb bird volunteering to help kids or the environment yet

 

[calixprynce]

girl caught me hitting up hoes on POF

she got me in the dog house

said to get back together , I cant have a car and I have to do a GRAND romantic gesture
her bday on April 22nd, we'll see how real she is

 

[calixprynce]

smh I wish I had the idgaf switch like you brehs

stuck in love with a spoiled lil girl

 

[Data-Hawk]

Breh you ain’t lying. I got this one shorty I’m gonna have to curve because things just aren’t smelling right down there. She’s sexy as fukk; tatted and pierced... I just can’t stand the way her p*ssy smells. I can tell she caught feelings too but damn that. Gotta do what I gotta do.

Man that’s the quickest way to lose all feelings/stop messing with a female.. that shyt happen to me like a yr ago. Was really feeling her and then one day she bent over for me to hit it from the back and man... I literally almost passed out from the smell. My shyt went limp and I could not get it back up.. lol.. we stop talking like a week later .

 

[Rich Spirit]

Real talk brehs

Where do y’all meet these cool nerdy chicks

I work from 9-5 m-f

On weekends I can onky go to hiphop clubs filled with ratchet club bytches

Book clubs, museums, art shows, wine tasting events, poetry clubs, volunteer work.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Day party yesterday

Came up there round 4pm and the bytches were out. All flavors of sisters in DC. Africans to lightskinned exoticals .

My shorty im dating was saying “I think you might be going out there and baggin women cuz we on rocky terms”

She was right

Bagged a 30 yr old lightskinned shorty. She a 6/10

Bagged a 22 yr old nigerian chick who just graduated from UMD.

Just texting both rn. I need to be better at being more aggressive when talkin to bytches and combining it with my intelligence.

Also, brehs make sure to be working out. When i took off my jacket and bytches saw my traps/shoulders/back. I saw the 100s of bytches look. When you fit and in tight spaces bytches be sneak copping feels

Also, make sure to dress fly my nikkas but keep it lowkey. bytch complimented my supreme jacket at chipotle with her bf in line

 

[number21]

Not that quick but a lot of gems.

 

[ViShawn]

I think I'm gonna go straight up IDGAF and just game mad chicks. I'm full of test right now.

Day party yesterday

Came up there round 4pm and the bytches were out. All flavors of sisters in DC. Africans to lightskinned exoticals .

My shorty im dating was saying “I think you might be going out there and baggin women cuz we on rocky terms”

She was right

Bagged a 30 yr old lightskinned shorty. She a 6/10

Bagged a 22 yr old nigerian chick who just graduated from UMD.

Just texting both rn. I need to be better at being more aggressive when talkin to bytches and combining it with my intelligence.

Also, brehs make sure to be working out. When i took off my jacket and bytches saw my traps/shoulders/back. I saw the 100s of bytches look. When you fit and in tight spaces bytches be sneak copping feels

Also, make sure to dress fly my nikkas but keep it lowkey. bytch complimented my supreme jacket at chipotle with her bf in line

Legit working out and dressing right will up your stats. Most chicks compliment me on my smile, body (back and ass mostly), and how I dress.

Most of how you dress comes down to the FIT of your clothes.