I was watching some stuff on YouTube about people ghosting and female psychology. I was like 
A lot of men do chase and that's OK, but essentially you have to let the woman come to YOU about what are we / where is this going. I can say in my past relationships I've done that and it's resulted in long relationships. It made the woman guess.
I think this last chick I made myself slightly too available. She finds me attractive, had high interest, but I somehow messed things up along the way. I also have to realize that some things are out of my control even if you make correct moves (mood, other men in the picture, her internal conflict, emotional availability). We as men always want to FIX something when sometimes you just have to let them go
Some of the best things men can do is work on their purpose and have multiple women. Preselection is a powerful tool. Indifference is a powerful too. I've been trying to contemplate what I've done wrong and BS even after going on a good date and the nature of dating at times it may not be me and sometimes you just have to let it ride. You have a higher chance if you two had sex and it was great.
I think some of this stuff I do subconsciously with some women that are interested in me but I may not have as high interest. An ex of mine that I was with for 2+ years fell in love with me but was always chasing me due to my general indifference at times. Even when we broke up she came circling back every few weeks or so.
Alright I ain't go no mo talkin'
A lot of men do chase and that's OK, but essentially you have to let the woman come to YOU about what are we / where is this going. I can say in my past relationships I've done that and it's resulted in long relationships. It made the woman guess.
I think this last chick I made myself slightly too available. She finds me attractive, had high interest, but I somehow messed things up along the way. I also have to realize that some things are out of my control even if you make correct moves (mood, other men in the picture, her internal conflict, emotional availability). We as men always want to FIX something when sometimes you just have to let them go
Some of the best things men can do is work on their purpose and have multiple women. Preselection is a powerful tool. Indifference is a powerful too. I've been trying to contemplate what I've done wrong and BS even after going on a good date and the nature of dating at times it may not be me and sometimes you just have to let it ride. You have a higher chance if you two had sex and it was great.
I think some of this stuff I do subconsciously with some women that are interested in me but I may not have as high interest. An ex of mine that I was with for 2+ years fell in love with me but was always chasing me due to my general indifference at times. Even when we broke up she came circling back every few weeks or so.
Alright I ain't go no mo talkin'
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before the date was even over she like when we hanging out again. Gave her a kiss and she called me beautfiul 
