Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

brehs in here need to understand and be appreciative of all the knowledge and wisdom that is being bestowed upon us. FOR FREE.

There are dating coaches out there laughing all the way to the bank because of dudes that are clueless with women and don't understand the game.

I'm 28 right and now and i'm definitely not the same person i was last year, or the year before that, or the year before that and so on.

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf said it many times....a few years ago, if a woman flaked, he would've given her a second chance, etc. I was like that and i'm sure alot of dudes in here were like that as well.

now, i can smell bullshyt from a nautical mile away and thus calibrate my reaction and emotions. And the result? that woman either comes back to you and fixes up her attitude/behaviour because she realizes you aren't desperate and don't care OR she leaves you alone and you save yourself time, money and a headache.

to all the G's in here.

Yep
I mean I'll give a second chance for a GOOD reason, like my mom was in a car accident or something off that nature but over bs ? yeah right

And yeah man that Basset Hound type snout , theres way to much women out there.
The funny thing is when you call women out on their bs they try and flip it back to you. If you call them out your "angry" or ish

 

[RealAssanova]

Yep
I mean I'll give a second chance for a GOOD reason, like my mom was in a car accident or something off that nature but over bs ? yeah right

And yeah man that Basset Hound type snout , theres way to much women out there.
The funny thing is when you call women out on their bs they try and flip it back to you. If you call them out your "angry" or ish

i never call girls out. Even if i'm smashing. I just tell/show them they being replaced.

had a bird flake on me twice....asked if i was gonna hate her for flaking the night before the date. Told her straight up not at all, i was gonna link up with another broad instead and i did.

never spoke to her again and realized she blocked me on sc like 2 weeks ago.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Had a young Black professional event on Friday where a bunch of people met at a hookah bar.

I'm talking to a bunch of chicks, having a great time but my FWB invited herself so I only got one number on the sly. Found out the girl was from my state and she was a cool 7.5. Pretty face, cool body

Exchanged numbers and she texts me on the spot her name. I text her right there "Dont forget about me"

Sent her a message the next day in the afternoon: "Hey its ____ from ____. I hope you had a good time last night."

No reply. She may have seen me leave with my FWB but Do these bytches have boyfriends? Are they afraid to say they're not interested? On to the next one.

I have had a lot of these recently fam. There was some half Bulgarian half Palestinian girl I met, she was one of those charity street fundraisers and she was working right outside my work, solid 7.5. A couple guys tried to draw her aswell throughout the day but she kept knocking them back, I was watching her all day and she knew I was watching, everytime a nikka tried it with her and failed shed look over at me. Went up to her, spoke to her for abit and she gave me her number, but she didn't reply to my message, i texted twice then I didn't try again. Bumped into her again like 4 weeks later and she tried to stop and chat but I kept it moving, best believe she was all over me after that.

Don't know If you could possibly see these bytches, but everytime it has happened to me recently I have just quickly moved on, then bumped into those same girls later, kept it moving and now they the one texting me.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I've gotten that quite a few times, but I've never ever gone out with a girl who told me that. If they like you, they wanna meet up with you. If they are just looking for validation, via you blowing up their phone, they'll hit you with that line.

Right.

This damn accurate.

A woman that's feeling you will drop everything and take all kinds of risk to see you.

Any other talk is considered excuses.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Good point .. how do I spend as little time on the phone with them as possible before hand though

You don't. Avoid phone conversations bruh. Stick to texting. Save that fire convo for a in person meet, IF, that actually happen.

Don't talk yourself out of the p*ssy.

By my experience, leave as much of you a mystery as possible. Give her bits and pieces. Found out all you can about her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Good point .. how do I spend as little time on the phone with them as possible before hand though

schedule to meet up ASAP.
If I talk to a girl today for the first time im aiming for friday or saturday

 

[John Reena]

I’ll give a chick ONE more chance after a flake.....then it’s bushesssssss

 

[Lord Bison]

I think phone conversations are underrated. I like to have a quick convo just so I can gauge the personality of the woman I'm talking to. Of course you don't wanna be spending hours and hours on the phone with one chick. I can't even begin to tell you how much time and money I've saved by realizing the vibe was off and cutting my losses early.

 

[MikelArteta]

heading out to africa prob next month so im doing my scouting in advance, downloaded tinder and faked my location


a nukka might not come back brehs

 

[finallyjames]

Yup

tdot squad, we out here

 

[Vinny Lupton]

what yall do with
1) a bih that says she dont drink
2) a bih that says she doesnt want to meet at a bar and wants "to go on a real date"
bushes i aint about this spending money to feed strangers. the way i'm casting my wide net I'd go broke so fast

 

[Solano707]

what yall do with
1) a bih that says she dont drink
2) a bih that says she doesnt want to meet at a bar and wants "to go on a real date"
bushes i aint about this spending money to feed strangers. the way i'm casting my wide net I'd go broke so fast

How you meet her? Tinder? If so, coffee shop most definitely

If she want like restaurant type deal... Tell her to go Dutch. Then if you like her and the feeling is mutual, then pony up.

In my experience, most respectable women offered to pay half or even treat. Unless I say let's meet at a restaurant first, I usually opt for Starbucks... Worked so far.

 

[The Message]

what yall do with
1) a bih that says she dont drink
2) a bih that says she doesnt want to meet at a bar and wants "to go on a real date"
bushes i aint about this spending money to feed strangers. the way i'm casting my wide net I'd go broke so fast

1. you can take her to a fly coffee shop or to shoot pool.

2. that's a major red flag.

me? i wouldn't proceed any further. generally, girls who like you are down for whatever bc they're interested in you and not the venue you're taking them to

 

[African_brehda]

You don't. Avoid phone conversations bruh. Stick to texting. Save that fire convo for a in person meet, IF, that actually happen.

Don't talk yourself out of the p*ssy.

By my experience, leave as much of you a mystery as possible. Give her bits and pieces. Found out all you can about her.

then how do you create dat sexual tension via text?

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

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