finallyjames
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I don't know if its me but i'm finding more and more black women that don't even mess with brehs anymore
@Asantehene I wonder if this is a toronto thing
Oh, you from Toronto too b?
I don't know if its me but i'm finding more and more black women that don't even mess with brehs anymore
@Asantehene I wonder if this is a toronto thing
You ain’t lying... like you said back in the day you at least got to physically kick it with the bytch..nikka. You are preaching to the choir right now!
Do you realize how much of this crap I've ran into in the past 6 months?!
It's NEVER been this bad. EVER.
I had a chick recently cross me over, spin move HARD.
I coordinated the entire date the day prior, even scheduled myself to get off work a couple of hours early.
The day come, she hit me with a good morning text. We kickin flava back n forth all day. Around 5pm all communication ceases.
Like you, I requested confirmation around 7pm. I see read, but no reply.
Do you realize how heated I was?!
I was well done my nikka. Smoke whistling out my ears like a teapot.
She hit me up the next day that she fell asleep and her homegirls came into town.
I must've cursed that funky hoe precisely the fukk out. Blocked her.
fukk some AMS shyt. I let ALL my emotions show. fukk that.
What are these chicks problem now a days?
A couple years ago, Every chick I wanted and tried I, at the very least, got them to kick it with me. Haven't anything about me physically has changed. Matter of fact my mouth piece has improved imo.![]()
It's gotten worse?!
It was trash for me years ago, I had to go through so much shyt to bring a chick back to the crib. I had flakes on flakes with excuse on top of excuse.
I got cuffed up right when I was fukkin mad btiches inna row, I was puttin in work then, I got cuffed and said fukk these bytches playing games, then I barely holla'd at bytches because of their games.
Now I realized I have been out the game for a minute and I need to fukk mad bytches.
fukk the bytches that flake and play games.
I will beat them at their own game and succeed.
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It’s funny that you talk about getting cuffed at your peak. It seems like it always happens that way. I got this 23 year old joint in the rotation campaigning HARD trying to cuff a breh. I can’t do it though. Summer is coming and I’m feeling like a boxer in prime condition. Not about to hang the gloves up.
Thing is she didn't really cuff me, I just kept fukkin with her and it became like that basically. Then I lost interest with the games these chicks play and the annoying part of dating.
Before her, I was getting numbers with ease, btiches was giving it up easier, it was finally on easy mode, when I met her I just got lazy and fell into it with her because I was annoyed with games.
But years later I realized I need more bytches to fukk, this cuffin shyt made me lazy, but I can't be like that.
You got advice on getting back into the game after being out for so long? I want to do everything to fukk many bytches starting now.
Well if you’re trying to knock off as many as possible then start by getting in that gym. I’m not sure where you are with that but there’s always somewhere we can improve. It makes initial interactions much easier. Get out and shoot your shot whenever you feel there’s interest there. Even if you get rejected, you’re still polishing up that mouth piece.
If you’re in a major area, hit the apps tinder/bumble/etc. I was really against that but I moved to the UK and there are so many widespread villages and shyt so I had to make an adjustment to my approach. It paid off in a major way for me. I’m not sure how old you are or how long you’ve been on the shelf but understand that the landscape of dating may have changed in a major way since you last took part in it. Adapt and prosper.
Well if you’re trying to knock off as many as possible then start by getting in that gym. I’m not sure where you are with that but there’s always somewhere we can improve. It makes initial interactions much easier. Get out and shoot your shot whenever you feel there’s interest there. Even if you get rejected, you’re still polishing up that mouth piece.
If you’re in a major area, hit the apps tinder/bumble/etc. I was really against that but I moved to the UK and there are so many widespread villages and shyt so I had to make an adjustment to my approach. It paid off in a major way for me. I’m not sure how old you are or how long you’ve been on the shelf but understand that the landscape of dating may have changed in a major way since you last took part in it. Adapt and prosper.
I never did online dating you got any tips?
All these stories of brehs getting flaked on makes me realize that it's not just me out here taking these types of L's. Getting flaked on is a part of the game, always has been but women have gotten worse over the past year or two at this. It's made me realize the only way to play the game is to have no morals, because these broads out here sure don't.
It seems to me more and more men are starting to realize thatis the only way to go from this point forward.
Not really breh. Online dating is an extremely superficial game to be honest. That’s what makes it great for putting up numbers. It’s all about physical attraction. If you get these girls in your presence, you’re already halfway home because you know they’re feeling you on some level. Just don’t talk yourself out of the p*ssy. It’s different for me because I’ve done so much traveling and I’m a little older, 31, so I pretty much feel comfortable in all settings/situations. So when I meet a shorty for the first time I make them feel like we’ve known each other for a long time.
The conversation flows and there’s never really much awkward silence. They relax and feel really comfortable in a short period of time. It all makes closing much easier. That’s why I recommended the gym because it builds your confidence and also makes these chicks pretty much putty in your hands. It’s a win win
YupOh, you from Toronto too b?
nikka. You are preaching to the choir right now!
Do you realize how much of this crap I've ran into in the past 6 months?!
It's NEVER been this bad. EVER.
I had a chick recently cross me over, spin move HARD.
I coordinated the entire date the day prior, even scheduled myself to get off work a couple of hours early.
The day come, she hit me with a good morning text. We kickin flava back n forth all day. Around 5pm all communication ceases.
Like you, I requested confirmation around 7pm. I see read, but no reply.
Do you realize how heated I was?!
I was well done my nikka. Smoke whistling out my ears like a teapot.
She hit me up the next day that she fell asleep and her homegirls came into town.
I must've cursed that funky hoe precisely the fukk out. Blocked her.
fukk some AMS shyt. I let ALL my emotions show. fukk that.
What are these chicks problem now a days?
A couple years ago, Every chick I wanted and tried I, at the very least, got them to kick it with me. Haven't anything about me physically has changed. Matter of fact my mouth piece has improved imo.![]()