Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[J.E.T.S]

Ironically, my ex called me today. Asked how I been n' shyt. I ultimately ended up saying we're no good for each other and we'd only cause each other headaches. I got "you right." then she hung up in my face. I'm sure I'm still blocked, but I ain't calling to find out. I like the way I'm feeling, as if I "won".

 

[Nuke Dukem]

I HAVE A SIMPLE QUESTION


WHEN I GET ON TINDER I NEED TO SET MY DISTANCE TO ABOUT 30 MILES, BECAUSE THATS WHERE THE CITY IS & AND WAAAAAAY MORE WOMEN I’LL MATCH WITH


SO WHEN SETTING UP A DATE WITH A WOMAN WHOS ABOUT 30 miles (40-50 mins depending on traffic)

Would you insist that she meets you half way, or would you make that full 30 mile ride to do a date closer to her if she asked..


What do y’all think ??

 

[DropTopDoc]

I HAVE A SIMPLE QUESTION


WHEN I GET ON TINDER I NEED TO SET MY DISTANCE TO ABOUT 30 MILES, BECAUSE THATS WHERE THE CITY IS & AND WAAAAAAY MORE WOMEN I’LL MATCH WITH


SO WHEN SETTING UP A DATE WITH A WOMAN WHOS ABOUT 30 miles (40-50 mins depending on traffic)

Would you insist that she meets you half way, or would you make that full 30 mile ride to do a date closer to her if she asked..


What do y’all think ??

She probably ain’t trying to come to your city, nikka take your ass to her city and take her out

You one of them nikkas claiming Chicago but live in Joliet or something

 

[Nuke Dukem]

She probably ain’t trying to come to your city, nikka take your ass to her city and take her out

You one of them nikkas claiming Chicago but live in Joliet or something

Yeah I’m in Joliet, I’m not a Goofy, I don’t claim the city..

 

[ISO]

Yeah I’m in Joliet, I’m not a Goofy, I don’t claim the city..

Repping: Windy City

 

[DropTopDoc]

Yeah I’m in Joliet, I’m not a Goofy, I don’t claim the city..

(Looks at city they rep.... Windy City)


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But, yeah if you trying to get some action in the city, you gon have to carry your ass to the city, because ain’t no Chicago chick trying to come to Joliet, and what city or spots is half way between Joliet and Chicago, worth mentioning

 

[Nuke Dukem]

(Looks at city they rep.... Windy City)


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But, yeah if you trying to get some action in the city, you gon have to carry your ass to the city, because ain’t no Chicago chick trying to come to Joliet, and what city or spots is half way between Joliet and Chicago, worth mentioning

I wasn’t born or raised in Joliet so should I still claim it .... fuuuuck Joliet too btw .. dry ass city...

I was just talking to one of my guys n he was telling me “MAN FUUUUCK DOING THAT DRIVE”

This female stays out in evergreen park, I never been out there, idk wtf there is to do out there..


Plus that shyt is like a 40-50 minute drive



I suggested Naperville since they have resturants/bars/ riverwalk (when it’s nice out).. plus that shyt is a good half way point for the both of us..



PLUS when I suggested Naperville, she was saying “are you going to pick me up”... that shyt kind of got me heated , like hold up...

I’m suppose to drive 45 mins to scoop you

Then 30 minutes to Naperville

Then 30 mins back to drop you back off in EP

Then I still have to do my 45 min drive BACK to joliet


So what is that 2.5 hrs worth of driving



I even asked her what’s out by her, she was like “idk not a lot when it’s cold out”... like okay biiiiiitch you’re not even suggesting good shyt to possibly do out by you..


Let me add too.. I did some Goofy shyt like this last summer

I met a bytch that stayed in Harvey and I did the exact shyt y’all are suggesting

Went out by her n when I got out there no one knew what to do so I ended up taking the bytch back out to joliet with me .. never again lol

 

[DropTopDoc]

I wasn’t born or raised in Joliet so should I still claim it .... fuuuuck Joliet too btw .. dry ass city...

I was just talking to one of my guys n he was telling me “MAN FUUUUCK DOING THAT DRIVE”

This female stays out in evergreen park, I never been out there, idk wtf there is to do out there..


Plus that shyt is like a 40-50 minute drive



I suggested Naperville since they have resturants/bars/ riverwalk (when it’s nice out).. plus that shyt is a good half way point for the both of us..



PLUS when I suggested Naperville, she was saying “are you going to pick me up”... that shyt kind of got me heated , like hold up...

I’m suppose to drive 45 mins to scoop you

Then 30 minutes to Naperville

Then 30 mins back to drop you back off in EP

Then I still have to do my 45 min drive BACK to joliet


So what is that 2.5 hrs worth of driving



I even asked her what’s out by her, she was like “idk not a lot when it’s cold out”... like okay biiiiiitch you’re not even suggesting good shyt to possibly do out by you..


Let me add too.. I did some Goofy shyt like this last summer

I met a bytch that stayed in Harvey and I did the exact shyt y’all are suggesting

Went out by her n when I got out there no one knew what to do so I ended up taking the bytch back out to joliet with me .. never again lol

No, you go to the city and tell her meet you at a spot, if she wants you to pick her up, then find a spot and take her, do your research, let me help you (www.thrillist.com)

If you want to expand your net then you gotta pay the cost period, now you can try and bag Naperville broads and keep it out your way

But i remember when i moved back home and used to take my cousins to football practice all the way out in Naperville from Chicago be cussing in my head the whole way, but did it off the love... but still, so you might as well hang it up thinking a Chicago chick coming to the ville or Joliet, unless you put in some major work, or you got your own spot and make a weekend out of it

 

[Nuke Dukem]

No, you go to the city and tell her meet you at a spot, if she wants you to pick her up, then find a spot and take her, do your research, let me help you (www.thrillist.com)

If you want to expand your net then you gotta pay the cost period, now you can try and bag Naperville broads and keep it out your way

But i remember when i moved back home and used to take my cousins to football practice all the way out in Naperville from Chicago be cussing in my head the whole way, but did it off the love... but still, so you might as well hang it up thinking a Chicago chick coming to the ville or Joliet, unless you put in some major work, or you got your own spot and make a weekend out of it

I feel you .. I appreciate the link, I’m for sure gonna use that site..

Let me tell you a story though..

Back in September I posted my photo in a beard group ..


My pic ended up getting 7k likes...

You’re probably thinking so what ..


Well I had a female from from a city about 2 hours west of San Antonio, Texas slide in my inbox...


Two months later she hopped her ass on a plane from San Antonio and linked with me for the weekend in Chicago..


So it’s like damn, a shorty from Texas made a move but the city to the burbs is too much.. that blows my mind lol

I know different situations but damn

 

[Shadow King]

If I ain't going swimming, I gotta accelerate this world building. shyt is getting real and nikkas getting old.

 

[MollyGalaga]

If a woman has had a bf for 10 years but seems to catch an attitude with me for being able to smoothly talk to another girl in front of her then what is her issue? Even the idea of me waking up late in the day with her associating me having a late night seemed to bug her .

She want the dikk i know this too well

 

[MollyGalaga]

nah. i got sick of her bougie shyt

A kid wouldve humbled her ass real quick

 

[MollyGalaga]

"I don't wanna talk on tht level and with you it's not easy because you have been a awesome friend to me and if I date you and we break it would hurt even more because you are one of the greatest people in my life that I don't wanna lose"


and i dont even talk to this bytch anymore

the lies women tell

 

[MollyGalaga]

This chick i used to fw last year always coming bck up
Just let it die damn it

*sigh*

On a bighter note, i might be seeing progress brehs.

this one chick i work with, i could tell she fw me but i just dont know how much. Last time i shot she didnt give me the number ONLY cause she be on n off with her nikka, n he reckless (he used to work with me)
In her words she just want “some peace”
I get it i get it.
Well last night i just talked to her while i was on my lunch
She said some shyt that had me thinking ok maybe they off rn

Ofc we got around to weed n she say she smoke so im like “bet wanna smoke”
She say cool when,
I was like imma get back to her on that.

Today if i see her imma proceed from there

But idk if im ready to deal with a crazy bytch like this
She small but fukking crazy
N idk what her nikka like n id rather not have to shoot a nikka
Thinking i should just fukk first n see how it goes
I mean i think she feeling me but still i have my doubts

 

[ViShawn]

Kinda a basic question but how much contact do you keep in contact with a girl you're seeing? This woman is in her mid 30s, doctor so I know she's busy.

She told me the next few weeks will be hard between work and travel but she will text when I can and she has called me on more than one occasion when she can't see me.

We've already had sex with each other too so I know she's interested...thing is I don't want her to LOSE interest during that time. I also don't want to text her too much either. Thoughts?