Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This, I’m always adding because chicks will eliminate themselves, for whatever reason, so i don’t want to be stuck like chuck, women change like the weather, i anticipate the move on so another gets their spot




Bruh i never really experienced that til i got to Nola, it’s been a couple, i chalk that up to the game, some broads get that big head text, or they playing the field, and you ain’t make the cut, or you don’t do something they like, or the weather changes, whatever, the only time it hurts is if you really wanted to touch that p*ssy, the p*ssy was good, or you actually liked them

yeah
one thing I've been noticing is I dunno if its good or bad but I been developing that foster child mentality, ala a foster child been in so many homes been told all that bs been shipped back to the childrens aid society that he knows regardless of how a "fit" he is, how much that family "loves him" that its not permanent so just enjoy it while it lasts and when it ends :ehh:
 

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Yep in the past for me it didn't matter a thing, chicks would move on when things didn't progress. Or we stopped talking every day, I was usually happy I didn't have to say anything. And moved the next chick into rotation.

Nowadays I make it clear with a chick where I'm coming from. It seems to have made them even more receptive to me like they like that there are no games. We say how we feel and what we want to do.

Had my Korean chick come and spend the night on Friday. I like this chick a lot. But I'm also in my new frame of mind where I don't want to mess her around, floating the idea of a relationship. So both of us have said let's just be honest about what we're doing. Enjoying each others company, going out to the cinema, restaurants and a lot of fukking.

What else happens, happens. Told her I'll be dating other women she said she will be dating people if she likes them. Gives me peace of mind that if she says she's met someone we knew were we stood. Same with me.
 

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Yep in the past for me it didn't matter a thing, chicks would move on when things didn't progress. Or we stopped talking every day, I was usually happy I didn't have to say anything. And moved the next chick into rotation.

Nowadays I make it clear with a chick where I'm coming from. It seems to have made them even more receptive to me like they like that there are no games. We say how we feel and what we want to do.

Had my Korean chick come and spend the night on Friday. I like this chick a lot. But I'm also in my new frame of mind where I don't want to mess her around, floating the idea of a relationship. So both of us have said let's just be honest about what we're doing. Enjoying each others company, going out to the cinema, restaurants and a lot of fukking.

What else happens, happens. Told her I'll be dating other women she said she will be dating people if she likes them. Gives me peace of mind that if she says she's met someone we knew were we stood. Same with me.

you're lucky if it works out for you, chicks always seem to be OK with it for me then after awhile I get the so what are we :beli:
 

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This, I’m always adding because chicks will eliminate themselves, for whatever reason, so i don’t want to be stuck like chuck, women change like the weather, i anticipate the move on so another gets their spot

I don't get how women do it, i mean if im not interested in a chick its just like one word answers and I never hit them up first hoping they get the message but for women I mean literally one day they pouring out their heart to you, next day not even a die slow nukka
 

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Ever lost all your women at once brehs? :wow:

I'm literally down to 1 flakey bullshytter and 1 p*ssy that I don't want. :mjcry:

Something has to change. I almost called up a ugly girl last night. I was on hard... sitting in the house eating taco bell alone. :mjgrin:

I'm blocked by my exes now. Can't even call them. Lol

For the first time in a while ... I'm alone. Wtf.

Not exactly but what happened was my whole rotation all 8 of em showed up in same club on some def jams how to be a player
Now they all knew what was up wasn’t exclusive to any of em just doing my thing and they had to earn that right to tie me down to make their man.

What happened was as I saw them come in a diff times and i convo and dance with each diff ones I was like man shyt I’m deep as the spurs bench this shyt ain’t even worth it
So I ended up :camby: all of em except 2 and that same night added a new one :mjgrin:

How they felt I didn’t really care just said we ain’t clicking enough gotta cut u basically but we can still be coo as friends

Most stayed that way other ones were like I can do better tip I was like :manny:

Either way lesson was well I had the power and wasn’t shyt they could do bout it cuz I was up front get go no bs no games so they knew what was up and what could happen too which was why so Many stayed cool and ended up hooking me up with their friend later down the line cuz didn’t burn no bridges
 

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you're lucky if it works out for you, chicks always seem to be OK with it for me then after awhile I get the so what are we :beli:

Oh I'm waiting for that at some point. It's inevitable in any situation where a woman is opening her mind and body to you sexually. But I'm hoping me and her can be grown up about this.

We shall see.
 

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I don't get how women do it, i mean if im not interested in a chick its just like one word answers and I never hit them up first hoping they get the message but for women I mean literally one day they pouring out their heart to you, next day not even a die slow nukka

It ain’t for you to know, it is what it is man, you been than drove your self crazy trying to figure it out
 

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yeah
one thing I've been noticing is I dunno if its good or bad but I been developing that foster child mentality, ala a foster child been in so many homes been told all that bs been shipped back to the childrens aid society that he knows regardless of how a "fit" he is, how much that family "loves him" that its not permanent so just enjoy it while it lasts and when it ends :ehh:


That’s one way to look at it, but it will make you cynical, obviously don’t go head first into any relationship, but don’t live your life thinking one day the other shoe will drop, and time for a new one
 

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Brehs I'm not going to lie. This me 2 movement and man bashing in general effecting me.
It started four months ago when I was smashing this chick. I made it clear that we are only fukking and we are just fukk buddies.
She agreed and said it was cool. The thing was she would always messaged me or would stay for a while after fukking.
It was clear she liked me wayy more than I liked her. So with all this movement and guys need to respect women as actual human beings and not just sex shyt.
I was feeling like an a$$hole. But its like fukk I would ask her could we do things, she agreed on the status of this situation, and we both were sober throughout all this so its like why am I still feeling like a piece of shyt?

Society always been trying to portray people who love fukking with no strings attached in a negative life. Men are always pigs and pieces of shyt and women are hoes and sluts. shyt is just worse now.

There are so many fukking rules to this now.

They be like ask her so you don't get in trouble but then sometimes the dude does and it still turns sour because he asked in the first place. It's like how do you fukking know?!?!

shyt is killing me because I need to get some its been forever. I have this gut feeling I can smash this girl in my class but its like

It could just be her being nice to me because being nice does not = shes down to fukk. But its like I wont know if I don't try its either:

she says no and I'm a piece of shyt trying to smash her instead of taking it as a compliment I'd be down to smash with her

or

she says yes and we do start some shyt but I'm a piece of shyt since I'm smashing a girl from my class who I will never most likely see ever again.


shyt is a struggle out here that I bet older heads didnt worry about when they were young.
 

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Yep in the past for me it didn't matter a thing, chicks would move on when things didn't progress. Or we stopped talking every day, I was usually happy I didn't have to say anything. And moved the next chick into rotation.

Nowadays I make it clear with a chick where I'm coming from. It seems to have made them even more receptive to me like they like that there are no games. We say how we feel and what we want to do.

Had my Korean chick come and spend the night on Friday. I like this chick a lot. But I'm also in my new frame of mind where I don't want to mess her around, floating the idea of a relationship. So both of us have said let's just be honest about what we're doing. Enjoying each others company, going out to the cinema, restaurants and a lot of fukking.

What else happens, happens. Told her I'll be dating other women she said she will be dating people if she likes them. Gives me peace of mind that if she says she's met someone we knew were we stood. Same with me.

stds.
 

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I don't get how women do it, i mean if im not interested in a chick its just like one word answers and I never hit them up first hoping they get the message but for women I mean literally one day they pouring out their heart to you, next day not even a die slow nukka

anything a woman says to you, remember, that is how she feels at that moment. the real Gs take full advantage of the iron while it is hot. others dont realize the advantage until it is gone.

if a woman says she loves u, its because of how u were acting up until that point. most men (those who were putting on a show), fall back to their real selves thinking "well, ive got her now. she says she loves me", now i can pour out my soul to her and tell her all my fears, worries and concerns. but just as she fell in love with you, she can easily fall out as well if you change ur pattern of behavior.

if when u met her, u were on ur G and were on ur masculine energy, u must keep that "charade" on throughout your dealings with her. there are some morons that say "be yourself". nah. if urself aint getting u puccy u want, be that other n1gga that gets the puccy. if u must act, act. act so much ur act becomes u. u only get to live once. live that life ur living the best way u want and if that means "not being urself in order to get the puccy u want", then, n1gga, so be it
 

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It blows my mind on how easy it is to get buttnaked flicks from chicks.

I literally said “What up?” to some Asian chick on my TL on Twitter. Basic convo. Next thing u know, she dm’n me pics of her titties n p*ssy/bootyhole.

This goes for a lot of chicks I just follow cuz they avy look good.

shyt crazy

:lolbron:
Post her bootyhole creh
Unless you in love :mjpls:
 

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Anyone else deal with chicks that can't cook?

:francis:

So the Chilean chick I met up with the other night. Asks me if I want to have dinner with her sunday. I ask her what are you cooking? She tells me she's a terrible cook. So it would be takeout.

This chick is so damm sexy but that would definitely take her off any long term things. How are you almost 30 and can't cook for yourself much less a partner or friends? I know way too many women who are on this flex. She's lucky she looks good. For now this chicks t*ts, body and sex game will get me to look the other way.

In contrast my bad little Korean chick cooked me dinner last Friday and it was wow. I was thinking to myself, you doing it like this? spicy crispy chicken legs and wings and Asian fusion cooking.
Had a South American ting that couldn't cook. Her parents were rich and they didn't want her cooking her own meals or some shyt. Snobby and expensive but she was a lil freak with a IG model body
 

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anything a woman says to you, remember, that is how she feels at that moment. the real Gs take full advantage of the iron while it is hot. others dont realize the advantage until it is gone.

if a woman says she loves u, its because of how u were acting up until that point. most men (those who were putting on a show), fall back to their real selves thinking "well, ive got her now. she says she loves me", now i can pour out my soul to her and tell her all my fears, worries and concerns. but just as she fell in love with you, she can easily fall out as well if you change ur pattern of behavior.

if when u met her, u were on ur G and were on ur masculine energy, u must keep that "charade" on throughout your dealings with her. there are some morons that say "be yourself". nah. if urself aint getting u puccy u want, be that other n1gga that gets the puccy. if u must act, act. act so much ur act becomes u. u only get to live once. live that life ur living the best way u want and if that means "not being urself in order to get the puccy u want", then, n1gga, so be it


I've had to learn this the hard way :snoop:


Girls really changed up so quickly
 
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