Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

One thing I 've notice is escalating the situation cuts out a lot bullshyt.

Make concrete plans with her and give her insturctions. If she follows through she's golden if not KIM.

Dudes (myself included) Have to stop entertaining wishy washy women, that like the attention, but don't want to earn it (by being cooperative)

Yeah Ive found this to mill through a lot of bs. Dangle the carrot, if they grab it cool if not KIM. But guessing over what she feeling is a waste of time. I have no compulsion to do that ever again

 

[RealAssanova]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf i went from having too many women to handle last month to 0 now. Lost the last one i thought i vibed with after i got no reply. That 1 week vacation online dating site/apps women absolute WOAT.
got it in with a former coworker last night though.

EDIT: She responded sayin not this weekend cuz its her cousins last weekend here..but anytime after that is good.

shorty relegated and she gonne have to wait now.

 

[MikelArteta]

Going through the same now just have 1 but I feel the one itis starting to kick in and have to dead it.

I know what you mean with dating apps etc literally feels like your begging etc. And these girls ain't even all that, when you send a message and she views your profile but doesn't message you back

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf i went from having too many women to handle last month to 0 now. Lost the last one i thought i vibed with after i got no reply. That 1 week vacation online dating site/apps women absolute WOAT.
got it in with a former coworker last night though.

EDIT: She responded sayin not this weekend cuz its her cousins last weekend here..but anytime after that is good.

shorty relegated and she gonne have to wait now.

 

[Shadow King]

That you're an adult heterosexual male?

Not when you say no and they find it unbelievable. This is both genders doing this shyt.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Not when you say no and they find it unbelievable. This is both genders doing this shyt.

. Because you're an adult heterosexual male.

As much as we make jokes about #UglyTeam, most people are gonna assume you at least get a girl every now and then unless you're deformed, you smell bad, or you're a creeper.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

1i2utr 21st rj

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Gotta figure out to break my shell. I get attention from women. The last two days especially, including this morning, I had one purposely stand next to me on the train. Her attempt at flirting/getting my attention wasn't good at all. I personally had a bad experience trying to talk to someone on the train I usually rebuff those. There's one woman I always see on my morning commute because we live around thebcornth from each other. Just don't want to make that awkward as well.

Start with a compliment..

Chicks with dyed hair color or some dope kicks are easy.

 

[Shadow King]

. Because you're an adult heterosexual male.

As much as we make jokes about #UglyTeam, most people are gonna assume you at least get a girl every now and then unless you're deformed, you smell bad, or you're a creeper.

Getting a girl every now and then is different than having a girlfriend or even further "I know you got hoes" but aight.

 

[StretfordRed]

I met a really nice woman on Sunday for the first time off Okcupid. We got on really well, had a nice time a nice passionate kiss at the end of the date. She's really stunning and I got paranoid thinking she's gonna get scooped by some Chad type breh in no time (online dating profile and self confidence thing).

So we go out on Valentines Day, not for day but just for the fact it was our next free day. We have a good time again, but I go and kiss her again and she has an odd look on her face after like

So I asked her what was up and long story short, her ex led her on for 8 months and she said she gave up a lot and he bailed out as he didn't want to commit. He's an idiot as far as I can see.

But she said its only been a week and she's scared about how she feels already and is keeping her guard up in case I hurt her. But I don't want it to mean she gets distant - as man don't do chasing

I know common sense is to chill and wait, but mans thinking about the whole online situation. She hasn't been online since we had our first date (I checked once) and she says she really likes me and we planned our next date already. So maybe I need to just trust the process and chillax as its so early

So we talked on the phone last night and the weirdest thing is that we both admitted having the same issues with each other

She said she was overwhelmed about how much she liked me in such a short time and is scared to let her guard down - she got burnt by a breh last year who didn't want to commit after 8 months (red flags?).

I told her I'm a little prang as my ex and I got on like a house on fire at the beginning and she got shook about commitment and then left London for work - that kinda stung me and left me a bit raw and gave zero fukks about chicks after that.

So we taking it super slow. Both stopped talking to people on okcupid. I blitzed my Tinder account and will just concentrate on her.

Weirdly we began talking on Okcupid because we're going to be in the same foreign country in a few weeks time. So first time I buss her down maybe abroad

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Well that didnt work out well. However i got another chick to call me daddy send me a p*ssy pic
And tell me its mine. And i can put the dikk in her while shes asleep to wake her up. But shes a virgin .So am i training her to be a freak?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

So we talked on the phone last night and the weirdest thing is that we both admitted having the same issues with each other

She said she was overwhelmed about how much she liked me in such a short time and is scared to let her guard down - she got burnt by a breh last year who didn't want to commit after 8 months (red flags?).

I told her I'm a little prang as my ex and I got on like a house on fire at the beginning and she got shook about commitment and then left London for work - that kinda stung me and left me a bit raw and gave zero fukks about chicks after that.

So we taking it super slow. Both stopped talking to people on okcupid. I blitzed my Tinder account and will just concentrate on her.

Weirdly we began talking on Okcupid because we're going to be in the same foreign country in a few weeks time. So first time I buss her down maybe abroad

Breh, stop now. Stop what you're doing

Quit talking about relationships and commitment with a woman that you've only been on 2 dates with, or you're gonna scare her off.

This chic is looking to have fun. That's it.

If you keep letting the conversation get on relationships, insecurity, and etc etc, then you're not going to be talking to her for long

These conversations are way too serious and deep for it to only be your 2nd date...

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Gotta stay grinding and focused for that military date. Judo on Saturday

 

[StretfordRed]

Breh, stop now. Stop what you're doing

Quit talking about relationships and commitment with a woman that you've only been on 2 dates with, or you're gonna scare her off.

This chic is looking to have fun. That's it.

If you keep letting the conversation get on relationships, insecurity, and etc etc, then you're not going to be talking to her for long

These conversations are way too serious and deep for it to only be your 2nd date...

I didn't mention relationships.
I even said we're both going to take it slow

But that's the whole point of my posts. We both said we find it incredibly weird we felt blessed with each other already

She aint getting scared. I wish I could posts the texts but thats a bit too OTT

 

[Solano707]

Well that didnt work out well. However i got another chick to call me daddy send me a p*ssy pic
And tell me its mine. And i can put the dikk in her while shes asleep to wake her up. But shes a virgin .So am i training her to be a freak?

she's not a virgin and she's playing with your mind...

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I didn't mention relationships.
I even said we're both going to take it slow

But that's the whole point of my posts. We both said we find it incredibly weird we felt blessed with each other already

She aint getting scared. I wish I could posts the texts but thats a bit too OTT

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