Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had an incident over the weekend, was drink driving & hit someone's car at the traffic light. There was no damage on either cars. Indian breh still wanted to call the police, I got in my car & drove away quickly.

Went to hide out at a girl I used to date about 2 years ago. The original reason why we broke was she wanted get married but I couldnt see myself dating a single mother. Damn brehs, she has stepped up her game, got a good job, nice house, real good girl, basically my dream woman. Am I being silly giving up on a good woman becuz she has a child? Help brehs,

U drinking and driving like that she don’t need that shyt and don’t deserve it
Single moms are not that bad only on the coli they make it seem like they are I dated more single moms than none and most had stabilized jobs better than ones who didn’t have kids
A lot seemed more mature or didn’t beat around the bush cuz they ain’t got time for it either
 

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This Filipino chick I was talking to just texted me to tell me she has a new 'situation'. But hopes me and her can stay 'connected'. Now I haven't even met this woman. Just started talking to her causally last week. I was like sure. I erred on her last week tbh. She seems a bit too into black guys where it crosses over into weird validation stuff from her. And she keeps talking about how she doesn't like 'drama' and 'fake' people. Which are red alert signs for any man with sense. That this woman is a high level attention seeker.

I peeped her IG and it's hella brehs and wiggas in her comments. Blowing loveheart faces and talking semi reckless. She's cool and creative but I could see the drama that would have been coming dating her properly. I wish her new man luck.

Although I guarantee I get a booty call text from her in the next few weeks. You get with a new man everyone you were chatting with should be aired. Not leaving text lines to pick up at another time.



:russ: :shaq:
 

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By all means if I'm in a relationship I won't have a roster.

But I'm single, why limit myself.

I don't want to be in a relationship at the moment, im not lying to these chicks or anything if they get to the what are we I tell them, I enjoy spending time with you and it would suck If we can't anymore.

Exactly how I'm moving. Although I had a roster whilst I was in a relationship. :wow:

I've just mutually parted with my main. And I'm now properly single and free to explore canada, The options that are laid out are magnificent. I have no want to jump into any new relationship quickly. Just enjoy myself, work on my career and health and meet good like minded female company once in a while.
 

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I'm in Canada as well
Being black 30 plus and single as a man your winning

Exactly how I'm moving. Although I had a roster whilst I was in a relationship. :wow:

I've just mutually parted with my main. And I'm now properly single and free to explore canada, The options that are laid out are magnificent. I have no want to jump into any new relationship quickly. Just enjoy myself, work on my career and health and meet good like minded female company once in a while.
 

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I aint got the time or patience for a roster lol. 94% of the chicks out here unscrupously as hell why would I want all that bad juju at my doorstep. 2-3 at most.


Embarassing but my on again off again ex gave the kid chlamidiya :scusthov: Had a new girl i was hitting get it from me and she told me and I was just embarrassed beyond words. I knew it had to be her because other than neck never hit anyone else in the past like 3 years except with no condom. Its just really enlightening tbh. The chick I considered some type of misunderstood angel was just another lost thot out here throwing the shyt to anyone :snoop: . Whole situation fukked me up for a few weeks because I kept fighting myself not to tell her but I didn't want her being infertile cuz of me not saying nothing so I did and deleted/blocked her so my conscious is good. Lesson learned, always strap up period. Can't trust even "mains" out here specially when ya'll on some break up to make up shyt constantly.

I got to move smarter in 2018. My vigor to pursue chicks had dissipated after this for a minute.
 

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I aint got the time or patience for a roster lol. 94% of the chicks out here unscrupously as hell why would I want all that bad juju at my doorstep. 2-3 at most.


Embarassing but my on again off again ex gave the kid chlamidiya :scusthov: Had a new girl i was hitting get it from me and she told me and I was just embarrassed beyond words. I knew it had to be her because other than neck never hit anyone else in the past like 3 years except with no condom. Its just really enlightening tbh. The chick I considered some type of misunderstood angel was just another lost thot out here throwing the shyt to anyone :snoop: . Whole situation fukked me up for a few weeks because I kept fighting myself not to tell her but I didn't want her being infertile cuz of me not saying nothing so I did and deleted/blocked her so my conscious is good. Lesson learned, always strap up period. Can't trust even "mains" out here specially when ya'll on some break up to make up shyt constantly.

I got to move smarter in 2018. My vigor to pursue chicks had dissipated after this for a minute.


I feel you man. I smashed my ex raw after she had been doing god knows what living in ATL. I thank the Lord that the only thing I had was chlamidiya.

Just pop that pill breh and in one week you back in the game :blessed:

But as you should know, protect yourself :ufdup:
 

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I feel you man. I smashed my ex raw after she had been doing god knows what living in ATL. I thank the Lord that the only thing I had was chlamidiya.

Just pop that pill breh and in one week you back in the game :blessed:

But as you should know, protect yourself :ufdup:

oh its already gone i got that shyt squared away asap and i'm clean on err thing else but it spooked the fukk out of me and fukked up what I had going on with a real cool ass chick on top of it :snoop:
 

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I aint got the time or patience for a roster lol. 94% of the chicks out here unscrupously as hell why would I want all that bad juju at my doorstep. 2-3 at most.


Embarassing but my on again off again ex gave the kid chlamidiya :scusthov: Had a new girl i was hitting get it from me and she told me and I was just embarrassed beyond words. I knew it had to be her because other than neck never hit anyone else in the past like 3 years except with no condom. Its just really enlightening tbh. The chick I considered some type of misunderstood angel was just another lost thot out here throwing the shyt to anyone :snoop: . Whole situation fukked me up for a few weeks because I kept fighting myself not to tell her but I didn't want her being infertile cuz of me not saying nothing so I did and deleted/blocked her so my conscious is good. Lesson learned, always strap up period. Can't trust even "mains" out here specially when ya'll on some break up to make up shyt constantly.

I got to move smarter in 2018. My vigor to pursue chicks had dissipated after this for a minute.

chlamydia is nothing, one pill and your straight.

My cheating ex years ago give me trichomonis, chlamydia and gonorrhea, awaiting the hiv test was the toughest part.

but yeah strap up not only the risk of pregnancy, you have no idea who else cock these women are sucking
 

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oh its already gone i got that shyt squared away asap and i'm clean on err thing else but it spooked the fukk out of me and fukked up what I had going on with a real cool ass chick on top of it :snoop:

man if my pee hole wasn't itching and i wasn't peeing razor blades i never would have known
thank God for symptoms
 

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chlamydia is nothing, one pill and your straight.

My cheating ex years ago give me trichomonis, chlamydia and gonorrhea, awaiting the hiv test was the toughest part.

but yeah strap up not only the risk of pregnancy, you have no idea who else cock these women are sucking
Lord yeah. Looking back my peen was itching a lil after I hit but I threw some baby powder on it and attributed it to not ahowering that morning.

At least thats all she gave me fukk
 

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oh its already gone i got that shyt squared away asap and i'm clean on err thing else but it spooked the fukk out of me and fukked up what I had going on with a real cool ass chick on top of it :snoop:


this is why i chuckle to myself when i hear dudes feeling proud about having a roster. a roster to me personally means ur sharing bodily fluids with multiple people. and if u think u have a roster, and ur a guy, imagine how many guys the girls ur fuccking have on their roster. if the girl looks good, u really think ur the only one she's fuccking? so 3 girls times 2 (lets assume each girl on ur roster has 2 guys shes fuccking). now that's 6 people u just introduced into ur life. add to that with the girls those guys are fuccking. do u see how immature the concept of having a roster is?

even making out with a girl alone has me feeling paranoid hours after the deed. let alone actually fuccking her.

its kind of a conundrum because if u dont have a roster, u cant be on point with game. but if u have a roster, u run the very high risk of contracting something. it boils down to how important is ur health to you.

a few weeks ago i met a girl i really liked. tall and thick in the right places. her ass was perfect. her thighs was next level. not soft. but straight up thick. yeah, after we fuccked, i remember asking her when the last time was that she had sex. she said the previous week. instantly, that rubbed me the wrong way. i couldnt get past that. this is a girl thats out there just throwing it out to anyone she likes. and to make it even worse, the last dude was some one from her job. needless to say, i had to cut that off by telling her her puccy stinks (to which she didnt take too kindly to).

yall be careful out there.
 
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this is why i chuckle to myself when i hear dudes feeling proud about having a roster. a roster to me personally means ur sharing bodily fluids with multiple people. and if u think u have a roster, and ur a guy, imagine how many guys the girls ur fuccking have on their roster. if the girl looks good, u really think ur the only one she's fuccking? so 3 girls times 2 (lets assume each girl on ur roster has 2 guys shes fuccking). now that's 6 people u just introduced into ur life. add to that with the guys those girls are fuccking. do u see how immature the concept of having a roster is?

even making out with a girl alone has me feeling paranoid hours after the deed. let alone actually fuccking her.

its kind of a conundrum because if u dont have a roster, u cant be on point with game. but if u have a roster, u run the very high risk of contracting something. it boils down to how important is ur health to you.

a few weeks ago i met a girl i really liked. tall and thick in the right places. her ass was perfect. her thighs was next level. not soft. but straight up thick. yeah, after we fuccked, i remember asking her when the last time was that she had sex. she said the previous week. instantly, that rubbed me the wrong way. i couldnt get past that. this is a girl thats out there just throwing it out to anyone she likes. and to make it even worse, the last dude was some one from her job. needless to say, i had to cut that off by telling her her puccy stinks (to which she didnt take too kindly to).

yall be careful out there.

It is a conundrum. My game has gotten tight enough where if I girl is into me just a bit I can raise that attraction to fukking date 2. hell I got my first time getting first date coo a few months ago because I followed corey wayne 2-3 dates in one night shyt to a tee and got cheeks pretty effortlessly. Its a lot of power tbh, and at this point I'm almost like I want to take shyt slow. But if you do that in 2018 girls with there endless supply of dikk are gonna put you on the backburner and you could miss a easy layup. Its wild what actually obtaining "great" game does for you confidence wise, but it also opens your eyes to just how loose pretty girls are with the cooch.

as far as wanting to have a harem. Yeah seems ego driven and childish. 2-3 at most. and even thats a lot of effort if you using them for anything beyond ass. a man trying to be amount his business can't really focus on more than several women imo.
 

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So I got this girl number because we in a group and we had to exchange info.
But before we been chatting every class.
So I text her before class today. We texted back and forth about what we had to do in class today.
I don't reply back. I text her later and she sent me two very short responses.

And for some reason my gut feeling told me right then and there to stop texting her.
A homie of mine said the other day we have these gut feelings for a reason trust them.
So I said nah I can't continue to text her at least until I conversate with her more in person.


I just wanted to get this off my chest.
 

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im in a junkyard
kno what im sayin?

yea...theres a couple ok ones considering how many drivers there were and how tha car was mantained...still gon have to put work in it.

tha fukk is tha point when its all said and done.

its as if a super ho switch turned on as soon as it turned 2018.
 
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