Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I thought I was eating well in my twenties but brehs, ive been single for almost a year now and back in the "dating" game for prob like 5 months, and the surplus of educated, in shape, no kids, careers, beautiful black woman I've cavorted with is :mindblown:
Dang I hope that is me when I'm done with this doctorate program. I'm just focusing to get my shyt together. Finishing this program,get in shape so I can reach my potential. You are truly living the life us young black men want to live.
 

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Just moved to England. Been here for almost a week now. Getting myself situated before I jump back into the game. Picked up a car and now I need to find a house. Once that’s done, it’s time to hunt.

Met this cool shorty from Denmark my last night in Portugal. She was there for a quick trip with her friend. Funny thing is they were kinda competing with each other to get at me. I had to go with the thick one though :russ: Knocked it down a few times and she said she wants me to come out to Copenhagen to see her after she finishes exams.
 

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Man I used to think these old heads and dudes were lying but it's true.

A whole new world opens up.

Especially as a black man

Dang I hope that is me when I'm done with this doctorate program. I'm just focusing to get my shyt together. Finishing this program,get in shape so I can reach my potential. You are truly living the life us young black men want to live.
 

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So I got this girl number because we in a group and we had to exchange info.
But before we been chatting every class.
So I text her before class today. We texted back and forth about what we had to do in class today.
I don't reply back. I text her later and she sent me two very short responses.

And for some reason my gut feeling told me right then and there to stop texting her.
A homie of mine said the other day we have these gut feelings for a reason trust them.
So I said nah I can't continue to text her at least until I conversate with her more in person.


I just wanted to get this off my chest.
If you can't trust yourself... who can you trust?:sas2:

You're at college, there are hundreds of attractive women you don't have the time to be worrying about women. You should just take it easy, text her, and if you fukk up put it down as reference and KIM.
 

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I started congratulating myself for approaching whenever I approach, I'm probably brainwashing myself but I find my energy is a lot smoother instead of being excited after a conversation goes well and I get the number or down when I run into a woman having a bad day.

Put simply no one cares whether you go out there and make things happen so you have to care beyond going up and approaching. It's got to be fun or at least interesting in my experience, especially when you get to the point where you've heard "so what do you do?" "what's your name again?" "where do I know you from?" hundreds of times.
 

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Just moved to England. Been here for almost a week now. Getting myself situated before I jump back into the game. Picked up a car and now I need to find a house. Once that’s done, it’s time to hunt.

Met this cool shorty from Denmark my last night in Portugal. She was there for a quick trip with her friend. Funny thing is they were kinda competing with each other to get at me. I had to go with the thick one though :russ: Knocked it down a few times and she said she wants me to come out to Copenhagen to see her after she finishes exams.
What made you move England and she a pawg ?
 

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Yo this shyt is really crazy, I feel like I gotta play Bobby Fisher chess just to get p*ssy these days :deadrose:

Just tried to pull up on this one chick I knew, messed with her in the past but never fukked, and now I'm getting curved for regular dates for drinks :dead:

#Nop*ssy2018 is really a reality :beli:

fukk it, I give up. :hubie:

10 year dry spell starts now. We'll see how the game goes when I'm 34. :yeshrug:
 

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Broke up with my gf of almost 3 years(pretty sure I posted about our first date in this thread)

Finally out here meeting new women and brehs, THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER. I don’t care how good your girl is. There is someone who is freakier, more confident, more stable, a better cook, wetter p*ssy, etc.

I already found a women comparable in appearance, but none of the flaws my ex had. She can’t cook for shyt, but the box is sweeter, she rolls beautiful joints, she is succssful( for a 24 year old), and she has morals.


This is why you should never be afraid to drop a chick if you need to.


 

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Treat women like a job mindset no matter what your making now I guarantee if you look hard and long enough you can find a better job

Broke up with my gf of almost 3 years(pretty sure I posted about our first date in this thread)

Finally out here meeting new women and brehs, THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER. I don’t care how good your girl is. There is someone who is freakier, more confident, more stable, a better cook, wetter p*ssy, etc.

I already found a women comparable in appearance, but none of the flaws my ex had. She can’t cook for shyt, but the box is sweeter, she rolls beautiful joints, she is succssful( for a 24 year old), and she has morals.


This is why you should never be afraid to drop a chick if you need to.

 

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That chick I mentioned before who I found I wasnt even saved in her phone hit me up, how we're not in a good place. The other day I she gave her a compliment in regards to her knowledge in soccer saying that wow your knowledge in soccer makes you extremely sexy and if i have to say one of your best qualities. She got offended @trick . She said she expects an apology for us to continue talking :mjpls:

I told her apology for what :russ:, you should be apologizing to me.
 

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That chick I mentioned before who I found I wasnt even saved in her phone hit me up, how we're not in a good place. The other day I she gave her a compliment in regards to her knowledge in soccer saying that wow your knowledge in soccer makes you extremely sexy and if i have to say one of your best qualities. She got offended @trick . She said she expects an apology for us to continue talking :mjpls:

I told her apology for what :russ:, you should be apologizing to me.

:dead: what's wrong with these women

can't take a compliment, expects an apology for an non issue

i avoided white girls because this is the behaviour i expected from white women, now i gotta watch out for asian women too

warning signs were there though: listened to cac indie music, dyed hair and tattoos, talked down about Chinese food, kept complaining about how unhealthy it was :camby:
 
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