Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Been talking and chilling with this girl for a while. I asked her a question and she screen shot a earlier convo saying I already asked her this.

In that screen shot I noticed she doesn't even have me as a saved phone contact

meh. wouldnt read too much into it unless ur starting to like her more than she likes u.
in any case, ive been notorious for not saving chicks numbers. not for any reason other than laziness. or forgetfulness.

 

[twan83]

gotta stop puttin these hoes on a pedestal and thinking that because a girl is really attractive, that i somehow gotta approach her differently.

fukks up my whole vibe/demeanor and ultimately the date aswell. Makes me come off as nervous and a nice/sweet guy.

I treat a really attractive female same way any other one idgaf how good looking she is shyt don’t fly with me sometimes I even knock them down several notches to make sure they think they ain’t superior or they shyt don’t stink be like I can get more from just ur average female than a female full of herself use to guys doing everything for her cause I sure as hell won’t

 

[RealAssanova]

I treat a really attractive female same way any other one idgaf how good looking she is shyt don’t fly with me sometimes I even knock them down several notches to make sure they think they ain’t superior or they shyt don’t stink be like I can get more from just ur average female than a female full of herself use to guys doing everything for her cause I sure as hell won’t

its not even them fam. Its me.

i'm like this attractive girl is down to link up so instead of treating em like i how usually treat regular girls....i start doin/thinkin shyt outta my element.

that fact coupled with coffee dates is the quickest way to not get a second date/get friendzoned.

 

[BadBoy]

one of the undergrad senior students I tutored (teaching assistant for some of you) last year in my college emailed me today on some "hey, since im officially not your student anymore, how about we grab coffee sometime" and left her number for me.

I aint even know one of them girls in that course was checking the boi out.



She aint ugly, just a regular thick 6 ...so you know I cant say no to that




EDIT: I can tell she was nervous too cause she sent the same email twice with a few adjectives tweaked in a space of 2 hours. Like I said, 2018 bout to be eat good season for me and my hairline damn near fixed while my lil afro is growing

She a pawg?

 

[George Gooney]

I'm of mixed feelings about that post.

1. she did try to pull a fast one. when a girl gets up to run to the bathroom around the time that the bill gets there, that's a very, very clear sign to let you know she aint sh1t. she coulda said to ol boy, do u want me to pitch in? or not even ask at all and just put money down. that's some shady sh1t for any one to do. i mean, if a guy takes u to a restaurant and ur out there ordering whatever u want, knowing damn well you have no intentions of paying, that's evil.

2. second, theres some blame for the OP in this story. he shoulda just sucked this up and paid this once. and next date should have been at his house. and if she comes up with some sh1t like "I'm not comfortable coming to ur house yet", then, he should know what time it is and this chick is just looking for someone to use. and bush her fast.

3. going on dinner dates is not something that I particularly frown upon. its worked many times. but i personally feel a chick should only get one of those before y'all fucck. some don't even need that one dinner date. they can just come to your house or have drinks or something low-key before hand.

and u can tell a lot about a chick from a dinner date. if she orders a lot or gives no damn about the food she's ordering, and when the bill comes she doesn't offer to pay, then, again, back to point 1, u know this chick is evil. and by evil, i mean, this is the type of chick that will justify taking all ur sh1t in the event u find yourself married to her or have a kid by her and y'all break up. she will take all ur sh1t and justify it in her mind that "if the law says its ok, then, its ok. its mine".

the OP definitely made the situation ugly and awkward. and i decided to post this because he says he got 2 other chicks to fall back on. if he doesn't know how to handle these awkward situations, he'll fucck up those other two. @George Gooney move with care.

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[George Gooney]

:damndamn:this bullshyt right here is the reason why i dont EVER go on dates. Its either we meet up at bar to get drinks or she come over to my place and we have a home cooked meal. Either that or she getting tossed to the bushesView media item 15466

Ohhhh This is why my notifications are blowing up? Over a four year old post? lol It's crazy bruh. That was one of the worst dates I've ever been on. You wanna know how these chicks ain't shyt? That same chick saw me on a date a few weeks later with one of the other girls I mentioned, got jealous and tried to get back on my good side. I G checked her for trynna play me, made her come to the crib to cook me a meal and fukked the shyt out of her, THEN bushed her for good. Met my baby momma shortly after.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Ohhhh This is why my notifications are blowing up? Over a four year old post? lol It's crazy bruh. That was one of the worst dates I've ever been on. You wanna know how these chicks ain't shyt? That same chick saw me on a date a few weeks later with one of the other girls I mentioned, got jealous and tried to get back on my good side. I G checked her for trynna play me, made her come to the crib to cook me a meal and fukked the shyt out of her, THEN bushed her for good. Met my baby momma shortly after.

 

[The Frozen One]

i've been fukk buddies with this girl for a few months but i'm starting to get bored and she's starting (if not already) catch feelings.

Actually, i'm sure she's caught feelings cause she's calling me baby and shyt like and i really don't like it cause we're only fukk buddies.

When we started this shyt, we both agreed we're not looking for relationships and that this is only a fukk buddy thing so it's not like i've been leading her the wrong way.

So what's the best way of dipping? Cause even though i don't give a fukk about her , my conscious won't let me just ghost her and feel bad about the situation.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yo se no pertinente pero

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

its not even them fam. Its me.

i'm like this attractive girl is down to link up so instead of treating em like i how usually treat regular girls....i start doin/thinkin shyt outta my element.

that fact coupled with coffee dates is the quickest way to not get a second date/get friendzoned.

If you cant go and get coffee with a bytch then she might not be worth your time tbh. Esp for how much they love coffee. Idk what else theyd want.

 

[BadBoy]

How i go at getting at this white jawn who i had a class with back in high school.. i see she problack now and loves to dance (not the strippin kind) i only have her ig n Facebook ps she only 22

 

[bucks3115]

my friend name is david
last nite david gf went out with her friends to chill with two guyz at the mall
its was the friends who call her to come bcz there was guy
so she came back with some bags , i mean shopping bags at home
david saw that and was furious , she said its was her friend who ask her to go
she told david that he shouldnt be mad and shouldnt take it seriously

what wuld you have done in that situation ?
maybe she like her bf , but since those dude wanted to spend she let them spend and wont do shyt with them

WHAT Y ALL THINK ?

 

[Ohene]

I'm of mixed feelings about that post.

1. she did try to pull a fast one. when a girl gets up to run to the bathroom around the time that the bill gets there, that's a very, very clear sign to let you know she aint sh1t. she coulda said to ol boy, do u want me to pitch in? or not even ask at all and just put money down. that's some shady sh1t for any one to do. i mean, if a guy takes u to a restaurant and ur out there ordering whatever u want, knowing damn well you have no intentions of paying, that's evil.

2. second, theres some blame for the OP in this story. he shoulda just sucked this up and paid this once. and next date should have been at his house. and if she comes up with some sh1t like "I'm not comfortable coming to ur house yet", then, he should know what time it is and this chick is just looking for someone to use. and bush her fast.

3. going on dinner dates is not something that I particularly frown upon. its worked many times. but i personally feel a chick should only get one of those before y'all fucck. some don't even need that one dinner date. they can just come to your house or have drinks or something low-key before hand.

and u can tell a lot about a chick from a dinner date. if she orders a lot or gives no damn about the food she's ordering, and when the bill comes she doesn't offer to pay, then, again, back to point 1, u know this chick is evil. and by evil, i mean, this is the type of chick that will justify taking all ur sh1t in the event u find yourself married to her or have a kid by her and y'all break up. she will take all ur sh1t and justify it in her mind that "if the law says its ok, then, its ok. its mine".

the OP definitely made the situation ugly and awkward. and i decided to post this because he says he got 2 other chicks to fall back on. if he doesn't know how to handle these awkward situations, he'll fucck up those other two. @George Gooney move with care.

i agree with everyything you've posted. if homie wanted to be petty however the simple solution would've been to tell the waiter, could you split the bill?
at the end of the day he has the right and the waitress would have to oblige. fukk paying for everything when the girl just skates off.

 

[Throwbacksample]

How can I stop being so sprung?

I just started dating this girl a few weeks ago, and I am deeply in love with her and I’m not sure she really feels the same.

Everytime she needs something or wants something from me, I get it. I’ve had a couple girlfriends before but she is one of the finest and is real popular at school. She confides in me everything about life and all that

Some of my friends that are more experienced with girls have been clowning on me, and I came in here and started reading post and realized I’m fukkng up again!

How can I fall back on her some but still show her I care brehs?

deeply in love after dating her for 3 weeks?? pull back bro.you will end up getting hurt

 

[Turbulent]

I'm of mixed feelings about that post.

1. she did try to pull a fast one. when a girl gets up to run to the bathroom around the time that the bill gets there, that's a very, very clear sign to let you know she aint sh1t. she coulda said to ol boy, do u want me to pitch in? or not even ask at all and just put money down. that's some shady sh1t for any one to do. i mean, if a guy takes u to a restaurant and ur out there ordering whatever u want, knowing damn well you have no intentions of paying, that's evil.

2. second, theres some blame for the OP in this story. he shoulda just sucked this up and paid this once. and next date should have been at his house. and if she comes up with some sh1t like "I'm not comfortable coming to ur house yet", then, he should know what time it is and this chick is just looking for someone to use. and bush her fast.

3. going on dinner dates is not something that I particularly frown upon. its worked many times. but i personally feel a chick should only get one of those before y'all fucck. some don't even need that one dinner date. they can just come to your house or have drinks or something low-key before hand.

and u can tell a lot about a chick from a dinner date. if she orders a lot or gives no damn about the food she's ordering, and when the bill comes she doesn't offer to pay, then, again, back to point 1, u know this chick is evil. and by evil, i mean, this is the type of chick that will justify taking all ur sh1t in the event u find yourself married to her or have a kid by her and y'all break up. she will take all ur sh1t and justify it in her mind that "if the law says its ok, then, its ok. its mine".

the OP definitely made the situation ugly and awkward. and i decided to post this because he says he got 2 other chicks to fall back on. if he doesn't know how to handle these awkward situations, he'll fucck up those other two. @George Gooney move with care.

totally agree. that getting up for the bathroom move is very corny on her part. but he should have eaten that L cause he's still responsible for it.

also, he should have googled the place before going. and if he was really tight with money, he should have asked for the bill right away when the waitress offered the desert menu.

i only had one awkward date with a girl in my whole life as far as the bill and it was because i legit lost my card which i'm pretty sure she didn't believe . didn't have no cash either. I learned my lesson and i always have some cash as well as some change on me now.