Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Been on 3 dates within that last two weeks all different women ... all of them texted they enjoyed there night and I'm chill and whatever But fukk all that man I'm tryna get in some cheeks any gems for a nikka to close the deal
FIrst mistake was going on dates with them , making them think they more important than they really are. You have forced them to put up a shield and want to come off as valueable and worth your efforts. They will want to milk you for any more dates they can before putting out. NEVER go on dates with hoes you wanna smash. Dates are for women you are already dating, something u do in order to spice up the relationship. :ufdup:
 

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theres no real gem on how to close the deal. every girl is different
the only thing you can do is be aggresive. dont be timid/shy and make a conscious effort to initiate body contact
touching is insanely important. it subconsciously builds comfort and turns up the heat with the quickness. never sit across from the chick, always have her sit next to you on the date. the shyt aint a job interview. these girls look too good for me not to touch them. lol

and make sure you look women in the eyes. it conveys confidence, illustrates conviction in what youre saying and lets the broad know youre actually listening to what shes saying.

the eye contact makes them fukkin melt. shyt is THE CHEAT CODE

touching them, maintaining eye contact, and speaking clearly are the keys to the panties coming off
 

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touching is insanely important. it subconsciously builds comfort and turns up the heat with the quickness. never sit across from the chick, always have her sit next to you on the date. the shyt aint a job interview. these girls look too good for me not to touch them. lol

and make sure you look women in the eyes. it conveys confidence, illustrates conviction in what youre saying and lets the broad know youre actually listening to what shes saying.

the eye contact makes them fukkin melt. shyt is THE CHEAT CODE

touching them, maintaining eye contact, and speaking clearly are the keys to the panties coming off

i agree with this one. This one nerd chick I posted about here seems to be withdrawing from me. I saw her yesterday and didnt touch her at all :francis:, soon after she wanted to leave and I started regretting not doing anything :snoop:. I am not used to hitting on nerdy women cause they soft spoken and confuse me. Im used to rachet agressive hoe who I tongue down with the quickness because I can read their body language more easily
 
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FIrst mistake was going on dates with them , making them think they more important than they really are. You have forced them to put up a shield and want to come off as valueable and worth your efforts. They will want to milk you for any more dates they can before putting out. NEVER go on dates with hoes you wanna smash. Dates are for women you are already dating, something u do in order to spice up the relationship. :ufdup:
U might be right cuz the girls I usually smash I never took them anywhere :ohhh:
 
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Been on 3 dates within that last two weeks all different women ... all of them texted they enjoyed there night and I'm chill and whatever But fukk all that man I'm tryna get in some cheeks any gems for a nikka to close the deal
Now that I think about it I think my man problem is that I don't have an apartment I'm sure most of the females I took out would go back with me to the crib from there it would be a wrap..... I gotta get a crib:russell:
 

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Been on 3 dates within that last two weeks all different women ... all of them texted they enjoyed there night and I'm chill and whatever But fukk all that man I'm tryna get in some cheeks any gems for a nikka to close the deal

if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?" :dame:

meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.

if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol

shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.

dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.

she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.

when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.

but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.

if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny. :camby:"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol

but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol

each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.

if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.

bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!

you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?" :shaq:
 

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U might be right cuz the girls I usually smash I never took them anywhere :ohhh:
exactly! you want to make sure that she also goes out of her way to try and meet u halfway and prove that she's worth your time. Dont try to impress her by doing things u think she'll love. She might be the typa chick who hates dates but is agreeing to go because she doesnt wanna come off as rude by turning down your offer. If you can cook (really doesnt matter if your cooking is shytty, what matters is her company) invite her over to help u cook dinner and drink wine together while doing it. This will give both of you the opportunity to get to know one another while being "free" from date etiquette. This will give you way to make your move at any time instead of being being restricted by being across the table like how you would be on a date.
 

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if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?" :dame:

meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.

if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol

shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.

dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.

she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.

when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.

but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.

if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny. :camby:"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol

but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol

each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.

if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.

bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!

you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?" :shaq:
:banderas: 10/10 post right here :whew:
 

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if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?" :dame:

meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.

if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol

shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.

dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.

she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.

when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.

but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.

if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny. :camby:"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol

but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol

each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.

if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.

bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!

you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?" :shaq:


Motherfukking Gospel

You gotta warm her up, be in her space, touch her caress her, let her know you got a dikk and plan to use it
 

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if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?" :dame:

meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.

if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol

shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.

dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.

she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.

when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.

but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.

if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny. :camby:"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol

but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol

each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.

if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.

bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!

you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?" :shaq:
Repped for bringing actual detail to "be aggressive".
 

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Would y'all mess with a fast food worker? Cute, slim thing at Popeye's I have my eye on. :patrice:

Did before actually worked at Popeyes on post ended up being fukk buddy with free food enjoyed it while it last a whole 2 weeks :ahh:
 
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