Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Uitomy]

You gotta delete it and love in real life nikka. Take time for yourself and just do you.

Well I can’t really delete myshyt cause I have to make my photography visible, but I’m definitely cleaning the shyt out,
I’m definitely gonna follow your advice tho, it’s a bit hard cause I think I have a sub conscious neednto check on people now cause it’s convenient having instant connection but that’s the same as instant gratification. Life is funny

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

I don’t think I can deal with women like that anymore , at 22 I’m burned the fukk out. Like I can barely be friends with any of them and if I am they literally put me on a cut off limit for simple shyt. This one girl keeps telling me about these rappers she be fukking with and I just tell her I do not like them and a bunch of other shyt, she did it again today we argued, and stopped talking to me saying I never say nice shyt about anyone even tho she be confiding and relying on me for shyt.

Then trying to get to know a girl to date Just is too time consuming and trying to fukk, I just don’t feel motivated. Like I’m just gonna settle with the girl friends I got, and after this date I go on with this chick this week imma lay shyt on the table and see if she wanna move further, if that don’t work out I don’t realistically see myself dating or fukking anything for and indefinite amount of time.

Like man, with this snap chat and tinder and Instagram shyt it’s fukking with my head too much, too much anger and sadness and loneliness.

@ the bolded: This is why you need a roster. Trying to vibe and get to know one single girl almost never works out unless she's feeling you too. After one chick flakes on you, just move on to the next one in line. Don't wait on a woman.

And I agree w/ your post as a whole. Idfw these new rappers like that at all. Unfortunately, that's all people in my age range wanna talk about. Same with apps, you can't even have a normal convo w/o someone bringing up ig, snap, etc. People don't wanna talk face to face anymore they just wanna talk over text and apps.

 

[Uitomy]

@ the bolded: This is why you need a roster. Trying to vibe and get to know one single girl almost never works out unless she's feeling you too. After one chick flakes on you, just move on to the next one in line. Don't wait on a woman.

And I agree w/ your post as a whole. Idfw these new rappers like that at all. Unfortunately, that's all people in my age range wanna talk about. Same with apps, you can't even have a normal convo w/o someone bringing up ig, snap, etc. People don't wanna talk face to face anymore they just wanna talk over text and apps.

I guess, I sorta kinda have a roster but it’s really a bunch of cool chicks that live out of state, I’ll probably just eat a bit once I save some cash and hit my mid 20’s, sometimes I forget women aren’t really too receptive to guys my age with out that primitive shove my dikk in their face instinct.

Yeah man I think there’s a certain social bubble that’s gonna pop in this generation that’s gonna lead to a lot of people being super depressed lonely and out of touch, like to the point that if you have even the slightest bit of a personality you’ll be happy but probably ostracized

Also why are hoes so damn boring, idk how nikkas manage to fukk some of these women with how shytty their conversation is

 

[True Blue Moon]

@Mike Ock Come up off them flaws breh

 

[VertigoKnight]

Also why are hoes so damn boring, idk how nikkas manage to fukk some of these women with how shytty their conversation is

Biggest turn off for me. Though from talking to chicks a lot of guys are the same. Dry chat. Topics of interest are small. Though I usually whittle those kind of women out just from the first stages.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Whenever I shot my shot(Cold Approach) without overthinking and Hesitation. Being Rejected never bothered me that much.

It's when I waited and overthought about the situation. And that person Constantly is when I developed and An "Obsession". They call that oneitis I guess

 

[NeilCartwright]

Had my homegirl call me out the blue a while back after I liked a whole bunch of her IG pics. Basically telling me she's feeling me yada yada

Bear in mind when I met her she had a girlfriend, talking bout she was gay (or at the very least, bi). This girl is 5'2 fat ahh titties, knows how to wear makeup, got thirsty Nikka's feenin on IG etc

I was out of town for work but I said we'd link we I came back. I'm back in town and she hits me talking bout "You gonna take me out right?"

I gave an ambiguous answer, bc I've been there. Been fcking on women who would tell me dudes are spending hella $$ on them and all I had was my own spot and a bottle of brown liq. I think In a strange way they respected my honesty and me not trying to wine and dine them.

I wanted a second opinion on if taking her out is tricking. I'm 23, graduated this past May and she's 24 with one more semester left. She stays talking about how she wants to settle down within the next 3 years. But we all know we can't trust what a bird says

Eventually I'm gonna have to start taking these hoes out but on the college scene I've been getting by on just kicking it at the crib, or going out to the club with a group and coming over afterwards to smash

 

[ZoeGod]

Who?

This video he spits game on confidence. But his youtube videos got alot of good gems.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You're trippin just hit her with do u wanna come drink brown with me.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Ended up meeting my ex somewhere and giving her a rose. Lol in 4 the fukkery, we just talked and kicked it then her friend showed up n I walked them 2 the train, and went home.

Weird considering the saga. D.C. chick still ain't hmu. Ive been getting vibes tho. Need to focus on my career and education thi

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Ended up meeting my ex somewhere and giving her a rose. Lol in 4 the fukkery, we just talked and kicked it then her friend showed up n I walked them 2 the train, and went home.

Weird considering the saga. D.C. chick still ain't hmu. Ive been getting vibes tho. Need to focus on my career and education thi

You have a 50% chance on an ethopian chick from the dmv area. They only fukk with they own. From ya post she seem like one of those fake weirdo chicks that moved away. She was probably lowkey wenching out here back home tbh alot of em barely give AAs play

Only east african chicks I smashed were 2. One was from Cali other from the silver spring area.

Them habeshas aint gonna let it be known tjey wanna fukk tbh unless they feel real comfortable with you

 

[ball15life]

Had my homegirl call me out the blue a while back after I liked a whole bunch of her IG pics. Basically telling me she's feeling me yada yada

Bear in mind when I met her she had a girlfriend, talking bout she was gay (or at the very least, bi). This girl is 5'2 fat ahh titties, knows how to wear makeup, got thirsty Nikka's feenin on IG etc

I was out of town for work but I said we'd link we I came back. I'm back in town and she hits me talking bout "You gonna take me out right?"

I gave an ambiguous answer, bc I've been there. Been fcking on women who would tell me dudes are spending hella $$ on them and all I had was my own spot and a bottle of brown liq. I think In a strange way they respected my honesty and me not trying to wine and dine them.

I wanted a second opinion on if taking her out is tricking. I'm 23, graduated this past May and she's 24 with one more semester left. She stays talking about how she wants to settle down within the next 3 years. But we all know we can't trust what a bird says

Eventually I'm gonna have to start taking these hoes out but on the college scene I've been getting by on just kicking it at the crib, or going out to the club with a group and coming over afterwards to smash

I don't think it's necessarily tricking...just keep it relatively cheap

 

[MikelArteta]

Was messing with this chick for a lil bit and then she said we should stop because I'm quiet and she feels like she can't be her extroverted outgoing self around me and said that you shoild probably mess with women who are like yourself quiet I said allright.

Days go by then she hits me up mad at me because I didn't fight for her

I told her you said you didn't like that I'm introverted and to find someone like me what did you expect for me to say I'll be an extrovert and beg?

These women are crazy, if you beg and promise a,b and c they laugh and giggle and look at you like a simple if you just accept it and move on your a pos who used them and didn't care.

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

Was messing with this chick for a lil bit and then she said we should stop because I'm quiet and she feels like she can't be her extroverted outgoing self around me and said that you shoild probably mess with women who are like yourself quiet I said allright.

Days go by then she hits me up mad at me because I didn't fight for her

I told her you said you didn't like that I'm introverted and to find someone like me what did you expect for me to say I'll be an extrovert and beg?

These women are crazy, if you beg and promise a,b and c they laugh and giggle and look at you like a simple if you just accept it and move on your a pos who used them and didn't care.

Ya, I've experienced similar. Women are used to men thirsting over them, so when a guy doesn't follow suit she'll try and push him away hoping he'll take it as a challenge to chase after her... And if you actually move away they act like you're the problem lol. A lot of them don't know what they want; If you're lax with them they assume you don't care but if you put in a lot of effort they call you thirsty

And as for extroverts and introverts:

Extroverts get uncomfortable around introverts and vice versa. It's like the unstoppable force meets the immovable object. Something's got to give for the other to feel comfortable.

I think it's worse when the male is introvert and the female is extrovert, because of the gender dynamic. Since extroverts are presumed to be dominant (masculine trait) and introverts are presumed to be submissive (feminine trait).

 

[letti cook]

so....i talked about how women lose interest when i show interest....the girl i was talking about just responded to my text....3...weeks...later...

that shyt fukks with me...

and i know not to let her know that...

but this type of shyt and the way it keep happening like that just got me in my head...i dont even know how to respond or if I should at all