Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shadow King]

Has anyone ever tried to "manifest" a mate, or "ask the universe"? (I put them in quotations bc I figure some of you don't really believe in that shyt)...

If so, I want to ask a couple of questions regarding that. I've looked up some info on it, but I'd really like to hear from somoene who has done it...

You mean wish and wish for a woman hard enough till the universe grants you one?

1. u dont know the girl. if its a bad date, the awkwardness and the the discomfort of the date will be too noticeable and embarrassing. same thing with going on dinner dates with chicks on the first date. sure, some dinner dates or even bowling dates can end quite well, but generally, they dont. and u cant always just walk out on a dinner date.
2. all first date should be to gauge attraction level. u cant really talk in depth when ur both stuffing ur face. and its hella weird trying to answer questions with food in ur mouth.

if u want to have some fun, go bowling with ur friends. if ur looking for a romantic event, pick environments that work in ur favor.

I feel like awkwardness will be stand out sorely on any bad date. I'm just trying to avoid food based dates like you said. But the way I've come to see dating lately, unless it's a involving physical activity, they're all interviews you pay to be on.

 

[TRUEST]

You mean wish and wish for a woman hard enough till the universe grants you one?

I feel like awkwardness will be stand out sorely on any bad date. I'm just trying to avoid food based dates like you said. But the way I've come to see dating lately, unless it's a involving physical activity, they're all interviews you pay to be on.

if u feel comfortable in a bowling environment, that doesn't mean she will. but yeah, dates are always going to be like interviews. the trick is to tease and tease. but not in a condescending mean spirited way. but enough to get her giggle. if u feel its an interview and ur the one asking all the questions, thats typically indicative of low interest on her part. so its best u bail early lest u waste ur time. remember, a chick will ask u many questions about u if she's intrigued.

and if the date is bad, i can't imagine a scenario where bailing out gracefully is possible in a bowling type situation.

 

[International Playa]

You mean wish and wish for a woman hard enough till the universe grants you one?

I feel like awkwardness will be stand out sorely on any bad date. I'm just trying to avoid food based dates like you said. But the way I've come to see dating lately, unless it's a involving physical activity, they're all interviews you pay to be on.

I feel activity dates are the best dates especially for brehs without a strong mouthpiece. When yall doing the activity yall focused on what yall doing & talking about it, so there is not much pressure to have an interesting conversation

 

[International Playa]

Has anyone ever tried to "manifest" a mate, or "ask the universe"? (I put them in quotations bc I figure some of you don't really believe in that shyt)...

If so, I want to ask a couple of questions regarding that. I've looked up some info on it, but I'd really like to hear from somoene who has done it...

Will upload a podcast that discussed this subject by this brotha who was a top player in the game

 

[TheArchitect]

Will upload a podcast that discussed this subject by this brotha who was a top player in the game

Please do....

You mean wish and wish for a woman hard enough till the universe grants you one?

I wouldn't say all that, just I've being looking into the law of attraction, so I figured why not try it....

But for anyone ho can be bothered for now, here's my question.....

Spoiler

Since it's said it's not really good to try and manifest a specific person, what thought process would you use to manifest one you would date? Specific personality traits are one thing, but if you don't picture how exactly they would look, what do you do? Should you get a bunch of pics together of females you would actually date (not just fukk, but DATE) and try to imagine how you would feel if you were dating any of them? I may be overthinking but I just don't want to manifest some shyt I don't want, but at the same time being TOO specific might make things a little difficult for the universe to help you.....

 

[Cynic]

She hit me back. I’m going to her house tonight

 

[Shadow King]

if u feel comfortable in a bowling environment, that doesn't mean she will. but yeah, dates are always going to be like interviews. the trick is to tease and tease. but not in a condescending mean spirited way. but enough to get her giggle. if u feel its an interview and ur the one asking all the questions, thats typically indicative of low interest on her part. so its best u bail early lest u waste ur time. remember, a chick will ask u many questions about u if she's intrigued.

and if the date is bad, i can't imagine a scenario where bailing out gracefully is possible in a bowling type situation.

This is likely because I don't date but honestly outside of a food/movie-based date, maybe a museum, I'm not imagining too many out of the box dates they'll be comfortable on. Weather also plays a factor in possibilities if you're not in a 65+ year-round area (like me) your options narrow.

 

[Javed]

Wrong thread

 

[BigMan]

Você já sabe qual é:knicksmynikka:

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

I feel activity dates are the best dates especially for brehs without a strong mouthpiece. When yall doing the activity yall focused on what yall doing & talking about it, so there is not much pressure to have an interesting conversation

They also help with weeding out the chicks who just want to use a breh for free meals.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

I realized I have some sick fantasy piece of shyt turn on about smashing another dudes girl. I'm not talking about that white people cuckhold shyt but that you and her alone and she like I shouldn't be doing this I got a bf but you still smash.

Can someone explain why i have that type of mentality? That shyt could literally get me killed by a nikka so I should never go fourth with trying that shyt.

I went thru the drive thru at steak n shake. asked for the girl number at the window. She said she doesn't have a phone but i can add her on fb. she accepted. Then I'm at home when i notice she got a man then i realize she told me she can't text but i can add her which basically meant you cant text me because i have a bf but id still be down lowkey so just add me because you never know and that shyt made me feel


brehs help me out this the type of shyt that get people killed
i hate shyt people who do shyt things like this but im a hypocrite cause i love the thought of this type of shyt and idk y.

i mean obviously i wont message her ill just go back to the chick ive been smashing until i find another chick. i just gotta be careful before i end up slipping.

I'm going to say 2 things.....

1.) I don't condone fukking nikkaz bytches because not EVERY nikka is capable of pulling it off without getting smoked or beaten up.

2.) Whoever you're smashing right now, just focus on that. Be glad you even got some p*ssy to smash to begin with. Disregard the other hoe.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Any bytch that has a nikkaz number still saved in it that they don't deal with at the moment (Ex-Bf, fukkbuddy) means there's still some strings attached or they're trying to keep you to use you for later use when shyt goes sour. Not always necessarily a good thing.

A real cut-throat bytch ain't giving a shyt about no past nikka

 

[International Playa]

@TheArchitect

that podcast


how to attract and keep the perfect woman for you


www.vocaroo.com/i/s0YBQz5DzQfh

 

[Mr.bocario]

Has anyone ever tried to "manifest" a mate, or "ask the universe"? (I put them in quotations bc I figure some of you don't really believe in that shyt)...

If so, I want to ask a couple of questions regarding that. I've looked up some info on it, but I'd really like to hear from somoene who has done it...

Just constantly tell yourself you're constantly surrounded cooperative attractive women, how smooth you are, how much women want to be with you over and over and over again. No matter what your eyes see hold that that constantly

 

[Chef]

Update to all the brehs and brehettes lurking.

Grind your ass off and don’t adopt that loser mentality. I got laid off my first job in restaurant job a month ago and it wrecked me mentally. On top of coming out a bad relationship a few months prior, I was in a bad spot.

I recently rebounded and got a new job in a new kitchen and I’ve never felt happier. It’s an incredibly stressing job but I love every bit of it. Keep challenges in front of you to stay busy. Learn something new everyday. I’m the least experienced member on the staff but I always try to find a way to improve every minute I’m there.