Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Coli brehs I need some going to club game:francis: its Caribbean party sp i expect alot of grinding type shyt which i have no experience:hhh:
Anyway i watch a old Tariq video and he says its best to approach tons of females at 1st then leave them(ask how they doing....I'm see you later the nigh) then thru out the night it makes it less awkward to talk with them:ehh:
Does that still apply for 2017 clubs:francis:
Go for the female that gives u eye contact, no matter how ugly she looks
 

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Sup to all the new Class Of 2017 brehs, in the School of Trill Game & Constant Self-Development :jawalrus:

To all of you here struggling with females and likely other aspects of life as well. Have no fear. Simply soak up the game and excellent advice being dished out in this thread, and you WILL become a mothafukkin champ. Belii dat :birdman:

Let me remind you of the essentials in becoming the best version of yourself as a man:

-ALWAYS value and respect yourself - your body, time, money... Everything.

-LIFT WEIGHTS. And please - mostly compound lifts only (5x5 stronglifts is a fantastic program for any beginner or intermediate lifter). I used to think going to the gym was for dummies, on some ''Yeah well I'm a witty and charming breh. I'm good, don't need no muscles :myman:'' .... WRONG. NO feminine female in the history of mankind has NOT liked a strong and atleast relatively fit man... But really, it's way more to it. Lifting does wonders to your testosterone levels, self-confidence, posture and overall swag. So just do it :leostare:

-EAT CLEAN... for me this is an almost vegan diet consisting of whole foods with plenty of protein, good fats and complex carbs. At the very least, you should minimize eating red meat. Occasional shytty eating is fully fine of course... Simply put, avoid estrogenic diets and eat shyt that boosts your testosterone levels, aka eat shyt that makes you even more manly :pachaha:

-Be sure to do something that truly makes you happy every day, and learn something new everyday.


... All of this is to make you the best possible version of yourself. In the process of all this, you'll notice yourself becoming the chooser, instead of the thirsty ass simp you used to be.


And last but sure as fukk not the least, some truly instrumental reading, a la the recommendations by one of this thread's godfathers @True Blue Moon - so far I've read a few of them, and gawd daaamn have I found some of the info very useful:

The Alchemist
The Way of the Superior Man
No More Mr. Nice Guy Blue Truth
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
Think and Grow Rich
The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
You Are a Badass
You Are a Badass at Making Money
The Universe Has Your Back
The Art of War
The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
The Kyballian
The 50th Law
The 48 Laws of Power
The Art of Seduction Mastery
Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
The 5 Second Rule Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
Pimp by Iceberg Slim
Rosebudd Bitterdose
Mating in Captivity
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
The Upside of Your Dark Side
Ego is the Enemy
The Obstacle is the Way
The Power of Vulnerability
The Tao Te Ching
The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human) The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche Wild at Heart Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive) Enlightened Sex by David Deida Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).''

:blessed::blessed::blessed:
 

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Sup to all the new Class Of 2017 brehs, in the School of Trill Game & Constant Self-Development :jawalrus:

To all of you here struggling with females and likely other aspects of life as well. Have no fear. Simply soak up the game and excellent advice being dished out in this thread, and you WILL become a mothafukkin champ. Belii dat :birdman:

Let me remind you of the essentials in becoming the best version of yourself as a man:

-ALWAYS value and respect yourself - your body, time, money... Everything.

-LIFT WEIGHTS. And please - mostly compound lifts only (5x5 stronglifts is a fantastic program for any beginner or intermediate lifter). I used to think going to the gym was for dummies, on some ''Yeah well I'm a witty and charming breh. I'm good, don't need no muscles :myman:'' .... WRONG. NO feminine female in the history of mankind has NOT liked a strong and atleast relatively fit man... But really, it's way more to it. Lifting does wonders to your testosterone levels, self-confidence, posture and overall swag. So just do it :leostare:

-EAT CLEAN... for me this is an almost vegan diet consisting of whole foods with plenty of protein, good fats and complex carbs. At the very least, you should minimize eating red meat. Occasional shytty eating is fully fine of course... Simply put, avoid estrogenic diets and eat shyt that boosts your testosterone levels, aka eat shyt that makes you even more manly :pachaha:

-Be sure to do something that truly makes you happy every day, and learn something new everyday.


... All of this is to make you the best possible version of yourself. In the process of all this, you'll notice yourself becoming the chooser, instead of the thirsty ass simp you used to be.


And last but sure as fukk not the least, some truly instrumental reading, a la the recommendations by one of this thread's godfathers @True Blue Moon - so far I've read a few of them, and gawd daaamn have I found some of the info very useful:

The Alchemist
The Way of the Superior Man
No More Mr. Nice Guy Blue Truth
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
Think and Grow Rich
The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
You Are a Badass
You Are a Badass at Making Money
The Universe Has Your Back
The Art of War
The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
The Kyballian
The 50th Law
The 48 Laws of Power
The Art of Seduction Mastery
Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
The 5 Second Rule Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
Pimp by Iceberg Slim
Rosebudd Bitterdose
Mating in Captivity
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
The Upside of Your Dark Side
Ego is the Enemy
The Obstacle is the Way
The Power of Vulnerability
The Tao Te Ching
The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human) The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche Wild at Heart Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive) Enlightened Sex by David Deida Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).''

:blessed::blessed::blessed:
Yall got any links for the books?
 

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Man I'm not even into blocking folks on social media but I have to in this case. :stopitslime: My fukking ex keeps ANNOYING me.


She is trying unearth some bullshyt from MONTHS ago about a coworker we used to work with that she works now.

Basically the girl showed her texts I sent her attempting to converse with her over the past year. I shot my shot several times with her when I wasn't with her I admit. The girl would like/comment things and I would message her. Part of the time my ex and I were together. I never crossed the line in terms of flirting, cheating, etc.

Anyways I don't know what her end goal is. During the downfall of our relationship I admit I talked to other girls as in casual conversation. I never flirted or cheated. Compliments at worst. I even had a fukking old female friend send me pics of her breast implants unsolicited but I didn't try anything.

She was using the stuff to ridicule me and also make me feel like a POS. She fails to acknowledge that she did shytty things in the past too.

I'm not upset with her but I really have no time to entertain or argue with her. She blocks me on FB but tries to contact me once a month. Even worse she still talks to my mother because she wanted her to her mother in law. My mother doesn't respect my wishes to stop talking to her.

Long story short I'm done playing those emotional games. Ruined my night almost after having a really good date with a 25 year old.
 

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Man I'm not even into blocking folks on social media but I have to in this case. :stopitslime: My fukking ex keeps ANNOYING me.


She is trying unearth some bullshyt from MONTHS ago about a coworker we used to work with that she works now.

Basically the girl showed her texts I sent her attempting to converse with her over the past year. I shot my shot several times with her when I wasn't with her I admit. The girl would like/comment things and I would message her. Part of the time my ex and I were together. I never crossed the line in terms of flirting, cheating, etc.

Anyways I don't know what her end goal is. During the downfall of our relationship I admit I talked to other girls as in casual conversation. I never flirted or cheated. Compliments at worst. I even had a fukking old female friend send me pics of her breast implants unsolicited but I didn't try anything.

She was using the stuff to ridicule me and also make me feel like a POS. She fails to acknowledge that she did shytty things in the past too.

I'm not upset with her but I really have no time to entertain or argue with her. She blocks me on FB but tries to contact me once a month. Even worse she still talks to my mother because she wanted her to her mother in law. My mother doesn't respect my wishes to stop talking to her.

Long story short I'm done playing those emotional games. Ruined my night almost after having a really good date with a 25 year old.

Yoo!!! I had this EXACT same situation before. Word for word. This is strange to read. :damn:
 

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Man I'm not even into blocking folks on social media but I have to in this case. :stopitslime: My fukking ex keeps ANNOYING me.


She is trying unearth some bullshyt from MONTHS ago about a coworker we used to work with that she works now.

Basically the girl showed her texts I sent her attempting to converse with her over the past year. I shot my shot several times with her when I wasn't with her I admit. The girl would like/comment things and I would message her. Part of the time my ex and I were together. I never crossed the line in terms of flirting, cheating, etc.

Anyways I don't know what her end goal is. During the downfall of our relationship I admit I talked to other girls as in casual conversation. I never flirted or cheated. Compliments at worst. I even had a fukking old female friend send me pics of her breast implants unsolicited but I didn't try anything.

She was using the stuff to ridicule me and also make me feel like a POS. She fails to acknowledge that she did shytty things in the past too.

I'm not upset with her but I really have no time to entertain or argue with her. She blocks me on FB but tries to contact me once a month. Even worse she still talks to my mother because she wanted her to her mother in law. My mother doesn't respect my wishes to stop talking to her.

Long story short I'm done playing those emotional games. Ruined my night almost after having a really good date with a 25 year old.
Tell her she ruined y'alls relationship and thats the reality
 

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Uh, shorty has to work with a girl that her ex man wanted to slash while they were together? Her ego is lumped up like Martin and she chose you as a victim.

I always thought the girl was attractive but I didn't try shyt while dating my ex. Fun and friendly more than anything and I didn't even get sexual.

I would have pursued harder when I was single and tried a little but shut me down so I moved on.

Girl even did empty gesture shyt on FB after my father's death "if there's anything you need let me" know shyt.:stopitslime:
 
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I always thought the girl was attractive but I didn't try shyt while dating my ex. Fun and friendly more than anything and I didn't even get sexual.

I would have pursued harder when I was single and tried a little but shut me down so I moved on.

Girl even did empty gesture shyt on FB after my father's death "if there's anything you need let me" know shyt.:stopitslime:

Attention is attention mane...You text shorty "Hey" your ex sees "Hey, I'm trying to cheat on my annoying ass fukking girl with you. With it?"
 

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Sup to all the new Class Of 2017 brehs, in the School of Trill Game & Constant Self-Development :jawalrus:

To all of you here struggling with females and likely other aspects of life as well. Have no fear. Simply soak up the game and excellent advice being dished out in this thread, and you WILL become a mothafukkin champ. Belii dat :birdman:

Let me remind you of the essentials in becoming the best version of yourself as a man:

-ALWAYS value and respect yourself - your body, time, money... Everything.

-LIFT WEIGHTS. And please - mostly compound lifts only (5x5 stronglifts is a fantastic program for any beginner or intermediate lifter). I used to think going to the gym was for dummies, on some ''Yeah well I'm a witty and charming breh. I'm good, don't need no muscles :myman:'' .... WRONG. NO feminine female in the history of mankind has NOT liked a strong and atleast relatively fit man... But really, it's way more to it. Lifting does wonders to your testosterone levels, self-confidence, posture and overall swag. So just do it :leostare:

-EAT CLEAN... for me this is an almost vegan diet consisting of whole foods with plenty of protein, good fats and complex carbs. At the very least, you should minimize eating red meat. Occasional shytty eating is fully fine of course... Simply put, avoid estrogenic diets and eat shyt that boosts your testosterone levels, aka eat shyt that makes you even more manly :pachaha:

-Be sure to do something that truly makes you happy every day, and learn something new everyday.


... All of this is to make you the best possible version of yourself. In the process of all this, you'll notice yourself becoming the chooser, instead of the thirsty ass simp you used to be.


And last but sure as fukk not the least, some truly instrumental reading, a la the recommendations by one of this thread's godfathers @True Blue Moon - so far I've read a few of them, and gawd daaamn have I found some of the info very useful:

The Alchemist
The Way of the Superior Man
No More Mr. Nice Guy Blue Truth
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
Think and Grow Rich
The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
You Are a Badass
You Are a Badass at Making Money
The Universe Has Your Back
The Art of War
The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
The Kyballian
The 50th Law
The 48 Laws of Power
The Art of Seduction Mastery
Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
The 5 Second Rule Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
Pimp by Iceberg Slim
Rosebudd Bitterdose
Mating in Captivity
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
The Upside of Your Dark Side
Ego is the Enemy
The Obstacle is the Way
The Power of Vulnerability
The Tao Te Ching
The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human) The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche Wild at Heart Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive) Enlightened Sex by David Deida Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).''

:blessed::blessed::blessed:

Nothing but love :salute:
 
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